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Celebrities / A Short Story. The Missing Period. by Abegforum: 12:02am On Sep 30, 2020
A short story.
THE MISSING PERIOD.

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The last thing any young guy would
want to hear from his girlfriend is
that she has somehow missed her
monthly period.
Chidinma called me very early in the
morning to tell me that she still
couldn't find her monthly period. At
first I thought she was joking, but
before I could say anything, she
started crying in panic. It's been
three days now and it's becoming
long overdue.
"what do you mean you still can't
find your period "
I asked her, before she dropped the
call to continue crying.
We've dated each other for six
months now and we have been very
careful whenever we felt the urge
for sex. There's no way I could forget
using condoms, they always have a
very special place in my heart and
my wallet.
I couldn't totally fathom what was
going on. I called her number again
and she didn't pick up. My mind
literally flew out my body. I lost my
mind! Totally.
I tried recounting all that happened
the last time we both had sex. On
that valentine's day, I took her out to
dinner and then we lodged at a
hotel. I remember pulling out my
condom, I remember. So how can
she say she's looking for her period?
Or did the condom break?
"it's barely ten days and she's
pregnant"?
I thought.
I couldn't wrap my head round the
fact that Chidinma could be
pregnant with my baby. I loved her
but not this way! What will my
parents say? That I went to school
and decided to impregnate an
innocent girl. I would be dead
before the last words could come
out of my mouth.
I was confused. I never fully
understood the "politics of
menstrual cycle".I considered
menstruation a political tool, used
by girls who wanted to frustrate
their boyfriends.
Is Chidinma playing a game with
me?
I thought every girl should see their
periods by the last day of the
month? I thought it comes to them
like monthly salary alerts?
I was swimming in the ocean of
thoughts.
I brought out my phone and opened
goggle. I browsed,
"how to find a missing period"
It opened and I began to read tons
and tons of articles on what might
cause a girl to miss her period. I did
not like reading generally, I don't
even read sign posts on the road
side. But in my desperation, I read
some articles that even some
medical doctors knew nothing about.
Chidinma called again, she was
crying bitterly.
" baby please come over to my
place"
She said and she dropped the call
again. At this point, I felt like
running away from this world. I
didn't even mind meeting the devil
and running hell with him. I was
gripped with terror, with fear. For
the first time in a long time I was
really scared.
I called Chioma. She's Chidinma's
best friend. I did not know what
exactly to say to her.
"hello honey, please I'm in class I'll
call you as soon as I'm out" she said.
She calls me honey because she
says I'm the sweetest thing that ever
happened to her besti Chidinma.
"Chioma please wait. I just want to
ask you a little question" I said.
"go ahead honey, be fast "
" Chioma please have you seen your
period this month "?
I asked her. It was a very stupid
question apparently but I didn't
mind. I wanted to know if the
missing period was a national issue
and no girl could find hers.
" my period? "
she replied, in utter disbelief before
the phone dropped. She latter said
her phone was sized by the lecturer
who was in her class when I called.
My temperature began to rise, I was
falling seriously ill. Chidinma's lost
period was all I could think of. I'm
going to be a father out of wedlock. I
wanted to tell it to Emeka. He's a
very good friend of mine but I knew
he would suggest abortion if she was
truly pregnant.
Emeka had varieties of abortion pills
she administered to girls he
"mistakenly" had sex with without
condom. I saw abortion as
deliberate killing. I couldn't kill
anyone so it was far from my
options.
I continued browsing until I slept on
my phone. By this time, I've read
menstrual articles equivalent to the
volume of the English dictionary's
9th edition.
The dreams I had were terrible and
they didn't help matters too. I saw
myself buying diapers at Abraka
junction and Chidinma clinging baby
Junior at her back waiting for me.
I jumped up. It was a bad dream, I
wasn't even inside a car. I thought.
How terrible! The witches in my
village has finally succeeded.
I looked at my watch, it's 1am. I've
been sleeping for the past 9 hours. I
picked up my phone, the battery
was remaining 5 percent. I've
missed 30 calls. 20 from Chidinma
and 5 each from Chioma and my
dad.
My heart was pounding heavily. Has
Chidinma called my dad to inform
him of her pregnancy? She could do
it. I know she's mad. Maybe she
thought I was going to run away
from her. She had taken my parents
phone number from my phone
without my permission but I strictly
warned her never to call them.
I couldn't return the calls now, it's
already late. I couldn't sleep
anymore either. I was wide awake,
pacing up and down my room
begging God to give me a last
chance. only sleeping in snatches.
I brought out my dusty bible, it's
been a long time since I opened it. I
began to mutter to God, begging for
my life.
By 7am Chidinma called again, my
phone switched off as I was about to
pick up.
I ran out to borrow Emeka's power
bank. I was sure he brought a new
girl home last night.
I knocked at his door and he came
out to meet me.
"shhh, don't disturb my visitor"
He said smiling.
" Oga just give me your power bank"
I was in no mood for his silly jokes. I
might become an impromptu father
in a couple of months.
He said he received a call from
Chidinma last night asking if I was
home but he didn't talk much to her
before ending the call.
" I no dey talk too much whenever I
get package "
He said, boastfully.
Chidinma's call came in almost
Immediately I powered on my
phone. And it was accompanied by
the most precious news I've heard
since I was born.
" baby I have seen my period".
She said happily. Hot tears of joy
rolled down my cheek. at last! God is
really wonderful I thought.
" I was calling you through out last
night to tell you. Where were you "?
I was not interested in whatever she
was saying. I didn't even ask her
where she finally saw it, or how.
God has done it for me and I
couldn't stop saying thank you to
him. I kept my bible on the top of
my television where anyone could
easily see that I'm a Christian.
Emeka began playing loud music
like he always does. Tu face's " rain
drops". It was a perfect song for my
situation.
"young man, be careful and think
twice. Before you choose to use your
device. So you don't have rain drops
falling from your eyes "
My dad called to tell me he has
transferred the 50k he promised me
and he too was calling last night to
confirm if I got it. I did.
It was a sweet end to a sad story. I
escaped mine. be careful with all
these girls you see around because
you just might not escape yours.


