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What Will U Do by Lagusta(m): 12:41pm On Jul 03, 2012
If u see your child, or children doing this, what are u going to do?

Beat them, pamper them, shout.......


Sorry if the pix are disturbing.....
Re: What Will U Do by Nobody: 9:53pm On Jul 03, 2012
probably smack the dumb[b]a[/b]ss who is taking the picture thinking it is funny.......instead of educating these young lost minds.
Re: What Will U Do by Ivynwa(f): 10:22pm On Jul 03, 2012
I use to wonder what will become of the children growing up in societies that have the wining culture(men and women dancing in a s-exual-innuendo style, spine glued together) and the first picture shockingly depicted what I feared most about that.

The kids in the first picture have careless parents who did not shield their children good from the stuffs happening around them. The fact that some adults dance like that even in front of kids isn't reason for any child to copy that. Children must be guided good while growing up and when they grow into adulthood can choose to wine dance or not. A female child of mine can't be caught opening her legs and cocking up that shamelessly while dancing neither will a male child of mine be immodest enough to cosy over a girl's bombom like that because they will have been taught that it isn't modest for kids to do. Kids have no business doing that,it's an adult stuff.

I am actually thinking that it should be made illegal for adults to wine-dance/roll/jiggle in front of children and movies and music videos that have that should be rated too. It is starting a shocking decadent where kids grow up seeing that daily and thinking that it is a proper thing to do. Kids will soon be competing on who can outwine who (as if they are not even doing that already) Huh!
Re: What Will U Do by Dimples316(f): 12:32am On Jul 04, 2012
Shior! Which one come be pamper them or shout? angry That's the western style of doing things typical of British & American folks. I doubt if they ever shout, in their case the kids are the ones who usually shout and talk back.

Me, I'll give them a good beating and explain what the beating is for, with a stern warning for that to never repeat itself. MTV, CHANNEL O and un-supervised tv viewing is doing more damage than good.
Re: What Will U Do by UncleN: 12:54am On Jul 04, 2012
With the professional way the girl in the second picture is holding on, one can tell that the brainless adult taking the pictures has been getting them to do this sickening pose a lot.




Geez, this pics is so wrong on so many levels.
Re: What Will U Do by Ivynwa(f): 2:15am On Jul 04, 2012
UncleN:
With the professional way the girl in the second picture is holding on, one can tell that the brainless adult taking the pictures has been getting them to do this sickening pose a lot.
Geez, this pics is so wrong on so many levels.

Professional Gini?
The second picture looks a bit innocent as in kids showering can hug up that innocently without any se-xual intentions. The first picture on first glance seemed to me like kids dancing and wining on each other. Whoops! there's a possibility they were made to pose like that by whoever snapped that, only a sick perverted adult can make children pose like that for his/her amusement.
Re: What Will U Do by Lagusta(m): 12:16pm On Jul 04, 2012
Thank u all for all ur contributions.

I saw those pics posted on my BBM, nd I thot 2 myself: how can two kids be doing this rubbish and a crrazee adult is busy taking the pics

That's why I posted the pics on this forum, so that God loving family men and women can tell us how they feel, what should be done, etc...

To tell u the truth, this western civilization has turned some of our kids into rogues (pardon my expression).
Re: What Will U Do by Nobody: 2:55pm On Jul 04, 2012
Lagusta: Thank u all for all ur contributions.

I saw those pics posted on my BBM, nd I thot 2 myself: how can two kids be doing this rubbish and a crrazee adult is busy taking the pics

That's why I posted the pics on this forum, so that God loving family men and women can tell us how they feel, what should be done, etc...

To tell u the truth, this western civilization has turned some of our kids into rogues (pardon my expression).

western what?!?!?!?!?!?!? bro, what kind of homemade brew are you sipping on?! when was the last time you saw any "western" dancing with roots with such outrageous dancing?! i guess you havent seen how them ladies dance the COUPÉ DECALÉ lately? or how them Jamo ladies are grinding ferociously?! is that also part of the bad influence from "western civilization"?
Re: What Will U Do by Lagusta(m): 9:44pm On Jul 04, 2012
MRbrownJAY:

western what?!?!?!?!?!?!? bro, what kind of homemade brew are you sipping on?! when was the last time you saw any "western" dancing with roots with such outrageous dancing?! i guess you havent seen how them ladies dance the COUPÉ DECALÉ lately? or how them Jamo ladies are grinding ferociously?! is that also part of the bad influence from "western civilization"?

