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This is about my elder brother's girlfriend. She is younger than me with 4-5 years while I'm 28years thou she has a big stature and I have a small stature.

This girl tried to scam me numerous times,just that I managed not to fall for it thou it wasn't asif I know she wants to scam me. My brother has told me there was a time she transferred money from his account to her own account without him noticing. I apologized on her behalf because she and I are so close that I took her like a twin sister.

We attended the same institution (uni) with my elder brother. I went for clearance and I stayed at her place in school, she introduced me to a female friend of her's whom I got to like by the way I'm a lady too. I stayed for a month, I got close to this lady friend of hers, we play,joke, cook together and I treat her so well without me knowing she goes behind me to badmouth me to this lady. She lied to this lady that her mom has cancer, she needed money to treat her, this lady borrowed her 18k without her knowing she has scammed her. I got to know all of this when she refused to pay the lady her money and sending fake alert to her in the name of returning the money.

She even faked a story and calls infront of me to scam me of 15k just that I didn't fall for it. I got to know about all this scamming when everyone she has scammed started voicing out, and my brother knows all of this and still insist he will marry just because of her fakery calm nature. She didn't even feel remorseful when everything came to light and my brother was questioning her in my presence she just stayed calm and still went on Facebook trying to scam my bf again.


She borrowed money from me, bought cloth from me and didn't pay back. After the whole incident, we didn't talk or come across each other for 8months not until yesterday. She greeted me and I didn't respond because I already told my brother that I'm not saying he shouldn't marry her but I won't be a friend of hers or open teeth as we usually do but my brother tried defending her that it's because she's young and hasn't realized all this things she did was wrong.

I still maintain my stand that she is a thief and one day she will sell my brothers house without him knowing. My mom feels I should have responded to her greeting and because my brother likes her we all have to support him but I won't. I don't do ojuaye(pretense) and because she is not sorry, she should just be on her own but me I won't like her till they kingdom come.

Am I overreacting?

Lemme first laugh my anus out

Onatounkiki:
My brother has told me there was a time she transferred money from his account to her own account without him noticing.

but my brother tried defending her that it's because she's young and hasn't realized all this things she did was wrong.

This is/has always been the problem with lotta dumb guys out there like ur brother (I'm not sorry for calling him such) the red flags are always there but it's always this same line over and over again shes young, I'd build and train her bla bla, forgetting Marriage is bout getting a life Partner not a life Project and blindly they go ahead with the marriage and after sometime come on Nairaland or other blogs to disturb people

Ngwa let him go ahead and marry her now, shey he has chosen to suffer for the rest of his life? mai una free am. More reason they said "A Simp is not just dangerous to himself but also dangerous to those around him

And did you overreacted?? No you didn't.

You are not overreacting. Rather, you are doing the right thing!

She has hypnotised both your mom and your so called bro.why would they see red flag still be happy about it.as times goes on she would do something worst for your brother that will make regrate marry her.

You are not overreacting. It's a good thing you let her know that you aren't on the same level you used to be with her.
She is literally a thief no sugarcoating, and your bro is gonna regret his decision of marrying her.

A person I know is going through the second phase of this after his wife is pregnant for him that's when he founds out that she is a thief. She has stole things like 2 different times now. Even the husband can't show his face in the community because of itiju(shame) he is going through hell right now.

Hope your bro won't have too learn the hard way.

Be careful

Onatounkiki:
Happy New year Nairalanders!

This is about my elder brother's girlfriend. She is younger than me with 4-5 years while I'm 28years thou she has a big stature and I have a small stature.

This girl tried to scam me numerous times,just that I managed not to fall for it thou it wasn't asif I know she wants to scam me. My brother has told me there was a time she transferred money from his account to her own account without him noticing. I apologized on her behalf because she and I are so close that I took her like a twin sister.