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Celebrities / Re: Simi To Release First Single “no Longer Beneficial” Off New EP “restless II" by Abegforum: 4:18pm On Sep 15, 2020
Celebrities / Simi To Release First Single “no Longer Beneficial” Off New EP “restless II" by Abegforum: 3:33pm On Sep 15, 2020
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Nigerian singer, Simi has announced that her first single “No Longer Beneficial” would be released this Friday.
It would be recalled that a few months ago, just before she gave birth, Simi shared a video of her husband, Adekunle Gold encouraging her to drop an EP called “Restless II“. The EP judging from Adekunle’s hype seemingly houses tracks that are quite different from what she puts out would be released soon.

Simi who is still enjoying the success of her hit single “Duduke” just signed a new deal with Apple Music’s Platoon yesterday. Taking to her Instagram page, she revealed that the track titled ” No Longer Beneficial” which is the first single off the forthcoming EP would be released soon. She wrote: “1st single from #RestlessII, drops this Friday #NoLongerBeneficial…Finally!, Who IS excited? #SIMIARMY”

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Celebrities / Davido Curses Internet Troll & His Generations For Calling Ifeanyi A “frog” by Abegforum: 12:06pm On Sep 15, 2020
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Sensational singer, Davido has slammed an internet user for trolling his son, Ifeanyi Adeleke.
Davido had taken to his Instagram page to share a rare adorable photo of himself and Ifeanyi. In the picture which he captioned “Junior,” Davido had Ifeanyi in his arms and fans trooped to the comment section to gush over the father of three for spending quality time with his son.

However, a fan took things to another level by calling Ifeanyi a frog. “Junior Frog Voice.” The “FEM‘” singer who since his return to social media has been tackling negative comments about him responded cursing the entire generation of the troll. “ur own pikin go be furure broke boi“

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Sports / Chelsea Defeat Brighton 3-1 In Season Opener by Abegforum: 11:14pm On Sep 14, 2020
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Chelsea kicked off their Premier League campaign with a 3-1 win at Brighton on Monday as Timo Werner made a confident debut following Frank Lampard’s spending spree.

Blues boss Lampard has spent around £200 million ($257 million) on a host of new signings and the early returns on his lavish investment were promising.

Germany striker Werner, a £53 million recruit from Leipzig, won the penalty that Jorginho converted to put Chelsea ahead.

Kai Havertz, who made a £70 million switch from Bayer Leverkusen, wasn’t quite so impactful, but Lampard will be confident there are better days to come from the young Germany forward.


Chelsea goalkeeper Kepa Arrizabalaga was guilty of another mistake when Leandro Trossard equalised for Brighton.

But Reece James’ superb strike put Chelsea back in front before Kurt Zouma’s deflected effort sealed the points.

It was an encouraging opening to the campaign for Lampard, who has accepted he is under pressure to deliver a title challenge after spending more than any other club so far in the summer transfer window.

