Candidlady:




God una won't kill me on the forum

Abeg who come be yam and who is the goat 😁😁😁😁

No be my mouth you go hear that one.

Doolove:
Good afternoon everyone, I am currently in a fix and doesn't know my way around the cross road that I have found myself in. I will try to be very brief.

I just graduated not long ago and just finished my project a couple of weeks back. I've been looking for a job and submitted my cv is some places.

Now there is a single man in his mid forties that has been on my case, he has bailed me financially several times and already shown interest in me and my boyfriend knows about the man. He is also aware that the man tried to force himself on me when I went to visit him on two separate occasions but I managed to escape.

The man offered to connect me to a job that pays 50k in abj while I stay in a room in his apartment since he's not always in town. Now this is an upgrade to the 20k jobs that I've been seeing in my present location but my issue is that my boyfriend is against me staying in the man's house because he knows the man is interested in me.

Instead, he is suggesting I stay with my rich uncle that resides in Abj but the issue is that the man is too strict and everyone in the family avoids him so I can't possibly stay there.
My guy is facing some financial challenges and I can't depend on him right now. On the other hand I am not free with this man, I am always jittery around him and can't wait to leave. He's already playing a boyfriend role now and I am scared he will just colonize me if I stay with him and probably start thinking about marriage which I don't want at all because I just get that father or uncle vibe whenever I am around him.

Should I stay back in my location and look for better jobs or should I move to Abj and damn the consequences of living with the man because I already know the outcome?

Seun mynd44 Dominique

Mumu...

Doolove:

It's not really about my boyfriend, I am scared of the result of staying with the man, he has tried to rape me before

Mumu...

Doolove:

It's not really about my boyfriend, I am scared of the result of staying with the man, he has tried to rape me before

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Doolove:

It's not really about my boyfriend, I am scared of the result of staying with the man, he has tried to rape me before

this time he would rape ur brain. Imagine graduate.

vincenteger:
Even if you boyfriend is not against it, you no get sense? He tried forcing himself on you 2x

You will definitely get what you're looking for.
Nonsense and ingredients.

na this type them go sleep with she would then call her boyfriend and say he forced me I don't know what came over me.

Intergrated:
na this type them go sleep with she would then call her boyfriend and say he forced me I don't know what came over me.

Tomorrow she'll look for words to justify her actions

So a full grown educated woman is asking us if she should live with a man that raped her twice, and no one seems to think this is tales by moonlight? Okay.

Sha hold extra transport in case you may need to run back to base from Uncle Abuja's house after the third attempted rape.

Jovialjune1:
So a full grown educated woman is asking us if she should live with a man that raped her twice, and no one seems to think this is tales by moonlight? Okay.

Your mother will dod same for money.

In all this, I'll prefer your strict uncle's place. E get why

If you dont want to marry him, dont move to his house before we read a news of domestic violence.
He'd provide you a job, shelter and food in return for love. It would be highly unfair if you dont give in and would be understandable if such man results in violence. Most men dont have the strength to explain things hence turn physically abusive.
If you dont want love with him, dont stay with him, maybe you can manage your 20k jobs.

Doolove:
Good afternoon everyone, I am currently in a fix and doesn't know my way around the cross road that I have found myself in. I will try to be very brief.

I just graduated not long ago and just finished my project a couple of weeks back. I've been looking for a job and submitted my cv is some places.

Now there is a single man in his mid forties that has been on my case, he has bailed me financially several times and already shown interest in me and my boyfriend knows about the man. He is also aware that the man tried to force himself on me when I went to visit him on two separate occasions but I managed to escape.

The man offered to connect me to a job that pays 50k in abj while I stay in a room in his apartment since he's not always in town. Now this is an upgrade to the 20k jobs that I've been seeing in my present location but my issue is that my boyfriend is against me staying in the man's house because he knows the man is interested in me.

Instead, he is suggesting I stay with my rich uncle that resides in Abj but the issue is that the man is too strict and everyone in the family avoids him so I can't possibly stay there.
My guy is facing some financial challenges and I can't depend on him right now. On the other hand I am not free with this man, I am always jittery around him and can't wait to leave. He's already playing a boyfriend role now and I am scared he will just colonize me if I stay with him and probably start thinking about marriage which I don't want at all because I just get that father or uncle vibe whenever I am around him.

Should I stay back in my location and look for better jobs or should I move to Abj and damn the consequences of living with the man because I already know the outcome?

Seun mynd44 Dominique

You sure say that man never fvck you?

I don't understand how this is even a dilemma. Let forget for a second that he tried to rape you TWICE!

(by the way, it seems you enjoy putting yourself in such situations.)

How would you even comfortably live with a SINGLE man who is not a relative.