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They're way above my league, but I found favour in their eyes and I was greatly favoured.

I've this class of people in my life; they've rendered help that I often feel like I don't even deserve. There's nothing I can give them in return that would repay them for their deeds.

I've been thinking lately, how do I appreciate these people? Have you been in my shoes before? I need your help!

If they can afford whatever you can give them then I'll suggest you look somewhere else. Look for those people that cant afford anything and bless them.

Package whatever you have and give it to them.

Those type of people don't need your gifts, it's the gesture that matters to them.

Do not gift them something way above your pay grade as they can tell that you are forcing it. They already know your level.

If you're a farmer, package your fruits and vegetables well for them. If you keep poultry, package your birds well for them.
As long as it's well wrapped and presented genuinely.


Again, do not, gift them a car when you are a humble farmer or an iPhone when you use a Tecno.

phorget:
If they can afford whatever you can give them then I'll suggest you look somewhere else. Look for those people that cant afford anything and bless them.

You didn't get my point, but it's okay though.

I can't bless everyone neither can you. I blessed the few I can in my humble capacity without any fanfare.

VeryWickedMan:
Package whatever you have and give it to them.

Those type of people don't need your gifts, it's the gesture that matters to them.

Do not gift them something way above your pay grade as they can tell that you are forcing it. They already know your level.

If you're a farmer, package your fruits and vegetables well for them. If you keep poultry, package your birds well for them.
As long as it's well wrapped and presented genuinely.


Again, do not, gift them a car when you are a humble farmer or an iPhone when you use a Tecno.

Thank you so much. This make a lot of sense.

In my own case, I'm a government employee and a programmer/developer, what do you suggest I gift such people?

Opportunities is the best way to reward them if you got one.

Gift sometimes, people might not appreciate it

DarkLover:
Thank you so much. This make a lot of sense.

In my own case, I'm a government employee and a programmer/developer, what do you suggest I gift such people?

During Christmas, or their birthday, take a he-goat to the person. Or pay an artist to draw a big quality portrait for the person. As long as you can afford it without much stress.

Don't overdo. Good luck

VeryWickedMan:
Package whatever you have and give it to them.

Those type of people don't need your gifts, it's the gesture that matters to them.

Do not gift them something way above your pay grade as they can tell that you are forcing it. They already know your level.

If you're a farmer, package your fruits and vegetables well for them. If you keep poultry, package your birds well for them.
As long as it's well wrapped and presented genuinely.


Again, do not, gift them a car when you are a humble farmer or an iPhone when you use a Tecno.

first time you are making sense on this forum 😂😂😂
Oshey

Discover what they cherish and get it for them as a gift.

I have an uncle who falls into that category (a very wealth man) I discovered that that he loved arts so much. So I got him drawings from artists. Enlarged and parkaged for him. When he opened it I could see the satisfaction in his face and was glad that I made him happy with my gift.

DarkLover:
They're way above my league, but I found favour in their eyes and I was greatly favoured.

I've this class of people in my life; they've rendered help that I often feel like I don't even deserve. There's nothing I can give them in return that would repay them for their deeds.

I've been thinking lately, how do I appreciate these people? Have you been in my shoes before? I need your help!

Don't disappoint them, work hard so they are proud that you are doing well. Honour them by calling them as they grow older. If practicable, help and bless their children. Pray for them.

Omo. This na the first time wey i see say you dey converse reasonable.

VeryWickedMan:
Package whatever you have and give it to them.

Those type of people don't need your gifts, it's the gesture that matters to them.

Do not gift them something way above your pay grade as they can tell that you are forcing it. They already know your level.

If you're a farmer, package your fruits and vegetables well for them. If you keep poultry, package your birds well for them.
As long as it's well wrapped and presented genuinely.


Again, do not, gift them a car when you are a humble farmer or an iPhone when you use a Tecno.

Pray for them in their absence. Be conscious of the goodness they've done to you and do good to others in return!

Those kind people brother, give them the little u have. They might not need it but believe me, they will be very happy u bless them

DarkLover:
They're way above my league, but I found favour in their eyes and I was greatly favoured.

I've this class of people in my life; they've rendered help that I often feel like I don't even deserve. There's nothing I can give them in return that would repay them for their deeds.

I've been thinking lately, how do I appreciate these people? Have you been in my shoes before? I need your help!

