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Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Can You Marry Someone From Nairaland? by aaliyah06(f): 2:01am On Feb 04, 2007
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]Hummm I love this topic. I think the internet can filter out the fools and fakes if your have an open mind and you don't ALLOW yourself to fall prey the 419ers that are on-line.  And they are sooooo out there,   If I could find my love on-line I would be cool with it.  There are several differant venues to find a boy/girlfriend // husband/wife and this could be one.  Who knows.  Deep down one will always know when they meet Mr/ Mrs Right.  It just feels right,  AWWWWW. love!!!!!!  grin
FamilyRe: Wedding Websites: The New Fad In Nigeria? by aaliyah06(f): 5:11am On Jan 26, 2007
I LOVE THE IDEA OF A WEDDING SITE. IT IS A WAY OF EXPRESSING OUR LOVE, JOY AND HAPPINESS TO THE WORLD,  FOR THOSE THAT ARE NOT INTERESTED THEY DON'T HAVE TO PARTICIPATE IN THEM OR VIEW THEM,  I THINK THEY ARE GREAT,  WHEN I GET REMARRIED I WILL MAKE SURE I DOCUMENT IT WITH A WEB PAGE AS WELL,  THIS IS VERY BIG HERE IN AMERICA. MY BROTHERS BEST FRIEND HAD A BEAUTIFUL WEB SITE,   THEY ARE AN INEXPENSIVE WAY TO SHARE THE LOVE YOU HAVE FOR YOUR HUSBAND / WIFE / FAMILY WITH THE WORLD, BY THE WAY I SORRY FOR THE CAPS BY THE TIME I REALIZED I HAD CAPS ON I HAD TYPED THIS PARAGRAPH,  HAHAHA,  WOOPS!!!!!!!!!!!!  tongue  undecided
Jokes EtcRe: Rules For Men In Relationships by aaliyah06(f): 9:22pm On Jan 19, 2007
[size=14pt]Ok now with that said.  All is well in Nairaland again.  Have a good day.  I just finished making the best egusi soup that any African American sista could ever throw down on.  Next I am about to make some amala or pounded yam. YUM YUM YUM!  ANYONE HUNGRY? YEAH BABY!!!!! grin[/size]
RomanceRe: Having Relationship Issue, Dating A Nigerian Man, I'm An African American Female by aaliyah06(f): 3:22pm On Jan 18, 2007
JUST MAKE SURE YOUR HEART MATCHES YOU MIND, AND YOU MIND MATCHED YOUR HEART,
Jokes EtcRe: Rules For Men In Relationships by aaliyah06(f): 3:19pm On Jan 18, 2007
[size=14pt]NOPES I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A BOSS JUST A REAL MAN,  JUDGING FROM THE COMMENT YOU JUST MADE I DONT THINK YOU WOULD KNOW MUCH ABOUT THAT,  TO BAD B/CUZ YOU ARE MISSING OUT ON THE REAL THING. HOW ABOUT THAT, [/size]
RomanceRe: Having Relationship Issue, Dating A Nigerian Man, I'm An African American Female by aaliyah06(f): 5:00am On Jan 17, 2007
[b]To put your mind at rest,  You know your feelings and if you feel strange about it then leave it alone,  You can listen to everyone here but follow your on heart if you win you win if you lose you lose, 

If you want to estabish a foundation with this man get everything out in the open,  Tell him everything old and new,  Request that he do the same,  May work may not,  But you need to try,

I have been around Nigerian men for a great majority of my life,  I lived in Nigeria and I have a Nigerian / American daughter,  I divoced my Nigerian husband about 11 years ago but I still hold him near to my heart,  We only divorced for reasons that we both agreed could not be resolved, 

After that I married an american man and it hated the marriage,  Why? Because he was not Nigerian,  Girl it was just not the same, 

I am now in love with an Nigerian and he is the most wonderful thing in my life,  Eveyone is bashing Nigerian men,  Well what about all the american men that do the same thing,  THEY ARE OUT THERE!!!

Sis my suggestion to you from one African American sista to another is just to follow your heart and do what you feel is correct,  If you give him money or not is not the issue here,  We give out money all day long,  If you love this man and you need him and want him,  JUST DO IT,  Make it work,  And if it does not work you can always say that it was not because you did not try,  And he will not be able to say it to you, 

And for all you folks out here bashing Nigerian men,   SHAME ON YOU!!!  You are not in thIS womans shoes and you know not what she feels, 

I would say give him a chance to prove himself (BUT DONT BE A FOOL,  OPEN YOUR MIND AND YOUR HEART) THINK!!! and if he cant or does not meet your satifaction then and only then,  GIVE HIM THE OLE AFRICAN AMERICAN SIS GIRL BOOT, 

Go get yo man if you want him,  If not let him be,  Get your piece of mind, 

Ok that was my .2 cents,  Hope it helps,   grin [/b]
Jokes EtcRe: Rules For Men In Relationships by aaliyah06(f): 4:27am On Jan 15, 2007
Well I am American and I would not like to play by these rules.  I like for my man to be the man and these rules allow me to run all over him.  He is not a man if he plays by these rules and I would not want to be HIS women if he did.  embarassed

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