We attended the same institution (uni) with my elder brother. I went for clearance and I stayed at her place in school, she introduced me to a female friend of her's whom I got to like by the way I'm a lady too. I stayed for a month, I got close to this lady friend of hers, we play,joke, cook together and I treat her so well without me knowing she goes behind me to badmouth me to this lady. She lied to this lady that her mom has cancer, she needed money to treat her, this lady borrowed her 18k without her knowing she has scammed her. I got to know all of this when she refused to pay the lady her money and sending fake alert to her in the name of returning the money.

She even faked a story and calls infront of me to scam me of 15k just that I didn't fall for it. I got to know about all this scamming when everyone she has scammed started voicing out, and my brother knows all of this and still insist he will marry just because of her fakery calm nature. She didn't even feel remorseful when everything came to light and my brother was questioning her in my presence she just stayed calm and still went on Facebook trying to scam my bf again.


She borrowed money from me, bought cloth from me and didn't pay back. After the whole incident, we didn't talk or come across each other for 8months not until yesterday. She greeted me and I didn't respond because I already told my brother that I'm not saying he shouldn't marry her but I won't be a friend of hers or open teeth as we usually do but my brother tried defending her that it's because she's young and hasn't realized all this things she did was wrong.

I still maintain my stand that she is a thief and one day she will sell my brothers house without him knowing. My mom feels I should have responded to her greeting and because my brother likes her we all have to support him but I won't. I don't do ojuaye(pretense) and because she is not sorry, she should just be on her own but me I won't like her till they kingdom come.

Am I overreacting?

No your not over reacting... It's time your brother learns his lessons in life.. It now depends if those lessons will be learnt the hard way or not.. Don't pretend with the girl.. Stand your ground but don't be too harsh... Just make it clear you want her to stay away from you... That's all..

Thief in the making.

Little21:
You are not overreacting. It's a good thing you let her know that you aren't on the same level you used to be with her.
She is literally a thief no sugarcoating, and your bro is gonna regret his decision of marrying her.

A person I know is going through the second phase of this after his wife is pregnant for him that's when he founds out that she is a thief. She has stole things like 2 different times now. Even the husband can't show his face in the community because of itiju(shame) he is going through hell right now.

Hope your bro won't have too learn the hard way.

I pray he doesn't learn the hard way, He kept saying other girls out there are worst than her. The thing is he himself told me she is fetish and he still doesn't see himself leaving her for another.

I think the reason is that he has this control over her and shouts at her which most of other girls out there cannot take. I'm sure this lady is enduring everything because of his money, thou she has a good family but she herself is a pretender.

Then, she complains to me a lot tells me she wish to leave the relationship but she can't (because she doesn't want to leave her big girl lifestyle)

Little21:
You are not overreacting. It's a good thing you let her know that you aren't on the same level you used to be with her.
She is literally a thief no sugarcoating, and your bro is gonna regret his decision of marrying her.

A person I know is going through the second phase of this after his wife is pregnant for him that's when he founds out that she is a thief. She has stole things like 2 different times now. Even the husband can't show his face in the community because of itiju(shame) he is going through hell right now.

Hope your bro won't have too learn the hard way.

This one thief eh she uses strategy, she will make people around her fall in love with her then start giving you stories that will make u not to doubt her

Onatounkiki:
I pray he doesn't learn the hard way, He kept saying other girls out there are worst than her. The thing is he himself told me she is fetish and he still doesn't see himself leaving her for another.

I think the reason is that he has this control over her and shouts at her which most of other girls out there cannot take. I'm sure this lady is enduring everything because of his money, thou she has a good family but she herself is a pretender.

Then, she complains to me a lot tells me she wish to leave the relationship but she can't (because she doesn't want to leave her big girl lifestyle)

Then it's settled.
Your brother is probably afraid that he wouldn't find a girl that will put up with his kind of behavior, that's why he is overlooking the most important part.

While the girl on the other hand, is afraid she may not get the type of lifestyles she is getting if she leave, that's why she keep scamming the people are around her.

They compliment each other so they will be fine.

Onatounkiki:
This one thief eh she uses strategy, she will make people around her fall in love with her then start giving you stories that will make u not to doubt her

na you want marry person husband right

Onatounkiki

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