Assalaam Alaekum wa Rrahmatullah wa Barakatuh

AVOID BROKEN HOME AT ALL COST

Consequences of pride in a marriage could be irreversible.

If someone tells you that he/she has a perfect marriage, just know right away that he/she is a great liar.

Couples fight and fight badly for that matter but it's the ability to revise and reverse ones stand, communicate with respect and be honest with each other that determines the survival of any marital relationship.

If you remove pride and arrogance in your marital relationship, the marriage is already 90% promising, stable, peaceful and can thus, stand the test of time.

Invest in your marriage through giving, talking and compromising here and there.

Your business as a stakeholder in marriage should be what to do to make your home peaceful and stable for you, your spouse, and your children as well other family members.

STOP running to 3rd parties who equally have their own challenges, they are probably hiding and managing. You may end up getting nothing positive or helpful from such friends, family members, Church/Mosque members, and colleagues to whom you are exposing or trading what should be the secrets of your home.

Broken home is like a war. No party goes uninjured. Each party goes with an injury they nurse for the rest of their lives. That is the reality. Whichever party claims unaffected/uninjured is a chronic liar, chronic pretender, and an unrepentant soul. l mean he/she is stone hearted. Such a person has no idea of what a good home should be. He/she is ignorant of the positive impact of unbroken relationship on the home itself, the community, the church/mosque congregation, and the society at large.

No amount of success in life could compensate for failure at home. Simply ensure that your home is not scattered. Repair it now before it is too late.

If your home is experiencing separation now, ensure that you shed your pride and compromise to arrest it from drifting to a broken home.

STOP narrating your home affairs around to seek sympathy. Most people you have taken your story to and are supporting you, are in their own homes, keeping their homes intact, sympathising with you while you are already out of your own home.

To be sincere with you, what you will be treated to outside your home will not be what you bargained for. Think now and go back. May God help and bless you.

In marriages, we are all managing each other and there is no perfect marriage and till death, couples must continue to manage each other.

If your marriage will last, manage your spouse, there is no perfect marriage out there.

Oh Allah,
Please never let our heart be disturbed by the trials of life, open the doors of your mercy to us, ease our ways of life, accept our worship, bless our time, comfort our graves, forgive our sins, grant us favour in everything we do, never forsake us and our family in this world and hereafter, Aamiin.......

Happy Jumaat, Happy Weekend ❤️🩷🧡🧡💚

We live honourably together till Allah wills!
No sane person actually wants divorce but sometimes it's the only cure to the dispute!

Marriage is two imperfect people coming together in holy matrimony. Know that as there are sets of rules for marriage in Islam, there are also sets of rules for divorce in Islam.

Finally, know that as Muslims we believe there are Angels recording our deeds all the time and we'll give account of everything we do!

Okay

True

Agreed!

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ALMUSTAQIM:
Assalaam Alaekum wa Rrahmatullah wa Barakatuh

AVOID BROKEN HOME AT ALL COST

Consequences of pride in a marriage could be irreversible.

If someone tells you that he/she has a perfect marriage, just know right away that he/she is a great liar.

Couples fight and fight badly for that matter but it's the ability to revise and reverse ones stand, communicate with respect and be honest with each other that determines the survival of any marital relationship.

If you remove pride and arrogance in your marital relationship, the marriage is already 90% promising, stable, peaceful and can thus, stand the test of time.

Invest in your marriage through giving, talking and compromising here and there.

Your business as a stakeholder in marriage should be what to do to make your home peaceful and stable for you, your spouse, and your children as well other family members.

STOP running to 3rd parties who equally have their own challenges, they are probably hiding and managing. You may end up getting nothing positive or helpful from such friends, family members, Church/Mosque members, and colleagues to whom you are exposing or trading what should be the secrets of your home.

Broken home is like a war. No party goes uninjured. Each party goes with an injury they nurse for the rest of their lives. That is the reality. Whichever party claims unaffected/uninjured is a chronic liar, chronic pretender, and an unrepentant soul. l mean he/she is stone hearted. Such a person has no idea of what a good home should be. He/she is ignorant of the positive impact of unbroken relationship on the home itself, the community, the church/mosque congregation, and the society at large.

No amount of success in life could compensate for failure at home. Simply ensure that your home is not scattered. Repair it now before it is too late.

If your home is experiencing separation now, ensure that you shed your pride and compromise to arrest it from drifting to a broken home.

STOP narrating your home affairs around to seek sympathy. Most people you have taken your story to and are supporting you, are in their own homes, keeping their homes intact, sympathising with you while you are already out of your own home.

To be sincere with you, what you will be treated to outside your home will not be what you bargained for. Think now and go back. May God help and bless you.

In marriages, we are all managing each other and there is no perfect marriage and till death, couples must continue to manage each other.

If your marriage will last, manage your spouse, there is no perfect marriage out there.

Oh Allah,
Please never let our heart be disturbed by the trials of life, open the doors of your mercy to us, ease our ways of life, accept our worship, bless our time, comfort our graves, forgive our sins, grant us favour in everything we do, never forsake us and our family in this world and hereafter, Aamiin.......

Happy Jumaat, Happy Weekend ❤️🩷🧡🧡💚

Your title "Avoid Broken Home at All Cost" is not appropriate.

... even at the cost of one spouse killing his/her partner?

It shouldn't be at all cost abeg!

If there's very high tendency that a man will kill his wife or vice versa, is it not better to leave such marriage than being slaughtered like a goat?

Marriage is really tough with a Nigerian lady

Ameen. The message is clear and impactful. JazakumLahu kairan

I will take the below sentence as a life Lesson, where you stated
“ If you remove pride and arrogance in your marital relationship, the marriage is already 90% promising, stable, peaceful and can thus, stand the test of time.”

Thanks, Op.

Barka da Jumu'ah brothers and sisters.

This is the first time in history I will agree with Muslima.

Jummah mubaraq

God speaks through anyone. May God bless your hands.

I'm not married yet.

In as much as the Author is trying to promote marriage and discourage divorce , which is a very very good thing, let us not forget that

Divorce is allowed in Islam It can be the solution to some problems. And a divorcee may find comfort in another marriage.

Islam does not discriminate against divorced women or men.

You are right 💯

Jazakum lahu khairan

May Allah lead us through every affairs of ours. Amin

Jazakum lahu khairan

Thanks op