Guy abeg, let's face facts abeg.......

In a real african culture, women dance seperate from men, even if they dance together, the man will still be afraid to touch her back not to talk of her waists.


But now what do we see: women wit bikini, beyonce dancing with a bathing suit, films wit hot romance, porn, etc..... ALL SEEN BY OUR PRECIOUS CHILDREN?!?!?!?!?!?


Now u tell me I sip brew, if u stop smoking weed, u'll kno dat........ All those I mentioned came from where........

Answer urself
Re: What Will U Do by KemiAdeyeye: 3:15pm On Jul 05, 2012
knock d photographer
Re: What Will U Do by tasandra: 3:32pm On Jul 05, 2012
undecided undecided i think,ppl shuld just lv kids alone sad
Re: What Will U Do by ronkebp(f): 4:30pm On Jul 05, 2012
It just shows that s/e/x is an innate thing.....everyone is born with it....though the environment please a huge role in quickly developing it in the young minds...when adults do nasty stuff infront of the kids, what do they expect??...if you like beat them from now till next year...what has been inscribed in the brain cannot be changed. All the parents have to do now, is educate those/their kids on S/e/x.
Re: What Will U Do by Nobody: 8:45pm On Jul 05, 2012
Lagusta:

Guy abeg, let's face facts abeg.......

In a real african culture, women dance seperate from men, even if they dance together, the man will still be afraid to touch her back not to talk of her waists.


But now what do we see: women wit bikini, beyonce dancing with a bathing suit, films wit hot romance, porn, etc..... ALL SEEN BY OUR PRECIOUS CHILDREN?!?!?!?!?!?


Now u tell me I sip brew, if u stop smoking weed, u'll kno dat........ All those I mentioned came from where........

Answer urself

so are you basing WESTERN CIVILIZATION dance culture on 30yr old "Beyonce"?! or better yet, do you really think that these children have been watching p[b]o[/b]rn or some hot movies?! you make no damn sense, especially when we know that our ancestors were dancing HALF NEKKID (so anyone in a bathing suit is a much better).

yes we see a lot of strange stuff happening in the west, AS WE EQUALLY SEE STRANGE STUFF HAPPENING IN AFRICA, get real!
Re: What Will U Do by Lagusta(m): 11:22am On Jul 08, 2012
MRbrownJAY:

so are you basing WESTERN CIVILIZATION dance culture on 30yr old "Beyonce"?! or better yet, do you really think that these children have been watching p[b]o[/b]rn or some hot movies?! you make no damn sense, especially when we know that our ancestors were dancing HALF NEKKID (so anyone in a bathing suit is a much better).

yes we see a lot of strange stuff happening in the west, AS WE EQUALLY SEE STRANGE STUFF HAPPENING IN AFRICA, get real!

Sir, please be realistic,,,

These children can't behave this way unless they see adults behave like that. They put their trust in us, they see that everything we do is ok, including intimacy, b.oo.ty dance etc....

If an adult can take these pics without seeing anything wrong, then don't u think an adult may be watchin some hot movie, the kids are there and the adult dosent tell them to close their eyes or even tell them to play outside?


Yes, our ancestors dance bare chested, but our culture has norms and taboos, especially when it comes to virginity.


So............
Re: What Will U Do by Nobody: 5:29pm On Jul 08, 2012
^^^^^ finally you are making some sense,bro!!!!!
children will copy what they see, and women dance like this ALL OVER THE WORLD!!!!!!!!
so stop blaming "western civilization", and take responsibility for the poor upbringing that some parents (all over the world) give to their children.

we should BLAME the parents, BLAME the neighbors who brought their kids to that party, BLAME the grandparents who probably watched, BLAME the teachers who may see them dance like that in school and say nothing, BLAME each and everyone who was at the party and said nothing..........basta!
Re: What Will U Do by Lagusta(m): 11:19am On Jul 09, 2012
Hmmmmmmm, u really tied my hands there, I hav nothing to say again.

Well parents, u kno wat to do....
Re: What Will U Do by Ayobami7(m): 3:42pm On May 23, 2018
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