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Household enemy that feeds you? it's hard to deal with because ignoring her/him will land you into ebi mpa wa! but if they are just haters that can't get at you in any way possible (meaning you can do without them and still buy and sell your market, if they aren't providing roof over you, or capable of cutting your business contacts or causing any form of negative effect on your wellbeing etc) then don't bother yourself with much worries. all you have to do is slid the curtain (Seize further communication or contact). Problem solved.

it's that simple, you see?

Warning! Don't engage in a battle without weighing your options, firstly be patient and don't start immediately, work out what you may stand to lose, or need from them, find an alternative, then boom enter ring!!

RushManni:
Please how best can one handle a household enemy ?

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In as much as I support all the points you made up there but being Alpha isn't limited to male and female affairs like someone up there told you already.

MrBrownJay1:
- one knows how to handle women the other get handled by women
- one respects women but doesnt take shit from them, the other worships women and gets treated like shit from them
- one puts his foot down and says "NO/STOP" etc when women start to act a fool, the other accepts whatever degrading yeye nonsense women throws at him.

nyama

jeromestarks:
It's the food I prepared in my gf house. Delicious right?😋

What concoction is that?

Caaz:


How about you interprete this.
By the way,you haven't insulted Nigerian women for the past 4 days..just a subtle reminder.

Fake news

Can someone show me the difference? What is N6k so call reduction got to do with prize slash?
Meanwhile someone up there said the said chairman no get shop.

Wahala

The truth is coming out small small even though Igbos have long foreseen the truth, they (Igbos) can sight a failure 2000 miles away no matter how beautifully decorated or painted. Once an average easterner sight bad market he will blow alarm for others to find their way before the packaged calamity befall them.

Some yorubas chose to hate Igbos out of envy and jealousy simply because they want to be them but can never be. Yorubas can be tribalistic and deceptive, love to defend evil thinking that by so doing they will get at Igbos, anything Igbos call value an average yoruba man will do everything possible to devalue and make nonsense out of it just to spite the Igbos.

YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN ALL BY YOURSELF! You betrayed a southerner (Jonathan) against the southern interest, you promoted and worked against anything SOUTHERN.

The rooster is finally home to roost

True talk may gee

Badadvisor:
Bro anambra men are the biggest simp in Nigeria no insult to my igbo brothers.
They really suck when it comes to female affairs. It's so sad, Last i visited enugu and spent about 6 months there girls always tag enugu boys as stingy because they hardly spend on random ladies anyhow even their lover. I thought that was a joke until i heard like 5 different girls saying they are scared of enugu guys that they are the king of scamming and most even defraud the ladies and dump them.
Almost similar traits with owerri guys.

Anambra men keeps disgracing the igbo race with their weak acts. Yeah they are genius in business affairs but when it comes to females they are the biggest simp.
Mummy mummy mummy Damn man.

Glad you know yourself so don't every give in or consider a tiny men.

DivinegiftofGod:
Tiny man. That is how you know them..once their wife drops two children they begin to complain about the place. The woman that has been managing your tiny pp never complained of being undersatisfied you now came out to say this trash about her.

I will never marry a tiny man. even if I used to pity them before, with what this carrot said, I'll never ever settle for one.

fvcking boring and dangerous. Don't trust them

Coincidentaly my guy just reovered from same journey, he confirmed that yesterday and early morning match with his wife was a huge success, your cases are exactly the same. All of a sudden baba tin began to get too weak to penetrate deeper, that the wife started complaining each time after match. So, I Urge him to join me in my 3 times a week morning workout, recommended
1. he drank bitter leaf three times only and stop after third,
2. He must turn to GOAT and cut and take fresh tomatoes mixed with raw
3. Jinger and gallic
3. Onion
4. carrot all cut into a plate, mix and eat together
5. Then take little horney maybe a teaspoon or so at a time several times daily
6. All these he did for less that 2 weeks
7. Boom! He bruised his wife honeypot with his hard rock OKONGWU
8. In the morning madam no fit play full match complaining of last night match hard dawcking.
I recommend this to every married man before this honey boys nack ur wife for u

Can't see anything wrong here.. for your info God created weed and Jesus dinned and wine with sinners because he came into the world for the sinners and not the righteous.
Do church should be a place for the sinners to come and receive salvation.

I agree with you, some folks are running a serious enterprise in the name of church especially Nigerian/African bizness centres cum church.

I WISH i COULD LIKE THIS A MILLIONS TIMES.. VERY TRUE TALK BROV

10thTenthMan:
No sensible married woman who knows the principles of marriage WILL EVER EVER EVER confide in another man she is not attracted to.

ANY WOMAN WITH AN IOTA OF SENSE AND BRAINS SHOULD KNOW THAT SUCH IS ONLY DONE BASED ON ATTRACTION. Many times the problem is even fabricated, especially when WOMEN WANT TO SEDUCE WITHOUT WANTING TO BE JUDGED or called a CHEAP MARRIED SLUT!!

