A lot of DNA wahala is making people people to have fear for marriage and family. It is an adulteration of it that makes it so. Once it is done rightly it gives pleasure, rest and fulfillment that ever imagine.
Marriage is a mainly a functional platform for responsibility. First and foremost. Spiritual Responsibility that God gave you partner to make the work he has given to you easier. the couple must recognize however it is shared responsibilities on both parties. Spiritual responsibility- biblical principle expectation from marriage is that your spiritual strength and capabilities become enhanced. couple must work on developing their individual spiritual capacities in personal word study and prayers not just being active in Church. One shall chase a thousand and Two shall chase 10, 000. Geometric progression you can say.
Romantic responsibility, your wife or husband should be your best woman or man in every thing and your sexual relationship should be to her or him ONLY. Responsibility in raising Godly seeds. Children are not property or achievement as it were, they were assigned to you from heaven for proper care and to be raised to fulfill God’s plan and purpose.
Financial and other responsibilities ought to be shared because God provide the woman as helpmeet not burden but rather a blessing. However Husband ought to head in everything as Jesus is head of the church, he must take the lead. Marriage will only make sense and becomes enjoyable when approach with people approach sense of responsibility.