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They're intentionally doing it to frustrate the government. They need serious punishment.

Svoboda:
Wike wouldn't have gone this far if someone like elrufai or Soludo were governor. Someone like Sullivan Chime is even worse. He will chase Wike out of rivers and seize all his assets.

.Wike is not doing anything but state rep.
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I just don't know why he can't keep quiet

So APC don get mole for ADC?

Kobojunkie:
You should take time to ask yourself why you are suddenly threatened by my asking questions and stating hypotheticals? 🥱🥱🥱

You don't ask questions you have already concluded.

I have read your previous comments and I deliberately ignored them because I only want a solution to my concern

Fubara will not rule in peace in Jesus' name.

If e get to your turn , give up

Kobojunkie:
1. If the money is in the woman's name, it is her money, not the man's money to spend or concern himself with.

2. Why was he being locked out? You refused to include the reason the woman gave you for her persistent actions, so it is meaningless to go on about it. 🥱🥱🥱

3. A disregulated adult in the midst of him throwing a tantrum because he is broken? If that is the reason why she locked him out, then she should never have opened that door to him ever again. Your brother should be happy she never called the police on him each of those times. 🥱🥱🥱

Feminine, don't jump to conclusions.

Those are my assumptions not facts.

The only thing both of them say is that she locked me out and begs him for me because I lock him out.

The reason for such was an argument.

Kobojunkie:
1. Did your brother have an issue with the fact that the woman did not share her money with him? 🥱🥱🥱

2. Exactly! I am not interested in who is wrong or right, which is the reason why I didn't comment on her locking him out several times, and I do support their separation. The relationship seemed to have been a whole load of toxic. 🥱🥱🥱

3. Same here...my primary concern too is that child. 🥱🥱🥱

4. Have you considered the possibility that your brother created an environment that was toxic for that child, too? 🥱🥱🥱

1, The truth is that most men I know in the UK complained of the same problem. Yes, he does mention that the money belongs to them both, but he still does everything needed. But I think his major concern is that the lady lavishes the money on the party and clothes... This might be an accumulated issue and add to the main problem, but it's not the major one here.

2, I think the locking out is persistent, and he just got frustrated and was like,.. Is this really worth it, despite the sacrifices? (He didn't tell me this, but I think this is the main issue.)

4, I know my brother can create a toxic environment, especially when he gets broke and wants her to drop some money to offset the bills. I believe he can do it.

Just that locking him out has been the only thing they communicate to us all as the problem.

Kobojunkie:
1. Are you saying your brother's marriage was not affected by this same problem which you mentioned earlier in the conversation? 🥱🥱

2. I don't know whether her locking him outside is justified or not... and yes, there are justifications for locking a person outside. In such cases, if asked, I would instead recommend moving on completely from such a person— if you have to lock a person out of the house, that is a clear sign that you two are probably not good together at all— in such cases, but a lot of times people cling to that which is not good for them. 🥱🥱🥱

2. We only have your account of things, but we have yet to read the woman's side of what kind of man your brother really is... the more important side of this. She is the woman who supposedly had to endure him for as long as they were together, so she should be in a better place to tell us more about your brother than you, actually. 🥱🥱

1. They're not recognised as a couple under UK law to get government benefits. Most black ladies do it over there.

2, I am not interested in who's right or wrong or who offended whom. And I support their separation if that's what will bring peace.

The only problem I have and my concern in everything is the child involved.

He should see him, call him, and schedule time to take him out as normal people will do

Kobojunkie:
Stop this nonsense about reason and the man or woman here. You speaks of reason yet the same man involved himself in welfare lies or felt his ego bruised because the woman did not share the welfare money she got from government so cut the bullsheet already! 🥱🥱🥱

There was no issue with the welfare money, she has been collecting it for 7 years and no problem. But the problem you don't see is locking him outside.

I only bring this up because I want him to see his child and act like a father as before.

My brother is one of the best men out there.

BRATISLAVA:
So, tell us, does he pay all the bills? Or was that part of the crucifixion?

He said he paid the bills, and his wife confirmed it.

lionphil:
Are you sure you're not the lady that chased him out of his own house?

Let him be... He knows what he has seen and how wicked the woman can be. When the boy grows up, he will get to see his dad, period!

I am a man, I am also separated but never abandoned my kids.

