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The Woman Is Married For Four Reasons by akinsmail51: 5:50pm On Oct 31, 2023
973- Abu Hurairah (may Allaah be pleased with him) reported, the Prophet (may Allaah's peace and blessings be upon him) said

"A woman is married for four reasons: for her wealth, for her class, for her beauty or for her piety. Select the pious, may your hand be rubbed in the dust!"

Related by Bukhari and Muslim.

Explanation by Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih Al Uthaymin

The purposes of people regarding marriage are different. Women are often married for these four reasons: for her wealth, class, beauty or piety.

First: "For her wealth."

For example, an old woman is married for her big fortune because she will die sooner or later.

If she is childless, he will take half of her wealth or all of it according to a weak point of view.

Second: "For her class."

Tribes are different from each other regarding superiority and inferiority.

A man who is inferior can marry from a tribe superior to his in order to upgrade himself.

So, people will say that he married this one to upgrade himself and his children.

Third: "For her beauty."

The beautiful woman is married in spite of her low class and being penniless.

Fourth: "For her religion."

This refers to the religious woman, especially a knowledgeable one.

The Muslim has to marry a woman who helps him to obey Allah.

The religious woman helps her husband to obey Allah and she is obedient to her husband.

Some religious women can choose another wife for her husband if she notices his desire for her.

If she is not religious, she will make troubles if her husband has dreamt of marrying another woman.

A religious woman is an honest one. When her husband is absent, she will not betray him.

Also, she will care for his wealth, children and family.

The Prophet said,

"Select the pious," meaning to look upon her as a prize you want to win.

"The pious" meaning the religious one.

One should know that if they follow this advice, this religious woman will turn out to be the most beautiful in one's eyes even if she is only slightly beautiful.

Beauty is not the only criterion.

Sometimes the woman looks very beautiful, but Allah makes her look ugly in her husband's view.

And he hears people talk about her beauty, but, in fact, she is not beautiful because hearts are controlled by Allah.

So, if one follows this advice, he will be in good state because he followed the Prophet's advice when he told him to select the pious.

There are some benefits in this Hadith:

1. This is a reference that men's most desirable marriage purposes revolve around these four: wealth, class, beauty and piety.

2. There is no problem if anyone marries a woman for her wealth because the Prophet approved this but he urged to marry the religious woman.

3. There is no problem if the man marries a woman for her class to upgrade himself and his children.

4. The woman can be married for her beauty. So, there is no problem if she is married for her beauty.

Maybe the man likes beauty and cannot stand looking at a woman who is not as men are so different in this respect.

5. A woman may be married for her piety even if this is the only purpose.

6. The best one of these purposes is to marry a woman for her piety as he said,

"Select the pious, may your hand be rubbed in the dust."

7. Everyone should follow the Prophet's advice. However, nowadays, most people marry a woman for her beauty and others for her wealth and class. Are these the only purposes?

No, the proof is in the abovementioned Hadith.

Source: THE BOOK OF MARRIAGE PART 1 FROM THE EXPLANATION OF BULUGH AL-MARAAM by Al-AIlaamah Muhammad Bin Saleh Al-'Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him)

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Re: The Woman Is Married For Four Reasons by Cruise777: 6:13pm On Oct 31, 2023
Masha Allah

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Re: The Woman Is Married For Four Reasons by ClimaxHerbalixt(m): 10:03am On Nov 03, 2023
Jazaakumullohu Khairan

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Re: The Woman Is Married For Four Reasons by Bolack: 10:07am On Nov 03, 2023
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Re: The Woman Is Married For Four Reasons by Chetas81(m): 10:10am On Nov 03, 2023
akinsmail51:
973- Abu Hurairah (may Allaah be pleased with him) reported, the Prophet (may Allaah's peace and blessings be upon him) said

"A woman is married for four reasons: for her wealth, for her class, for her beauty or for her piety. Select the pious, may your hand be rubbed in the dust!"

Related by Bukhari and Muslim.

Explanation by Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih Al Uthaymin

The purposes of people regarding marriage are different. Women are often married for these four reasons: for her wealth, class, beauty or piety.