Seeking solace, and validation, and support, and solutions, and comfort, and understanding , etc from another man IS BASED ON ATTRACTION. You may lie to yourself as a woman that it isn’t. You may self delude. You may claim that you are just looking for who to confide in. Yes keep deceiving yourself. You are a bloody lair and you think your lies will cover your shame or calm your conscience. But you are a big liar Ma/Madam! Shut up. You are a lair and every lair is a thief! You as a woman know what it means to “LEAD MEN ON”. Bleep you! Every grown woman is a naturally born seducer and you know what MEN WANT FROM YOU. Stop lying madam! Shut up!

Because even if you comfortably lie and deceive yourself, what of the MAN THAT READS THE WRONG SIGNALS? Are you saying you don’t know how men read these things? WHAT OF THE SO CALLED MAN THAT IS YOUR NEWLY FOUND CONFIDANT WHO AS YOU ARE TABLING YOUR PROBLEMS HE IS SECRETLY GETTING AN ERECTION AND IMAGINING HOW HE IS GOING TO RAIL AND PLOUGH AND FUC YOU SO HARD FROM BEHIND?

You married men and women can be so foolish! Especially these ladies can be so so so foolish. Don’t trust any man. Even your own father, brother, cousin, uncle, father in law, Pastor, Priest, Elder, etc WHEN IT COMES TO YOUR VAGINA!!!!!!! How is this a a difficult thing to do and rule to follow? How!? DONT EVER TRUST ANY MAN! Always avoid anything that is remotely tempting or what men see as “Green Light”.


THAT BUNKUM YOU ARE CONFIDING IN IS SECRETLY PRAYING THAT THE PROBLEM CONTINUES, YOU LET YOUR GUARD DOWN AND ONE DAY HE PUMPS HOT CUM INTO YOUR ASHAWO WOMB. Yes, the man you are confiding in is secretly praying you let your guard down one day and he sleeps with you?! Foolish women who will never ever want to be accountable for their actions. WOMEN, YOU CANNOT SOW CORN AND REAP ROSES.

You draw close to a man, table all marital problems and assume you don’t expect you, the man or both of you to develop feelings? Really? Are women this dumb about men’s intentions or are they just terrible lairs totally enveloped in self deceit!?

Listen to me and listen good! Whenever a man confides in a woman about his wife and marital issues, more often than not he is trying to get into her pants! He is trying to justify why he wants to bed her badly. And most times such issues are solvable. Many times the issues are 1000 per cent fabricated.

You may all claim it is not true. The question is how many of you even understand human psychology well enough to know why you do what you do and act the way you act?! Most of you don’t know shit about your own motivations.

ANY WISE WOMAN WILL NOT. I REPEAT WILL NOT CONFIDE IN A MAN WHO IS NOT HER RELATIVE, UNLESS SHE ONE WAY OR ANOTHER IS ATTRACTED TO THAT MAN/HIM. WOMEN NATURALLY SEEK MEN WHO ARE SOLUTION PROVIDERS. THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO MEN WHO CAN SOLVE THEIR PROBLEMS.

A WOMAN IS NATURALLY SECRETIVE ABOUT SUCH RELATIONSHIP ISSUES AND MARITAL TROUBLES THING. NOW FOR HER TO PERSONALLY /PHYSICALLY (AND ONE-ON- ONE) COMFORTABLY OPEN UP TO A MAN WHO ISN'T HER HUSBAND OR RELATIVE, THEN SHE STILL LIES TO HERSELF OR FOOLISHLY ASSUMES SHE ISN'T ATTRACTED TO SUCH A MAN OR CLAIMS SUCH A MAN SHOULDN'T ALSO DEVELOP FEELINGS FOR HER WITH THE RISK OF ADULTERY, THEN SHE IS THE MOST FOOLISH WIFE EVER. SHE IS A BIG FOOL!

One of the things married men hate is their wives telling their business. Especially telling about their marital problems to others. Men don’t even like it when you tell your parents. But at least If it is to relatives, well he might be angry but not mind much. If it is to her girlfriends, then he might just say ok, it is just girl talk. But telling a man’s business to Another Man? Another contender? An opposition? Another devourer and another conqueror and hunter? Then such a woman is a big fat stupid fool. You must be mad to do that. And such a foolish woman and does not understand men/husbands and their Egos at all.

As a woman, if you come to me and confide in me about your husband,and tell me his secrets, I will attempt to sleep with you and I will encourage such any man you expose yourself like that to, to sleep with you as payment. Foolish women! You are a big fool. Go and solve your marital problems. Or divorce the man if it is irreconcilable. Respect your selves and keep your vaginas at a place. “Rest one place” as we say in freaking pidgin!

Wish I can like this coment a million times.

Nonny95:
LeoDeking and always writing trash for the bin.

Dear Inferior human,

Igbos don’t have time to hate on you or anyone from your tribe. They hate injustice either to them or to their neighbors and that’s why they look like a threat to you people. You don’t see them hating on others like this. There’s a reason Igbo men chose to drown in USA than to be a slave 👍🏽.

You can see how they all supported Jonathan even when your tribesmen went Gaga. How they supported your brother Ambode, how they supported Obaseki against Oshiomohole, how they supported Otti against Ikpeazu, how they're supporting Fubara an Ijaw man against an Ikwerre that's even more brotherly.