Lamasta:
I put it to you that you are the one and should stop typing my brother my brother

I have never been to the UK. I pray I got there soon

Kobojunkie:
Sorry, but those sort of lies no be my thing. I am at least glad this one over here is finally cutting the purse strings of those on this side who have been taking advantage of the system for so long. 🥱🥱

I don't like it when able bodied individuals think it is OK to game the system while depriving so many others of the opportunity they deserve by it. Yes, there are probably some old folks eating cat food because they can't get money to eat from the same government. 🥱🥱🥱

I insisted that you'll understand when you get there.

I know that about 70% of Nigerians over there are doing this.

I won't go to details make I no cast people hustling

Kobojunkie:
Wat in the world? How big are those checks that people would prefer them to progress? 🤔

When you get there you'll understand

Dtruthspeaker:
I understood that it is fake and I commented. And you have gotten the attention you aimed for

Okay, thanks.

kwaso2:
He must have been through HELL. Would you rather your brother commits suicide? God forbid, I guess. Some women are more deadly than poison in marriage. Men are psychologically wired to endure or tolerate. When they finally explore, they react differently. MY ADVICE: Just provide some psychological/emotional support to him. i feel he needs some re-assurance. He will snap out of it (If you can, step in to do daddy role to his son, he will surely come by- he needs to fix himself from too much toxicity from his spouse). If you can(again) arrange to bring his son to his hideout(new accommodation). I wish y'all well.

They're in UK, I am in Nigeria

LordReed:
Probably telling some fibs to get government assistance. She'd expose those lies if she reports the correct situation. Had a relative have the same thing happen. The woman refused to get married to him so she could keep getting those benefits for their child.

Only those in the situation understand better.

doncartel:
The same thing your brother do naim I for do.

Hmmm.

tgmservice:
Your bro don find another banny

He doesn't Keep ladies, just like me.

Josywhyte:
My advice? Get the boy away from his mother so she doesn't poison his mind about his father. You can give the boy to your mum and let your brother know what you've done. I think from there he'll come pick his child or start supporting him again. He till feels his ex-wife is trying to use his son to draw him back to the marriage, hence, his reluctance to expose his current location. Who don faint before no be stranger to death. He may not know other deeper things that guy went through in that marriage. Marriage these days na something else. I know of a pastor that faces this same issue with his wife, but he can't leave the marriage because of what people will say(may be because of his title). He smiles and plays when you see him outside, but at home....HELL from his Lucifer wife...

They're in UK, we're in Nigeria

Dtruthspeaker:
Fake.

One minute, you sounded like it was abroad; next, you sound like it is in Nigeria.

Read very well to understand and not to comment.

BRATISLAVA:
BTW, can someone determine the actual gender of this child?

When you all want to crucify a woman, you'll tell us the same story: man pays all the bills, blah blah blah, but emphasis on he pays all the bills. Is it something they teach you guys in the school of female crucifixion? What was a family man supposed to do anyway, that you guys like telling us this line? If he doesn't pay the bills, who should— her parents? Her ex boyfriend? Her family??

Strungup78 comes to mind.

Until we hear from this woman, nobody can give any real advice. Especially not with the "he pays all the bills" line intended to destroy women.

Don't try to be smart by half...

I am not really interested in thier issue and I never blame the wife in the narration. All I want is how to convince him not to abandon his son.

anonimi:
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So, where did he mention the judiciary in what you posted?

Yes, he claimed to help in Osun, but does that translate to the judiciary?

erico2k2:
Leave your brother ohhh, the lady fit frame am true true, wahala don start B dat

It's well

DeGLORIOUS:
When she was locking him out in the cold, what was she thinking of?

I wonder o

meobizy:
Face your matter and leave them alone. They will be all right, last last.

But they both run to me, even as a very small boy, to them.

I had to ask for help when I got confused too

Where did he mention using the judiciary to help the APC?

You people are just desperate.

meobizy:
Your hand break? Them dey forbid taking care of niblings for your village? Your brother has abandoned his post. Take it up.

So, if he dies now, this is how you will abandon his children?

Why are you frustrated? I have my bills to pay too, and I am in Nigeria, not in the UK, with them.

LibertyRep:
There's no way he'd leave ADC before the primaries, that'd make him appear flippant and directionless.

So he'd rather stay put in ADC and fight for the ticket.

He'll leave ADC if he knows that he doesn't have a chance. He can't contest the primary and later go to another party for a ticket. It's a suicide mission

Kobojunkie:
I mean that the fact they are in the UK should not stop you from keeping in touch with the woman and the child, so you can at least probably be contacted by her if things change regarding her caring for the child.🥱

Ok. Thanks

Kobojunkie:
I know, so you have your work cut out for you. It is sad! 🥱🥱🥱

I don't understand please