First: "For her wealth."

For example, an old woman is married for her big fortune because she will die sooner or later.

If she is childless, he will take half of her wealth or all of it according to a weak point of view.

Second: "For her class."

Tribes are different from each other regarding superiority and inferiority.

A man who is inferior can marry from a tribe superior to his in order to upgrade himself.

So, people will say that he married this one to upgrade himself and his children.

Third: "For her beauty."

The beautiful woman is married in spite of her low class and being penniless.

Fourth: "For her religion."

This refers to the religious woman, especially a knowledgeable one.

The Muslim has to marry a woman who helps him to obey Allah.

The religious woman helps her husband to obey Allah and she is obedient to her husband.

Some religious women can choose another wife for her husband if she notices his desire for her.

If she is not religious, she will make troubles if her husband has dreamt of marrying another woman.

A religious woman is an honest one. When her husband is absent, she will not betray him.

Also, she will care for his wealth, children and family.

The Prophet said,

"Select the pious," meaning to look upon her as a prize you want to win.

"The pious" meaning the religious one.

One should know that if they follow this advice, this religious woman will turn out to be the most beautiful in one's eyes even if she is only slightly beautiful.

Beauty is not the only criterion.

Sometimes the woman looks very beautiful, but Allah makes her look ugly in her husband's view.

And he hears people talk about her beauty, but, in fact, she is not beautiful because hearts are controlled by Allah.

So, if one follows this advice, he will be in good state because he followed the Prophet's advice when he told him to select the pious.

There are some benefits in this Hadith:

1. This is a reference that men's most desirable marriage purposes revolve around these four: wealth, class, beauty and piety.

2. There is no problem if anyone marries a woman for her wealth because the Prophet approved this but he urged to marry the religious woman.

3. There is no problem if the man marries a woman for her class to upgrade himself and his children.

4. The woman can be married for her beauty. So, there is no problem if she is married for her beauty.

Maybe the man likes beauty and cannot stand looking at a woman who is not as men are so different in this respect.

5. A woman may be married for her piety even if this is the only purpose.

6. The best one of these purposes is to marry a woman for her piety as he said,

"Select the pious, may your hand be rubbed in the dust."

7. Everyone should follow the Prophet's advice. However, nowadays, most people marry a woman for her beauty and others for her wealth and class. Are these the only purposes?

No, the proof is in the abovementioned Hadith.

Source: THE BOOK OF MARRIAGE PART 1 FROM THE EXPLANATION OF BULUGH AL-MARAAM by Al-AIlaamah Muhammad Bin Saleh Al-'Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him)
KINDLY REMEMBER AND UNDERSTAND THAT ZIONIST DON'T LIVE THEIR LIFE ON RELIGION THEY IMPOSED ON YOU TILL TODAY

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Re: The Woman Is Married For Four Reasons by Isobug: 10:11am On Nov 03, 2023
The main reasons are not there

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Re: The Woman Is Married For Four Reasons by Kukutente23: 10:16am On Nov 03, 2023
I don't understand
But Muhammad married Khadijah for her wealth and class
Are we no longer following Muhammad

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Re: The Woman Is Married For Four Reasons by motayoayinde: 10:19am On Nov 03, 2023
Jazaakallah

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Re: The Woman Is Married For Four Reasons by MuslimIgbo: 10:23am On Nov 03, 2023
cool cool cool cool

ISLAM IS INDEED COMPLETE

AND

BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: The Woman Is Married For Four Reasons by Hassanmaye(m): 10:39am On Nov 03, 2023
akinsmail51:
973- Abu Hurairah (may Allaah be pleased with him) reported, the Prophet (may Allaah's peace and blessings be upon him) said

"A woman is married for four reasons: for her wealth, for her class, for her beauty or for her piety. Select the pious, may your hand be rubbed in the dust!"

Related by Bukhari and Muslim.

Explanation by Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih Al Uthaymin

The purposes of people regarding marriage are different. Women are often married for these four reasons: for her wealth, class, beauty or piety.

