HAPPY MARRIAGE
Almost everybody will love to experience the unconditional feelings of happy marriage with their spouse that lead to happy home, but the question that pose itself says, Do you work towards it?.
The fact is that there is no cutting corner or secret to a happy marriage, it is just the matter of maintaining the right principle which is achievable.
There is a famous saying where the happy marriage can only be found between a deaf and a blind couple, because the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of his wife, while the blind wife cannot see the shortcomings of her husband.
To my own observation being in love with each other is more than what most people could ask for in a relationship, but even love is not enough to sustain a relationship there are other factors to put in place. I want you to understand the fact that the best marriage in the world can run into trouble just because the couple tend to take the simplest things for granted.
People from various countries have married their spouse based on different reason, which can either be to have a family, wealth, to have someone to grow with and security, this all matters but there is a bigger reason. Marriage is when you give so much of yourself and yet you feel whole.
One glaring thing I have seen about some couples in our society is that they don’t exercise patience to understand themselves if they are compatible before getting married which has later put their Marital home in jeopardy.
In brevity, something as special as marriage should be nurtured forever, so what are the principles?
[1]PRAYER: this is just the matter of praying base on your religion for a successful and happy  home, because the seed of love is created by the power of God and by doing this it will always renew the feeling and guide the couple not to fall into temptation.
[2]TRUST: trust is one of the important key in relationship, so if the couple wants a long-lasting relationship they must maintain what is known as trust among themselves.
[3]LOVE: build your relationship on true love, because true love will always last longer no matter the circumstances in your relationship.
[4]PATIENCE: We all need patience in coping with most things in life either in relationship or in other aspect of life, patience is very important to let you fully understand and overcome most of our obstacle.
[5]CONTROLLING ANGER: anger is inevitable to human, but the person that is slow to anger has the great understanding.
The only way to cope with your anger is to inculcate the habit of letting go of resentment and practicing forgiveness.     
Thomas Fuller observes, "He that cannot forgive others breaks the bridge over which he must pass himself; for every man has need to be forgiven." Without forgiveness, your life becomes an endless cycle of anger, resentment, and retaliation. You practice forgiveness so that you can stop ruminating about the past and put your energy into the present moment. And it will also free you from the poisonous effects of resentment. Then, you can experience peace of mind and bring that inner peacefulness into your marriage. You will never have a peaceful marriage until you are at peace within yourself.
In a nutshell there is still more to happy marriage that led to happy home than what we have here but by applying this principle you have got above average opportunity of building happy home.
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My friend this is an interesting piece. But yet you left out perhaps the most important subject out of the equation. Why? Is it because it is taboo? The subject is conspicous by its absence and I need not spell it out here because I am sure you know what I am talking about yet without it you cannot have a happy marriage at all. It is the very foundation of what a marriage is. You said the first thing that people should do is PRAY to avoid temptation. Now there aint nothing wrong with praying but that is not what our elder brother Paul suggested as the key to avoid temptation but rather to render "due benevolence " one to another and not to "defraud" one another except it be by "mutual consent" (1 Cor 7:3-6). Many churches don't teach these things though but rather leaves this subject to be "spiritually discerned".

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Secrets to a Happy Married Life.

Really?

Go and ask Mr. & Mrs. Seal who had it all.
Wetin come happen?
Marriage or not, be happy IN yourself!
When you quench, you spouse go go find anoda!


Abi una hia say God or Jesus marry?

Imagine how Mr and Mrs Porcupine made it work?

http://www.religioustolerance.org/chr_dira.htm

Most definitely if you are a Christian. Your chances of divorce REMAINS THE HIGHEST. . .amongst 'conservative hypocritical Christians'!

Shame!

[size=20pt]Divorce rates among conservative Christians were significantly higher than for other faith groups, and much higher than Atheists and Agnostics experience.

While it may be alarming to discover that born again Christians are more likely than others to experience a divorce, that pattern has been in place for quite some time. Even more disturbing, perhaps, is that when those individuals experience a divorce many of them feel their community of faith provides rejection rather than support and healing. But the research also raises questions regarding the effectiveness of how churches minister to families. The ultimate responsibility for a marriage belongs to the husband and wife, but the high incidence of divorce within the Christian community challenges the idea that churches provide truly practical and life-changing support for marriages."


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Abeg make una keep kwayet!!!

Christian DIE-vorcees!!!

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know that whatever you want you can get it if you follow the footstep or principles in getting it