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| Separation by Max31700(op): 9:31pm On Dec 12, 2025 |
Hello everybody ! I’m French and live in France. I was married with a Nigerian woman in France( she is Edo woman) . We made a traditional wedding in France but I gave bride price and also money to her family to make a traditional wedding in Nigeria too. But their family never made any celebration with the money that I gave them and now my wife broke up with me. Can I demand to the family to refund me all the money ? |
| Re: Separation by Kobojunkie: 9:47pm On Dec 12, 2025 |
Max31700:I believe you can demand they refund the bride price to you. As for the money paid towards the celebration itself, unless you have proof of the amount paid to be used specifically for the celebration, and evidence that it was never used or the purpose it was meant for, you may have a hard time getting that back. You may even need to take them to court for that.  1 Like |
| Re: Separation by Ocbooking: 12:43am On Dec 13, 2025 |
Max31700:Yeah you can demand Asapu 1 Like |
| Re: Separation by 2mch(m): 4:46am On Dec 13, 2025 |
Max31700:All you get back is the brideprice. 1 Like |
| Re: Separation by frozen70(f): 6:18am On Dec 13, 2025 |
Max31700:Just forget about any refund it's not even possible If you are fed up with your marriage just walk away |
| Re: Separation by Max31700(op): 8:57am On Dec 13, 2025 |
What is Asapu ? |
| Re: Separation by Nemesis0147(m): 9:24am On Dec 13, 2025 |
What do you need the refund for? Just let them be |
| Re: Separation by Max31700(op): 2:31pm On Dec 13, 2025 |
Just I’ m feeling scammed, I gave money for the celebration and they used it for themselves ! It was not a small amount, gave them almost 7 million Naira. |
| Re: Separation by kingthreat(m): 3:52pm On Dec 13, 2025 |
You cannot demand for money that was shared within 24 hours. Move on! |
| Re: Separation by Helpout12345: 4:39am On Dec 15, 2025 |
Eh yah. Our sister Don use am get palli Sorry, just move on. You cannot get any refund. |
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