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JayyXXX:
Go and urge your Daddy you notorious SIMP.

Okay. You're just stubborn. That's it

JayyXXX:
Dear SIMP,

If you want to be the Tony Umez in her life, go ahead and send her DM, don't drag me into your f00lishness.

Thank you and God bless you.

Simple correction you don't heed. It's a woman you're addressing in a very rude way. I urge you to apologize

JayyXXX:
I love your confidence... Even chimpanzee go still say E fine for the animal kingdom.

Don't talk to a woman like that. It's rude

OP is beautiful tho. Should I send DM if u no go dey do Shakara

Littlechild:
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The table will surely turn.

I don't believe. For you to doubt the severity of what someone's going through, it's pretty much obvious I'll meet you the same way I left you in Nigeria. No much difference. I belittle you

Littlechild:
Welcome to Nigeria in advance.

Which I'm sure I'll still meet you where I left you. No doubt

Littlechild:
Aareona

1.Come back to Nigeria and learn more lessons.

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Ok I'm on it

UnFashionIsta:
Took it during the day, I didn't claim to take it now. Forget, last last me and you know say you no fit compare life in Canada to life in Naija. No need for unnecessary arguments. All the best bro!

Thank you for your concerns. I really appreciate you. May God bless you because I know you're speaking from a place of concern. I can't take a student loan because of personal reasons and believes, and that's why I don't have a credit card too. Yes. I believe in the little I'm able to get for myself not in an interest base money. And I don't want to plunge the little in saving into tuition for some reasons. My vent isn't about finances or money

Earlier today, I tried to vent out by talking about what I feel about Canada. My post was in no attempt to denigrate abroad or Canada since I know how much we respect these places as a Nigerian. I do too. My intent was only to vent and be fine. But the mods @DisGuy and @justwise decided to mute me because they felt I talked bad about abroad. Is this how things suppose to be? How does voicing out my concerns genuinely turn to an offense? I wish @seun look into what these mods are doing. This reallying hurt me

I received a lot of comments for this post on the travel tread but can't reply because the moderators have blocked me from being able to reply. The mods probably think I attacked abroad with my post or they think that I'm exposing what they're always trying hard to conceal. I'm sorry but I was only venting my thoughts and what I felt. I didn't intend to offend anyone.

UnFashionIsta:
It's based on what you said that you can't afford tuition, when there are several available programs for tuition aid. If you're unwilling to take aid to fund your education to move up the ladder, then I see why you're finding it hard to settle in Canada. Nowhere is perfect, but life is what you make of it, and you have higher chances of making it in Canada than most other places in the world, and that's a fact.

Ok. Continue making it in Canada. No one stops you

UnFashionIsta:
Lies bro. If you've really been in Canada for three years and a legal resident, you won't be quoting 40k dollars as tuition, especially considering that there are grants and student loans everywhere. Also, Canadians are some of the most educated people in the world. If you're unable to properly integrate and assimilate into Canadian culture and way of life, it's on you, and you're better off going back to Nigeria. Canada isn't for everyone.

Still wondering how you're able to take this shot When it's only night time as we speak

UnFashionIsta:
Lies bro. If you've really been in Canada for three years and a legal resident, you won't be quoting 40k dollars as tuition, especially considering that there are grants and student loans everywhere. Also, Canadians are some of the most educated people in the world. If you're unable to properly integrate and assimilate into Canadian culture and way of life, it's on you, and you're better off going back to Nigeria. Canada isn't for everyone.

And what tells you that I'm willing to go for student loans? You have no idea of my education qualifications and you've already disputed my claim. It's ok

GODPUNISHALABI:
Op must be really ugly not to attract some easy fresh white pussy

It's not that easy as you all think it actually is. Except you're drop-dead gorgeous as a black man, oyinbo woman won't look your face. Most drop dead gorgeous black men are average look in front of a white woman. Oyinbo men are handsome. Why will they leave their own race only to start chasing a black man from Nigeria? What exactly do you have to offer them?

Maynman:
If your savings is 20k, then take 4k from it and come back to Nigeria where it’s fun.

Okay thank you for the advise

SocialJustice:
Why are you saving money? Educate and build yourself to earn higher abi book dey hard you? Then look for a vocation to get certified in.

