Hannania:
There's always two sides to a story. Let's assume she's right, fleeing with his passport and making him stranded is not a wise move. Settle in, then divorce him legally. If claims of abuse is verified, she'll definitely take custody of the kids.

I saw where it's stated that he sold everything to get her to the UK. If so, she should also be ready to see her side of Karma. Somethings are not black and white. One of those sons can grow to learn the truth of his Father's ordeal and be a viper to her also.

Bottom line is that only the two of them know the truth of it. But abounding him in that state is a very unwise thing to do.

Gerrard59:


Someone who lost his job in 2016, and the woman's father sponsored to start a business? Where him get the money to sponsor person go yukay?

Hannania:
There's always two sides to a story. Let's assume she's right, fleeing with his passport and making him stranded is not a wise move. Settle in, then divorce him legally. If claims of abuse is verified, she'll definitely take custody of the kids.

I saw where it's stated that he sold everything to get her to the UK. If so, she should also be ready to see her side of Karma. Somethings are not black and white. One of those sons can grow to learn the truth of his Father's ordeal and be a viper to her also.

Bottom line is that only the two of them know the truth of it. But abounding him in that state is a very unwise thing to do.

1stGenAmerican:


She didn’t take his passport and she’d be a fool to settle him in, feed him, and bear all his expenses until she filed for divorce. The woman went to the police and more than one agency in Nigeria and I’m certain she was smart enough to get written statement. This woman has people vouching for her—she has all the proof she needs. The question of the kids’ custody is not a question at all—in the eyes of the country, they’re her kids. The UK won’t entertain any claims to custody that he lodges because he is an unemployed person on a dependent visa. This man who hasn’t worked in years probably had plans to sit around and do nothing while abusing, cheating on, and lording over this woman. Let him put his tail between his legs and return to Nigeria and fight for his kids from there. I’m sure she’ll have him deported but if he happens to find a job, she’ll file for divorce and child maintenance will snatch what little he earns in the Uk.
To the woman, very well played Madam. I wish you the best of luck in your healing journey and all the prosperity life has to offer.
Remember this story when men cry about how their wives changed when they came to the West because the backstory is always similar.

MaxW11:


You do know that it is very difficult to legally separate (or deport) parents and their biological children with subsisting relationships. A good lawyer could handle this very easily. That’s a separate matter to custody altogether, even that isn’t a slam dunk as you’re assuming.

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Hannania:
There's always two sides to a story. Let's assume she's right, fleeing with his passport and making him stranded is not a wise move. Settle in, then divorce him legally. If claims of abuse is verified, she'll definitely take custody of the kids.

I saw where it's stated that he sold everything to get her to the UK. If so, she should also be ready to see her side of Karma. Somethings are not black and white. One of those sons can grow to learn the truth of his Father's ordeal and be a viper to her also.

Bottom line is that only the two of them know the truth of it. But abounding him in that state is a very unwise thing to do.

IamAsiri:


Hope you saw what he sold.

Hannania:
Hope you witnessed the beating and abuse

Caringforall:
If the man is still in UK and need urgent job let him whatsapp plus four four seven four four zero two one seven four eight zero let him seek for job help . A Nigerian British owns the company and the company is one of the middle / larger CoS sponsors in UK.
Good luck.

Mindlog:


If visa has already been cancelled, with what status will he be applying for a job?

Caringforall:
If he is lucky to be offer a job wth CoS he will be offer a work visa but that is if he get the job before the deadline to depart UK .

IamAsiri:
@luminous, kindly come and read this. You insulted me from heavens to earth because of my comment. And by the way, I am a woman. I am not one of your stupid simps. I can also definitely feel it when a fellow woman is either lying or telling the truth.

I pray that the women in your family will not be treated as thrash and pregnancy beaten out of them. Men solidarity is good, but it must be done with sense and wisdom. Stop displaying stupidity by generalising that all the women in the world are bad, except probably your mother ( though I wonder why she would have escaped the generalising)🤔

Gerrard59:


Someone who lost his job in 2016, and the woman's father sponsored to start a business? Where him get the money to sponsor person go yukay?

Mindlog:


He came to the UK as a dependent of his now ex-wife and that visa has been cancelled, he has to leave the UK and apply for a job with CoS from Nigeria but if UKVI establishes that truly that he has been abusive to the wife and the wife proves his presence in the UK endangers her and the children in the UK....uncle will not be granted any visa.

Caringforall:
That's right he will have to go back to Nigeria and come back with his CoS but Most importantly is for him to get a job sponsor now begore leaving Uk . if
the kids was with him in Nigeria and he brought them to UK and chats between him and his ex wife before his arrival to UK showed no sign of misunderstanding
before him leaving Nigeria with the kids to UK only for his ex wife to collect passport from him and wrote for cancellation of the dependents visa . The UKVI can not ban him and his ex wife can't
win any abuse rather be seen a woman who deceived her husband becauseof her personal reasons. Are the couples officially dirvorced now ?

Mindlog:


And you think decision will be based only on the chats between him and his ex wife before his arrival to UK ?

If truly he was physically abusive to her over some years and she presents to UKVI pictures, videos, medical reports and proofs of reporting domestic abuse to the Nigeria police.....what do you think will be decision of UKVI?

E easy to get sponsored job....with what skill? How will he convince prospective employer that they should overlook the reason for his visa cancellation?

Caringforall:
I like the word you used " if truly " you and i know what most of our Nigerian women do over here once a woman discovered uk law favoured women most here and mostly when she found a new love however If the woman have a nigeria police report of abuse and video then it is a bad case but if no nigeria report as of when she wss abused and no video then no case if the man have a good attorney. I recommend for him to reach out to the number i sent out on this tread he may have a way out if truly he is innocent. It is touching story.

luminouz:


Awwnnnnn...It's Gerrard again to the rescue. Ain't you a knight in shining armour for the ladies?

Keep up the good work. Mudafucker!!!

Gerrard59:


Our resident Alfa meil dangling his preek is in the building...

I hail o

Mindlog:


If there is no video evidence nor police report, that is where those in my field, child psychology comes in.

The professional psychological assessment of the children would give a clear picture of what their parents' relationship has been like over the years, if they were cases of domestic abuse in the home, there are techniques used for such assessments that would make the children spill the truth even if either of their parents have told them to lie against the other parent........long way to go

luminouz:

Stop mentioning my dick, I'm not gay
Dafuq is wrong with you, Captain-Save-A-Hôe

Caringforall:
What advantage destroying the man life again. If she don't want the marriage again and dependentsvisa already cancelled. Let the man be once he can find his way to UK again. What are we fighting for in this world. All must die one day.