most times when i read through the posts in this forum i begin to wonder if it has really created positive impacts on the people involved. so i decided to ask this questions openly;

@ guys
every day different posts of guys looking for girlfriends, wives to be, or sex mates are posted, guys pls is it that the girls in nland has so much cheapened themselves or what?
can,t opposite sexes just be good friends without having sex? and all this guys that keep posting how much they need a babe, what about ur other babes what happened to them?

@ ladies
how can a financially okay and handsome young guy tell u he has no girlfriend and u believe him even without investigating?
lets not make it so easy for the guys to feel they can post their demands and the next minutes girls will be running after them and falling for their pranks.
the African woman is a virteous and hard working woman! for all i know most of this guys might be out to have fun and free sex and the next minute they are gone without minding the feelings of the lady they are leaving behind.
i think its high time we the ladies in this forum tell our selves the truth and see this guys and their posts for what they truly are.