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Rockmassivee1:
Good morning NL would like to share this here a friend ask me for an advice on this issue but would like to hear on this side as well,thank you

My friend has been dating this girl for 4yrs now and I believe they are cool but the issue is the girl don’t always want to take correction everything she does is good
So what lead to there breakup they both visit the mother-in-law in other state and they all eat Shawama except my friend so the girl was purging which she couldn’t join the mother-in-law in the kitchen and she didn’t inform her about the situation she was just indoor while the mother in law was cooking,my friend said he told her to atleast go tell her what going on with you so she won’t feel you ignored her(meanwhile there was issue on ground before which that why they both went for apology)so she didn’t leave the room to go join her she said her bf to tell her mom she having stomach upset then the guy said she should go herself and report to her and she can give her something to us since it her house,my friend said she didn’t go for over an hour she was just there pressing her phone and crying without stepping out to just inform the woman,then food is ready then mother-in-law only served her son didn’t serve gf after all the girl left tha evening and less to thier breakup

Her excuse was the mother-in-law didn’t like her or welcome her and now she blame the woman for her action which I see as gaslighting

My advice to my friend was the this I told him her mom didn’t tolerate her bad behavior at least she should have regard her it doesn’t take 2min to do that just to inform her u have stomach pain atlest you in her roof atm so if she break up I think you dodge a future bullet cos as you girl she should listen to ur suggestion

thank God the mother in law notice her ignorance if not it'll have been worst if she get marry to her son

Gaslight her back now.