Pls suggest, average priced, decent places to buy land and build a house in Lagos, or Closeby South western cities.

Little to no omonile Craziness

As a young guy, Late 20s, early 30s...,
Something of a mini sanctuary as young, single man...
The future is important, neighbours are important, what would be in the Future is also very important,
Simplicity, calmness, somewhere far from the general city's madness, and unlikely to descend into nonsense in the next 15, 20 to 30Years.

With strong insight, foresight & experience, I am certain that one can select an excellent, future proof choice.