I decided to ask humbly please how do u guys handle ur dependants being friends, family members, relatives, religious members etc regular financial assistance demands.

Previously at their calls/text one can easily send between 2k-20k easily but now fuel & high cost of living is setting new reality and these guys refuses to understand & move on

Even when u try to explain as a family man with demostic responsibility they refuses to understand, some will even want to use this terms "me & my kids haven't eat for days" to soften you.

mbok how are you handling urs? Some Sundays I decided to stay back from service just to avoid demands wahala, now I don't pick some calls or reply to SMS, am tired or do they want me & my wife stop driving our car to work for them to believe it not easy for all.

Please how do you handle yours?

Send them to me.

Na u wan prove to them you be sweet Uncle.

You want to use them do ritual

VeryWickedMan:
Send them to me.

"i am very sorry but i cant help you. all the best with your situation".. EOD!

Not like that nothing to prove, but to some people 2k-5k then is nothing but now every kobo is highly needed especially to join take fuel car/Gen

b3llo:
Na u wan prove to them you be sweet Uncle.

Budget a particular amount for them. Only remove from that money to cater to their needs. When the money finishes, tell them till next month.
Be very disciplined about this. Ensure you don't touch any other money that is not part of the dependant budget.

You want to continue displeasing yourself to please people

It's doesn't work that way

Once dem call u
Before anything
Start complaining of the country, fuel subsidy and all

So that even if dey are forced to ask
You will easily tell dem you don't have


Na u dey answer
Everything is fine oo
When dem ask you how work and family

May God bless you as you continue to give your bit to help the hardship brought about by a satanic coalition called Apc. When you ar exhausted jst tell dem


Btwn 2015 to date life has worsened fr millions of people more than during the civil war.


In 2015 gangs of satanic men y to ook over government of Nigeria

Not an easy one people are really suffering in this country especially to eat

KingOfIsoko1:
May God bless you as you continue to give your bit to help the hardship brought about by a satanic coalition called Apc. When you ar exhausted jst tell dem


Btwn 2015 to date life has worsened fr millions of people more than during the civil war.


In 2015 gangs of satanic men y to ook over government of Nigeria