Na wa.

Education is expensive. Why do you think most Canadian are not in school? They can't afford it. I don't see myself churning out 40k dollar in tuition. Can't afford it

Latty88:
Since $4k dollars can cover your expenses to visit home why don’t you come at least once in a year? This is way you will be around friends and family.

You can also try dating seriously and considering getting married by becoming active in church and Nigerian associations.

Cheers

Thanks for this advise. Same advise my friends gave. I'll take this into consideration from now on

Pakwel:
Guy. You are a loner. Don't you go to the bar ? Blend in with the locals. Not Nigerians oh. I beg you. Because them go put you for trouble

Me where ever country I have gone to. First I locate a bar.. or liquor store skating , any physical activity centre. That's all I need

Socializing abroad isn't as easy as most think. Everyone stay indoor here because the weather isn't exactly bearable most of the day

Ilamina:

But you're ugly right?

Earlier this year, I went back in time to few years back when I was doing so well in Nigeria. The noises from friends and all nurtured the decision to move abroad inside of me. I became so restless till I finally leave. The first day in Canada was the day I knew this place isn't where I can be forever. Most of us would have come back before the time we had in mind except for the fact that I don't still have enough. If I want to travel to naija for vacation now, I will need up to $4k. If I take that away from my savings, I don't know how I can recover.

No one tells about the downside of this place. I feel lonely, depressed and empty most times. Because no one to talk to, just everyone in my workplace goin about their business. If I make attempt to talk to them, they just waive it with a smile. It's been 3years here and the people I still talk to on video call are friends from Nigeria. It's been 3years and my savings is still Short of $20k despite how much my friends in Nigeria do tell me how easy it is for me to make money abroad but I never tell them my situation. I can't wait to make enough and leave Canada for good. I know a lot will come at me with the usuall "come back to Nigeria na", please this is not an attempt to denigrate your abroad heaven, just for me to rant out and be fine

Earlier this year, I went back in time to few years back when I was doing so well in Nigeria. The noises from friends and all nurtured the decision to move abroad inside of me. I became so restless till I finally leave. The first day in Canada was the day I knew this place isn't where I can be forever. Most of us would have come back before the time we had in mind except for the fact that I don't still have enough. If I want to travel to naija for vacation now, I will need up to $4k. If I take that away from my savings, I don't know how I can recover.

No one tells about the downside of this place. I feel lonely, depressed and empty most times. Because no one to talk to, just everyone in my workplace goin about their business. If I make attempt to talk to them, they just waive it with a smile. It's been 3years here and the people I still talk to on video call are friends from Nigeria. It's been 3years and my savings is still Short of $20k despite how much my friends in Nigeria do tell me how easy it is for me to make money abroad but I never tell them my situation. I can't wait to make enough and leave Canada for good. I know a lot will come at me with the usuall "come back to Nigeria na", please this is not an attempt to denigrate your abroad heaven, just for me to rant out and be fine

mariahAngel:
Hahahahahaha

Back then ehn, the guy would always complain, like there was something better out there that he was missing.
He was never satisfied.

When he came back, do you know what he did?
He visited most of his loyal customers one by one, informing them that he's back.
(He business suffered some setbacks because he wasn't available.)

His own is even better because he wasn't even ashamed to come back, or admit that life is hard out there.
As for the money he spent, he knows he'll get it back in no time.

Earlier this year, I went back in time to few years back when I was doing so well in Nigeria. The noises from friends and all nurtured the decision to move abroad inside of me. I became so restless till I finally leave. The first day in Canada was the day I knew this place isn't where I can be forever. Most of us would have come back before the time we had in mind except for the fact that I don't still have enough. If I want to travel to naija for vacation now, I will need up to $4k. If I take that away from my savings, I don't know how I can recover.

No one tells about the downside of this place. I feel lonely, depressed and empty most times. Because no one to talk to, just everyone in my workplace goin about their business. If I make attempt to talk to them, they just waive it with a smile. It's been 3years here and the people I still talk to on video call are friends from Nigeria. I can't wait to make enough and leave Canada for good. I know a lot will come at me with the usuall "come back to Nigeria na", please this is not an attempt to denigrate your abroad heaven, just for me to rant out and be fine