willsman: A reasonable divorced woman below the age of 40 years is welcome by me. I never marry before and i am still in my Thirties and i need here from the already known okay?

this is serious!

No Odds as far as i am concerned. A divorcee is a human being who has most likely learned from the mistakes of the past. At times i think experience comes with maturity. It should be for you to judge the person's character. A divorcee is a divorced and a divorce cannot be reversed except they remarry. The guy is single and available. If you are willing to embrace his kids as your own, i see nothing wrong in the arrangement. How the relationship will carry on is where you two will decide. How the kids are to be raised, the structure of the household and so many other things. Also take the time to know and understand the cause of the previous divorce. Also do your own investigation and never rely on anyone's word. When you have satisfied yourself with what you have seen vs what you heard, if it is favorable to you then by all means go ahead. One life to live. Someones trash is another s treasure. Goodluck

@Tgirl4real, can be for real as well now? What's on your mind? Talk to me okay? Be wise. Be smart. I am waiting.

willsman: @Tgirl4real, can be for real as well now? What's on your mind? Talk to me okay? Be wise. Be smart. I am waiting.

hehehe

how come I'm just seeing dis?

Go for it gurl! Mistakes happen

@Poster, the odds are higher against you when you marry a divorcee. I am afraid the trend seems to hold across the world, not just in the west. People who have been divorced once are more likely to get a second divorce . . . or abandon their spouses. That is why their is a growing number of divorced people, many of them second time 'offenders' out there.

Before you walk down d aisle try asking urself dis question,cos i can't answer dis for u,if Jesus was there wit u would he support dis marriage.

Those that think marrying a widow/widower, have u thought about the cause of death? What if the person is a murderer? Well, just a thought. Still bores down following a proper research and making sure it's something u can cope with.

slimyem: is it advisable especially for someone who has never been married?
Does it mean your partner would be more matured?
Is it a recipe for disaster or another divorce down the line?
Would the new family be totally free from the ex-wife/husband especially if there are kids involved?
Please share your thoughts...and save a soul

1 yes and no
2 yes and no
3 no,the family cant not be totally free frm ex if children r involved
it all depend on what caused the divorce in the first place. if it wasnt due to her fault then u may hv no problem

Until u find out d exact reason for d divorce.dont marry a divorcee.

I will pick a divorcee anytime over a man over 40 that has never been married