abeg make hin throw hin leg up make man pikin enta. no be us den go fire jare. no take supid advice go destroy ur future do as ur oga say make u do and if u film am, dat one don mean say u don make break thru 4 porn industry 4 naija

To just leave the job and go is not enough , if you go the man would still find another girl until he got what he wants , so what you should do is to use what he wants to trap him him and stop him from his immoral desires .
why don't you go to some women right organizations, i can help to look for one for you and also get some investigative journalists, preferably women too and set the guy up.
they wiretap you with stuff that would record whatever conversation that you have with him up to where he wants the "action" to take place , be it in a hotel or his house, when you are sure that enough info and evidence have been gathered against him , u can then tell him to go to hell with his stupid desires.
Now with the evidence you have against him and the journalists involved there is no way the man would not be arrested and prosecuted, and be jailed b4 being deported back to his country cos am sure he would lose his job .

90% have advised you should leave the job, i hope you have learnt something
so pls leave the job

baaabeey, is the guy handsome?, that much i doubt, i guess he's stingy otherwise he will have his fair share of the aristo chics we have on the campuses who are ready to chop his money and clean mouth, he is just looking for a cheap lay, don't mind the idiot, just stand your ground, who knows it might just be a precursor to better things, good riddance to, (bad) rubbish

@ modupsie, if you allow him to sleep with you, you will retain the job and lose your diginity. my advice : forget the job [color=#990000][/color]and keep your dignity. very soon, you will get a better job by His grace.

@henry007
can you give your sister that kind of advice?

Modupsie,
I am very much with Egoldman on this one.
Being born again has nothing to do with this. If the attraction would have been mutual, we would not be having this discussion. This idiot is using his position to oppress and intimidate female employees sexually.
There might be another dimension to the whole story though, who knows maybe this guy is some agent assigned to spread aids in Nigeria.
I will suggest you set him up in a very compromising situation and have the press or any women' right organisation go after him. You haven't got anything to lose anymore. But by exposing this bastard, you will be saving a lot of prospective victims.
Should you need any assistance, feel free to ask.

@topic
you have three options
1. go ahead and sleep with him
2. resign
3. look unappetising. . . .start wearing old fashioned and dirty clothes, don't make up, one day don't brush your mouth and come very close to him and talk to him with smelly mouth and armpit full of dirty sweat. have rough unkempt hair, long dirty fingernails, look very very haggard, get openly religious like deeper life arrangement, but in all these make sure you do your work well

God help you in your choices

i feel like killing these white people, they harrass us in their country and they harrass us in our own country too.

God wanna test ur faith, dont worry u will get a beta job

dont just walk away girl,
lets the naira land guy arrange for the guy.
so we can blackmail his white ass to hell

this time around if seun ban me say
I wan do the german fool wey like to de shag naija babe
and leave the remaining for im dog to shag, naim be say
I GO SUE HIS BANNING ASS TO HELL

deor03:

MODUPSIE

Can you do US a favour? please set up this white idiot , record a conversation about this rubbish , then look for a good lawyer like FESTUS KEYAMO.
You will the turn the GAME inyour favour.

we need to punish this whites that come to our country to take advantage of US. it's annoying

Very sound advise.Men should stop intimidating girls into sleeping with them.I wish there was a way to set the idiot up.I wonder how some men enjoy a shag when the girl is unwilling.If i must shag a woman,i'll like it to be on two levels-her mind first then her body.

Shagging an unwilling woman is senseless to me.
Like some posters have suggested please contact some women's organizations to counsel you and help you out.
Cheers.

Baby,
If you sleep with him to get back the job, you will always sleep with him to keep the job. Pray for God to get your own job that will be sustained by him alone. It is just a trying moment, God is watching what you will do.

if you're here, you will need not to work for him again, but his going to pay you for not working throughout your life, for damaging your moral feeling about working place ethics,
You can get like $5000000, is that enough, or we ask for more,

for real
you dont need to work again
by the time we fix him for you.
NA GHANA-MUST-GO BAG he go take pack his load back to germany

Ribadu himsef will be happy
with us when he hear the story

Its da doctor again!

Well it seems like poster has gotten a lot of replies and advice. U get the gist now so do what you have to do girl (i mean the right thing). There's one thing i'd like to say here and that is:

We Nigerians have really got to stand tall no matter what people think or say about us. For instance if poster decides to agree to the German boss' advances, the next thing he'll say is that Nigerian women are the most promiscuous, cheap etc etc (not that it hasn't been said before). Which of course makes things difficult for the good ones out there.


