Reginaoyah:
God bless you for me. Some of these ppl sounded like they know my husband more than I do. It's a provision business...with two kids that have daily needs I don't ask him for.

About working, who will hire me without experience in any field and already in my 40s with kids? He's not wealthy but I know he has money to support me but he won't. That's why he hides his phone. You need to see my husband when I pick up his phone. What he does is hide it when I am home. A man constantly telling you I don't have money even you know the least 200k should be in his account is what? I don't want to go into too much detail because I would cry.

Since you say he doesn't cheat my surmise is that he's building a house

Now the question you should ask yourself is, why has he completely shut you out of his life? Because you're basically just roommates and at this point am scared to ask if you're having sex with him whilst you're both this disconnected from each other; human beings and especially Nigerians are capable of terrible, inhuman behaviour toward other people.

What I can understand here is that you act out your resentment (no money for hair, clothes, etc, all those things you feel entitled to) and it drives him even further away it's not until you fight and raise your voice before people understand that you resent/hate them