I'm so disappointed, but yes, I believe I have inadvertently put someone in a situation that will make her life miserable. She's a coworker, and I feel deeply sorry for her. However, I had the misconception that if you slept with someone without ejaculating inside of them, neither party would contract any diseases.

Last December, after work ended around 10 pm, I took a woman home. However, all attempts to engage in intimacy with her were unsuccessful. I couldn't send her away due to the unsafe nature of the area I live in. Frustrated and thinking it might be because of my d*ck size, I impulsively went to the nearest brothel that night, fueled by drugs and a desire to avoid any non-consensual encounters at home. Unfortunately, the condom burst just as I was about to ejaculate.

I asked the woman if she was clean, and she assured me that she regularly undergoes check-ups. However, a few weeks later, I started experiencing discomfort: internal heat, appearance and disappearance of red nodes, symptoms resembling typhoid and malaria, tingling sensations in my tongue, and a pricking feeling in my foot.

Unable to ignore these symptoms, I rushed to a hospital for testing in March while on an official assignment for my company. The initial test results came back negative, but I am still waiting to undergo a confirmation test in the next three months. Despite this, all the symptoms persist.

Two weeks ago, a new employee developed feelings for me, and we ended up intimate at my new apartment. Yesterday, she showed me a red node, and today, she pointed out two red spots on her hand.

Although I did not ejaculate during our encounter, I am concerned for her well-being. I had wrongly believed that not ejaculating inside someone was safe.

I'm terrified that she may suffer the same health issues I am facing. Although I spent significant amount of money —about 10k—seeking treatment for the sickness she may have transmitted to me."

stay with one woman una no gree

You type beautifully well for someone so ignorant. All bets were off the moment you penetrated without protection. It's irrelevant whether the condom burst or you didn't ejaculate.

Secondly, an olosĥo assured you she was clean and you took her word for it. No PRep afterwards. That level of recklessness is legendary.

Finally, you engaged in another unprotected encounter with a new lady while still experiencing signs and symptoms of STIs and STDs.

If 10k is a lot of money to you, then you're yet to start spending.

Your lack of self control and ignorance of safe sex practices makes you a danger to yourself and the world at large.

Write your nairaland password down, so your ghost can give us full gist which place you finally go

ValCon888:
You type beautifully well for someone so ignorant. All bets were off the moment you penetrated without protection. It's irrelevant whether the condom burst or you didn't ejaculate.

Secondly, an olosĥo assured you she was clean and you took her word for it. No PRep afterwards. That level of recklessness is legendary.

Finally, you engaged in another unprotected encounter with a new lady while still experiencing signs and symptoms of STIs and STDs.

If 10k is a lot of money to you, then you're yet to start spending.

Your lack of self control and ignorance of safe sex practices makes you a danger to yourself and the world at large.

Not that I am unaware of PRep, but it never occurred to me to visit the hospital for it. Oh God, and I'm scheduled for medicals at a better organization where I've applied for an opening. Being too lenient got the best of me.

You do not value your life...big pity

They can manage it with daily dose of ARV. Just calm down,its not end of life. You can still live a healthy and a normal life

whymewhyme12:
I'm so disappointed, but yes, I believe I have inadvertently put someone in a situation that will make her life miserable. She's a coworker, and I feel deeply sorry for her. However, I had the misconception that if you slept with someone without ejaculating inside of them, neither party would contract any diseases.

Last December, after work ended around 10 pm, I took a woman home. However, all attempts to engage in intimacy with her were unsuccessful. I couldn't send her away due to the unsafe nature of the area I live in. Frustrated and thinking it might be because of my d*ck size, I impulsively went to the nearest brothel that night, fueled by drugs and a desire to avoid any non-consensual encounters at home. Unfortunately, the condom burst just as I was about to ejaculate.

I asked the woman if she was clean, and she assured me that she regularly undergoes check-ups. However, a few weeks later, I started experiencing discomfort: internal heat, appearance and disappearance of red nodes, symptoms resembling typhoid and malaria, tingling sensations in my tongue, and a pricking feeling in my foot.

Unable to ignore these symptoms, I rushed to a hospital for testing in March while on an official assignment for my company. The initial test results came back negative, but I am still waiting to undergo a confirmation test in the next three months. Despite this, all the symptoms persist.

Two weeks ago, a new employee developed feelings for me, and we ended up intimate at my new apartment. Yesterday, she showed me a red node, and today, she pointed out two red spots on her hand.

Although I did not ejaculate during our encounter, I am concerned for her well-being. I had wrongly believed that not ejaculating inside someone was safe.

I'm terrified that she may suffer the same health issues I am facing. Although I spent significant amount of money —about 10k—seeking treatment for the sickness she may have transmitted to me."

Run urine msc, urethra swab and VDRL..
You could run HIV along with hep A and B test. But I suspect VDRL... Syphilis..