SAVAGE!!
This man no get joy at-all..
Wike you see your life??
The rooster is finally home to roost.

Rest in Peace Sir!
Okwadike, Great man of Igbo land.

then by all means protect your heart sis
do what ever works for you.

Prettygirl200:
That's the only way I can easily forget about him.

Block button spell cowardice, it demonstrates weakness. every human should learn to take a stand and set boundaries (Redline). note one Bs multiplies to more Bs(es) and if your cool taking BS then by all means your a low value woman and he's right?

Prettygirl200:
So you are advicing I unblock him? I honestly do not want to go back because all of that comparison my efforts are seen as acting up or pretending.

Every man's dream is to find a partner who is willing to adjust and her adjusting or willingness to do so is a good sign brov! noone is perfect, well I'm not here to judge who's right or who isn't.

lordnkem000:
Oga how sure are you the man is the problem?
Did you not hear her say she is adjusting herself to suit him? Will a woman adjust herself for a bad man or unstable man? U sef think am na

with what you just stated, now I can understand he isn't "stable" and as such not reliable/fit for relationship so what is your objective and goal putting up with such individual? someone who is ready to let you down at every opportunity??

maybe his dickmatic is good enough to becloud your reasoning lol. left for me, I think you should not block him yet as that will leave a sense of "unfinished" deal which will always push you back, but unblocking him will give you an advantage to listen to his rants, which will increase your (woman) "see-finish" that will ultimately help you to detach faster than you think.

My one cent doe!

Prettygirl200:
Won't unblocking him be harmful? I just want to forget about him. Unblocking him will make me want to go back or if he messages me I wil want to reply him, according to him when the lady confessed she loves him he told her that he has a girlfriend and the lady to him to leave me that since I couldn't support him that am a leach, u see it has always been like this whenever a lady happens to fall for him they tend to do all of these and the comparison will start whenever he does that I always try to leave because I want his happiness, I don't want him to use it against me in the future.

another one don chop break fast
I have learnt not to make decision or action out of anger, peace of mind above all but I think you shouldn't block him yet. just delete his number or add a figure to his number so you won't see his whatsapp activites anymore.

They said when a man marries two wifes then and only then he will know which one is better, so unblock him for now.

It's obvious your heart is still with him.

use your head mr op, know your history and know peace.. if not ask ex governor Sullivan how he dealt with his most powerful, deep rooted grassroot political godfather predecessor in the person of chimaroke nnamani the loud mouthed dog.
Op don't underate the power of the office of a sitting governor, they are not called demi god for nothing.

MY QUESTION IS WHY EXCHANGE SELFIE? Someone you share same office with
Bro I can't satisfactorily say they have nack but in the holy book they don nack many times uncoutable.

Keep it coming infact press their neck wella, expose them.

I hope agbado defenders already build a defence for this.. have you received your own invitation yet??

Fake news!!
Agbado news
Protest yet no placard and standing facing a speaker perhaps normal weekday prayers.

Back in the 80's it was Ghana must go and today it is Igbos turn, I thought this is one Nigeria. I don't mind apply for stay permit if that will help Nigeria to allow me quite enjoyment of my life, An average Igbo man is an investor/developer they give back to the society where they earn their money. An average Igbo man is law abiding and don't want trouble due to his investment, he want peaceful environment for business to thrive.

They are de-tribal, they are the true practitioners of One Nigeria. Other tribes make their money and vamoose with the proceed but same does not apply to an average Igbo man. They don't annihilate properties, they rather bought and paid for them legally. (but illegally? because of connivance/under hand dealing of government officials) CORRUPTION.

I don't know why some people be beefing a fellow for no justified reason.. An average Igbo man is a worrior, dem no dey asslick dem no dey look face.. they just tell it to your face, can't you understand?
let them be cos na so them BE!! ..
Na so dem papa born dem and you CANNOT change them nor keep them quiet, they can even love and support you above their own brother once they believe in you, even though you be yoruba, hausa, or anywhere in the world you may come from.

Stop the gaslighting and be reasonable, you cannot tell me who to vote!! I vote my conscience!! I deserve a peace of mind.. the choice has been made!! shhebe you said you win and now in power?
Ok na rule and let me be.

Don't damage my home even if you must don't do in in vengeance.. this is not the right time, your actions smell vengeance!! can't you do it some other time??
is the subsidy removal not enough load already? why come now to demolish my home when you should empathize with the people for their suffering?

some people paid rent and have not passed one week in the new apartment and you demolish it, some people are ejected due to in ablity to pay house rent but you don't give a f#cks all you do is destroy it!!

where is your consceience? and you the POLICY DEFENDER where is your conscience

It's not about the Igbos rather it's about us the citizenry whose government aggression is affecting and pushing into untold but avoidable hardship!! why not join voice and condemn the evil act of the state govt. Their ill timed policy of destruction and wickedness??

you can't join me because I am an Igbo the father land of mama shinedu?
Well what goes around comes around!!

Stop the Igbophobic
#LETTHEIGBOSBREATHE#
#DONTINVESTINLAGOS#