Perhaps it'll even be talked about in the Oprah Show. Talking about Oprah Show, the last time i checked, she said all Nigerians are 419 and we even go to school to learn it. If she can say that, what stops other people saying that about the Nigerian woman? To me, like some people has said in here, we have to stand and reclaim our dignity. Like they say in those AIDS adverts, IT BEGINS WITH YOU,

Women are fond of laying sexual allegations against their men's folk whereas they are the main devil perpetrating and catalysting sexual harrassment.

You talk about decent dressing, they'll attatck u to d last. How wouldn't some men be sexual attracted to these girls dat he can't control it any longer as in harrassing d girl with sex. Don't get me wrong, such men are not justifiable anyway. But if our girls are better dressed, sexual harrassment will be 2 d barest minimum. Everyone seems to attack, abuse and insult the german boss, right, am sure that despite how sexually mad the german boss is, take a Deeper life girl (or any true born again girl) to him as secretary, d guy can't even think of that, talkless of asking her 4 sex. Who know how many times the poster has been vividly flaunting her busty breast around d man, wagging her extra-large size buttocks (these days even d dirty pants clearly seen) around d man. So a natural law of attraction usually occurs.

So for me, I blame the german boss, but I blame the poster more.

tell him u have herpes, or chlamydia

i promise u it works all the time, the men will not want to sleep with u anymore.

or maybe u can tell him u have a type of leukemia. and u despereately nee dthe job for medications an dsuch. say AML ok girly, u can even fake teh documents to prove tha tu hvae it.

answer is: set up the bastard. tape it and load it on to you tube, so his wife and kids can see how hard daddy works in nigeria. i am ready to help free of charge. i am a guy a guy and i think it is time to stop all these rubbish!!!! i am sure the guy will never try this in his country.

@modupsie,
give it to him,

give it to who!?!?

awon okunrin mi ma baje o.

DO NOT DO IT.

if he tries that here in USA, his BEHIND is going to court

Remember his name in your prayers and don't let that weigh u down.
Start looking for another job,and rem sis if no one told u "i love u" 2day,i do.

just try and poising the man make the fool die na God go kill am alive can any black man do that to there citien?

Get The Hell Out of that Place. Hes Looking for A Ho Not a Secretary. Dont Start Something That Would Spiral into a Set of Unimaginable Experiments With His Friends & Pets!!!

And Please Does He Have A Green Card/Work Permit?. Are His Papers Up to Date? I Think You Need To Do Some Whistle Blowing to the Immig/EFCC.

This Is An Psycho-Economic Crime.!! Please Mail the Coy Name to EFCC for Investigation. ( Be Anonymous). It is Yo Country Not His Own. No Nigerian Can Try That in Germany & Go Scot Free.

Nazilous Bastards.

@modupsie

I will advise you look at the advice of egoldman and act on it, to me it seems the best of all the suggestions and advices given on this matter. Why I prefer this is that once the idiot is caught pants down and the press blows it open, the slowpoke will be on his way back to his country and it will serve as a good lesson to others like him. cefinis

My dear,
Try and tape the conversation and use it as evidence to sue him.

Alternatively, put the guy in prayer and see God deal with him.

pls dont get urself involved wit a law suit ,its more complicated than u think. u beta play along den wen it gets too much, u quit or u just play along till d very end if it has one. but pls dont videotape or record anything coz u're not a detective so dont play one.quit ur job and let destiny play its way in ur lyf. not by cheap blackmail.

POSTER

Hope u reading these posts people r droppin ere.Pls we ll like to know what u up to now(abi she don dey court room now?).

I ll just advice u to sue him so that others can learn

This particular aincidence is happening all over lagos and most girls r falling for it 4 whatever reason,I hope it stops soon.

@ Mo Fe DOBO

U dey call person mumu, But u suppose look MIRROR b4 u insult people, Cos u be confirm ONE!!!

If say na ur MAMA or ur SISTA sumtin like dat happen to, wetin u go do

Make we even talk say u convince or confuse ur MAMA or ur SISTA to f**k am d first time, wetin go happen when she come house d next day and talk say d GERMAN BOSS TALK SAY IM DOG LIKE ur MAMA or ur SISTA TOTO

Make we dey tink b4 we talk cos what GOES AROUND COMES AROUND!!!

Bicycle wey take REVERSE enta petrol station talk say make dem reply am, na d word wey im mama & PAPA no tell am, na im e wan hear!!!


@modupsie

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, WHAT GOES AROUND COME AROUND, PLEASE DONT DO ANYTIN FUNNY!!!

WHAT WILL BE, WILL BE!!! DONT FORCE IT!!!