First: "For her wealth."

For example, an old woman is married for her big fortune because she will die sooner or later.

If she is childless, he will take half of her wealth or all of it according to a weak point of view.

Second: "For her class."

Tribes are different from each other regarding superiority and inferiority.

A man who is inferior can marry from a tribe superior to his in order to upgrade himself.

So, people will say that he married this one to upgrade himself and his children.

Third: "For her beauty."

The beautiful woman is married in spite of her low class and being penniless.

Fourth: "For her religion."

This refers to the religious woman, especially a knowledgeable one.

The Muslim has to marry a woman who helps him to obey Allah.

The religious woman helps her husband to obey Allah and she is obedient to her husband.

Some religious women can choose another wife for her husband if she notices his desire for her.

If she is not religious, she will make troubles if her husband has dreamt of marrying another woman.

A religious woman is an honest one. When her husband is absent, she will not betray him.

Also, she will care for his wealth, children and family.

The Prophet said,

"Select the pious," meaning to look upon her as a prize you want to win.

"The pious" meaning the religious one.

One should know that if they follow this advice, this religious woman will turn out to be the most beautiful in one's eyes even if she is only slightly beautiful.

Beauty is not the only criterion.

Sometimes the woman looks very beautiful, but Allah makes her look ugly in her husband's view.

And he hears people talk about her beauty, but, in fact, she is not beautiful because hearts are controlled by Allah.

So, if one follows this advice, he will be in good state because he followed the Prophet's advice when he told him to select the pious.

There are some benefits in this Hadith:

1. This is a reference that men's most desirable marriage purposes revolve around these four: wealth, class, beauty and piety.

2. There is no problem if anyone marries a woman for her wealth because the Prophet approved this but he urged to marry the religious woman.

3. There is no problem if the man marries a woman for her class to upgrade himself and his children.

4. The woman can be married for her beauty. So, there is no problem if she is married for her beauty.

Maybe the man likes beauty and cannot stand looking at a woman who is not as men are so different in this respect.

5. A woman may be married for her piety even if this is the only purpose.

6. The best one of these purposes is to marry a woman for her piety as he said,

"Select the pious, may your hand be rubbed in the dust."

7. Everyone should follow the Prophet's advice. However, nowadays, most people marry a woman for her beauty and others for her wealth and class. Are these the only purposes?

No, the proof is in the abovementioned Hadith.

Source: THE BOOK OF MARRIAGE PART 1 FROM THE EXPLANATION OF BULUGH AL-MARAAM by Al-AIlaamah Muhammad Bin Saleh Al-'Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him)
Jazakallah

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Re: The Woman Is Married For Four Reasons by Mpcoll001: 10:43am On Nov 03, 2023
ما شاء الله! جزاكم الله خيرا

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Re: The Woman Is Married For Four Reasons by beardedboy(m): 10:47am On Nov 03, 2023
Kukutente23:
I don't understand
But Muhammad married Khadijah for her wealth and class
Are we no longer following Muhammad
Firstly, the prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) married Khadijah before becoming a prophet.

Secondly, Khadijah was the epitome of moral perfection before Islam and became the epitome of religious perfection after her Islam.

Finally, the dowry that was paid to marry Khadijah will most likely buy you and your family house multiple times.

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Re: The Woman Is Married For Four Reasons by abuhlawal(m): 11:07am On Nov 03, 2023
MashaALLAH.
Islam is a complete code of life.
Islam is a lifestyle.
Islam is a culture and traditions.
Islam will tell you all these;
What
When
Why
Who
Where
How
And lots more.