You can't repay a good deed. You can only be good by returning the kindness.
There are gifts that do not cost much but they shake grounds.
- Buy a full carton of apples and a carton of wine and see what happens.
- If it is a man, you can buy a nice quality set of cufflinks. Buy like 5 or 6 different sets.
-Buy a rechargeable Hair clipper for him.
- If it is a man or woman that loves football, find out the person's favourite club buy the club stickers and make a solid club jersey with customised name (nickname) and number.
You can do it for their kids if you don't want to go direct.
- Do not buy perfumes oh.
- Send my own APPRECIATION for this advice.

It's very simple. Give them something they mostly use daily, i.e, some bottles of wine, a nice fountain pen, a bag of rice or basmati, a grocery hamper (not out of your budget), add a card that indicate you appreciate them, noting how grateful you are. It's not really the gift that matters, but the intention of appreciating their efforts.

Lol package what you have and go show genuine appreciation. They will appreciate your gratitude more than what you give them.

DarkLover:
They're way above my league, but I found favour in their eyes and I was greatly favoured.

I've this class of people in my life; they've rendered help that I often feel like I don't even deserve. There's nothing I can give them in return that would repay them for their deeds.

I've been thinking lately, how do I appreciate these people? Have you been in my shoes before? I need your help!

Commend them to God in prayers, they also have personal battles you aren't aware of. No one is completely free of life's troubles.

Loyalty, loyalty, loyalty.

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There are some things that money can't buy.

DarkLover:
Thank you so much. This make a lot of sense.

In my own case, I'm a government employee and a programmer/developer, what do you suggest I gift such people?

Any good wine you can buy in the market..
Or even a goat if you can afford that..

Don't be like Fubara in future...nothing pains like betrayal from a person who you trusted and went overboard to help!

Because they connected you to their WhatsApp group and gave you a name to use for your monthly point payments?

Your bored today i guess

DarkLover:
They're way above my league, but I found favour in their eyes and I was greatly favoured.

I've this class of people in my life; they've rendered help that I often feel like I don't even deserve. There's nothing I can give them in return that would repay them for their deeds.

I've been thinking lately, how do I appreciate these people? Have you been in my shoes before? I need your help!

Loyalty and keep their birthdays to wish them well and send gifts no matter how small. It could be as small as desktop refrigerators.

DarkLover:
They're way above my league, but I found favour in their eyes and I was greatly favoured.

I've this class of people in my life; they've rendered help that I often feel like I don't even deserve. There's nothing I can give them in return that would repay them for their deeds.

I've been thinking lately, how do I appreciate these people? Have you been in my shoes before? I need your help!

Sunny Okosun said Abiola gave him a Guitar and he was so grateful, he didn’t know what he lacks but he knows him to always look for pen whenever he want to write something, so he decided to get him 2 unique special pen that he won’t like to dump and it worked

For me I have a friend that gave me money when I started my business, he was far above my league even though we are friends

Whenever I see a nice clean gadgets I just send to him, it can even be just a very original charger , Dashcam or anything very original

and I will never stop, infact I have plan to send him a reigning car in the future

How can we be in your shoe wen you didn't tell us the good deeds

Gift is all about how you value the person you're giving it to. No matter what they have, they will appreciate you for saying thank you with a quality gift. Buy quality wrist watch with a bottle of wine if it's a man. If it's a woman, buy her expensive flower with table wine and a thank you card since you can't be sure of her taste in handbags, wigs and perfumes.

Just be genuinely loyal and grateful. They'll know. Don't fail to remember to greet or thank them, or go out of your way to get certain things done for them.

It's not by giving them useless material gifts that they don't need and feel that you've done something in return for them.

DarkLover:
Thank you so much. This make a lot of sense.

In my own case, I'm a government employee and a programmer/developer, what do you suggest I gift such people?

Look for a really good ball pen, cufflinks engraved with his initials, an art work if he loves art, just notice what they like and love to have around them it can even be dog food sef rich people appreciate to gesture more than the gift itself it make them feel appreciated.

DarkLover:
You didn't get my point, but it's okay though.

I can't bless everyone neither can you. I blessed the few I can in my humble capacity without any fanfare.

did you blessed me? I don't think so but waiting......ggg

Give example
What you re saying is abstract
Give real life example

Best is to buy them a present like an art work that can be hanged in their house.
Some people help without expecting anything in return.
They are called God sent