2️⃣4️⃣Tips You Should Apply In Your Routine This Year:

1️⃣Respect is not a right but is only earned, you deserve it by your character.

2️⃣Don't visit except when necessary.

3️⃣Do not attend events that you are not invited.

4️⃣If you observe that your host no longer gets excited to see you as before, it suggests you've visited too much. Stop!

5️⃣Don't eat someone's food more than they eat yours.

6️⃣Be self sufficient. Stop begging. Some people who refuse to pick your calls or respond to your messages are avoiding you because they think you want to beg as usual.

7️⃣Always know that at eighteen years you are responsible to yourself. Stop thinking that anyone owe you anything.

8️⃣Work to improve yourself, don't compete or compare yourself with another person.

9️⃣Never speak evil deliberately of a person you don't like. Defend them behind their back if you feel what is being said against them is not true. Even your enemy will respect you.

🔟Never reveal secrets that a person confided in you.

1️⃣1️⃣Stop telling your bad situation to people. They may sympathize with you but they will also lose value for you.

1️⃣2️⃣Never call someone more than two times except they owe you. If they value you they will call back.

1️⃣3️⃣If you are the only person making effort to keep a relationship. Quit! The other person doesn't value you.

1️⃣4️⃣Use absence to create effect. Never be too available.

1️⃣5️⃣Never overstay your welcome. Always leave when your host still enjoy your presence.

1️⃣6️⃣Never gossip against people. The person you are gossiping to won't trust or respect you.

1️⃣7️⃣Have standards that you can never compromise. People will respect you.

1️⃣8️⃣Whatever you say behind someone, make sure they are those things you can say in their presence. Anything less than that, you are a blackmailer. Blackmailers have no respect.

1️⃣9️⃣Don't accept food and drinks every time you are offered. You may be seen as visiting just for food.

2️⃣0️⃣Contribute to any relationship. Don't only collect but also give no matter how rich the other person is. A good gift for your boss is a great investment.

2️⃣1️⃣Always say thank you after meeting people.

2️⃣2️⃣Be versatile and multitasking.

2️⃣3️⃣Never be found wanting.

2️⃣4️⃣Be a volunteer and give yourself some rest when necessary.

Edet Edem Akpan.