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Re: The Woman Is Married For Four Reasons by abuhlawal(m): 11:14am On Nov 03, 2023
Tryesw35:
I pitty those that are still enslaved to this religions sh**t
You display your dissobedience to rule of LAW by forcing yourself to comment on a tread that is not for you.
So you want us to forget our creator, sustainer and Lord as thought by our prophet Muhammad SAWS to join betting.
Please think critically how can the heaven and earth exist without a controller, when you sleep what happens to you and what is the difference between the person asleep and the dead person.
Just sit down carefully and have a deep thought.
May the almighty God guide and bless us

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Re: The Woman Is Married For Four Reasons by chillychill(f): 3:42pm On Nov 03, 2023
Jazakumllah khayran... When u tell dem dey will say ure greedy,dey will say u too dey do yanga (because of Ur beauty) dey will say ure too full of urseff if u have standard.... Dis our Muslim Nigerian men get issue jare abeg undecided
Re: The Woman Is Married For Four Reasons by Myer(m): 6:42pm On Nov 03, 2023
akinsmail51:
973- Abu Hurairah (may Allaah be pleased with him) reported, the Prophet (may Allaah's peace and blessings be upon him) said

"A woman is married for four reasons: for her wealth, for her class, for her beauty or for her piety. Select the pious, may your hand be rubbed in the dust!"

Related by Bukhari and Muslim.

Explanation by Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih Al Uthaymin

The purposes of people regarding marriage are different. Women are often married for these four reasons: for her wealth, class, beauty or piety.

First: "For her wealth."

For example, an old woman is married for her big fortune because she will die sooner or later.

If she is childless, he will take half of her wealth or all of it according to a weak point of view.

Second: "For her class."

Tribes are different from each other regarding superiority and inferiority.

A man who is inferior can marry from a tribe superior to his in order to upgrade himself.

So, people will say that he married this one to upgrade himself and his children.

Third: "For her beauty."

The beautiful woman is married in spite of her low class and being penniless.

Fourth: "For her religion."

This refers to the religious woman, especially a knowledgeable one.

The Muslim has to marry a woman who helps him to obey Allah.

The religious woman helps her husband to obey Allah and she is obedient to her husband.

Some religious women can choose another wife for her husband if she notices his desire for her.

If she is not religious, she will make troubles if her husband has dreamt of marrying another woman.

A religious woman is an honest one. When her husband is absent, she will not betray him.

Also, she will care for his wealth, children and family.

The Prophet said,

"Select the pious," meaning to look upon her as a prize you want to win.

"The pious" meaning the religious one.

One should know that if they follow this advice, this religious woman will turn out to be the most beautiful in one's eyes even if she is only slightly beautiful.

Beauty is not the only criterion.

Sometimes the woman looks very beautiful, but Allah makes her look ugly in her husband's view.

And he hears people talk about her beauty, but, in fact, she is not beautiful because hearts are controlled by Allah.

So, if one follows this advice, he will be in good state because he followed the Prophet's advice when he told him to select the pious.

There are some benefits in this Hadith:

1. This is a reference that men's most desirable marriage purposes revolve around these four: wealth, class, beauty and piety.

2. There is no problem if anyone marries a woman for her wealth because the Prophet approved this but he urged to marry the religious woman.

3. There is no problem if the man marries a woman for her class to upgrade himself and his children.

4. The woman can be married for her beauty. So, there is no problem if she is married for her beauty.

Maybe the man likes beauty and cannot stand looking at a woman who is not as men are so different in this respect.

5. A woman may be married for her piety even if this is the only purpose.

6. The best one of these purposes is to marry a woman for her piety as he said,

"Select the pious, may your hand be rubbed in the dust."

7. Everyone should follow the Prophet's advice. However, nowadays, most people marry a woman for her beauty and others for her wealth and class. Are these the only purposes?

No, the proof is in the abovementioned Hadith.

Source: THE BOOK OF MARRIAGE PART 1 FROM THE EXPLANATION OF BULUGH AL-MARAAM by Al-AIlaamah Muhammad Bin Saleh Al-'Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him)

You don't think Procreation is an important reason to marry?
Just surprised how raising a family together is not on this list.
Re: The Woman Is Married For Four Reasons by Hndrrxxx(m): 4:47am On Nov 04, 2023
Rrr
Re: The Woman Is Married For Four Reasons by Olaolex: 7:11am On Nov 04, 2023
Mpcoll001:
ما شاء الله! جزاكم الله خيرا
فظجم عئ مظأ دأجذعذط رإ مظعي ذرذيأذيأ

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