Chelsea finished 33 points behind champions Liverpool in fourth last season before a disappointing FA Cup final defeat against Arsenal, but they are primed to improve if Lampard can gel his new signings.

Lampard’s other expensive recruits, former Ajax playmaker Hakim Ziyech and ex-Leicester left-back Ben Chilwell, were both sidelined by injuries, while Thiago Silva wasn’t available as he returns to training following his free transfer from Paris Saint-Germain.

The historians among Chelsea’s fanbase will have noted this was the third time they have started a Premier League campaign with a Monday night victory, with the Blues going on to win the title on the previous occasions in 2014-15 and 2016-17.

The only frustration for Lampard was Kepa’s howler.

The world’s most expensive keeper was already under pressure to improve after an error-strewn season and with Chelsea having spoken to Rennes about Senegal keeper Edouard Mendy, his days as first choice might be numbered.

– Classy Werner -Werner was Chelsea’s central striker while Havertz lined up on the right flank in the three-man attack.

It was Werner who showed all his class as Chelsea took the lead in the 23rd minute.

Brighton midfielder Steven Alzate surrendered possession with a wayward pass and Jorginho fed Werner, who raced through on goal and was brought down by Mat Ryan as he rounded the Albion keeper.

Jorginho stepped up to take the penalty and Chelsea’s captain sent Ryan the wrong way with his trademark hop before shooting.

Kepa’s panicked flap at a corner would have done nothing to win over Lampard, but he did keep out Alzate’s long-range drive with a good save before half-time.

Adam Lallana was making his Brighton debut, but the often-injured former Liverpool midfielder lasted just 45 minutes before limping off.

Although Chelsea weren’t as fluid as Lampard would have liked, Werner was a real threat with his astute movement and he accelerated away from Lewis Dunk for a shot that Ryan saved at his near post.

Brighton were on top at the start of the second half and Aaron Connolly volleyed into the side-netting from Solly March’s cross.

Graham Potter’s side equalised in the 54th minute when Trossard’s 20-yard shot slipped under Kepa’s weak attempted save.

Kepa’s blunder is likely to push him closer to another spell on the sidelines after he was dropped last season.

But it wasn’t fatal for Chelsea as James restored their lead just 100 seconds later with a stunning 30-yard blast.

The right-back’s first Premier League goal was almost cancelled out when Dunk headed wide from close range.

But Chelsea’s luck was in and they sealed the points in the 66th minute.

Zouma met James’ corner with a volley that took a heavy deflection of Adam Webster to wrong-foot Ryan as it trickled into the net.


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Celebrities / Re: #bbnaija: Nengi Wins Head Of House Task, Earns A Spot In Finale by Abegforum: 11:01pm On Sep 14, 2020
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Celebrities / #bbnaija: Nengi Wins Head Of House Task, Earns A Spot In Finale by Abegforum: 10:27pm On Sep 14, 2020
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Big Brother Naija ‘Lockdown’ housemate, Nengi has won the Head of House for this week.
She will not only enjoy immunity from this week’s eviction and the fully furnished head of house (HOH) suite for the rest of the week but her victory as the ninth HOH for this season has automatically earned her a spot in the finale scheduled to hold on September 27th.
In a new twist introduced by biggie, the head of house for the week will not be nominating a Deputy as a unique nomination process will be used to nominate housemates for eviction this week.

The housemates were given 3 minutes to complete the 30-step game as new obstacles were added to the game. The housemates who goes farthest within the 3 minutes allotted time was declared winner.
Nengi started today’s game but could only manage to progress to step 23 before she ran out of time but was enough to earn her the victory for today. Neo on the other hand had too many obstacles and could only make it to step 16. This is how the housemates performed.
Head of House Result for Week 9
Nengi – Step 23
Neo – Step 16
Vee – Step 16
Ozo – Step 1
Dorathy – Step 8
Laycon – Step 4
Nengi emerged winner of this week head of house game and has now booked a spot in the grand finale. Congratulations to her!


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Celebrities / Rihanna's Eight-bedroom London Mansion Is For Sale For £32 Million (18 Billion N by Abegforum: 9:49am On Sep 14, 2020
Rihanna's eight-bedroom London mansion is for sale for £32 million (18 Billion Naira) the house is too beautiful. One will think this is a kings palace. Wow � Check Out The Photos >>> Click Here






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Celebrities / Re: DJ Cuppy Or Burna Boy, Who Rock This Manchester United Jersey Better? by Abegforum: 8:58am On Sep 13, 2020
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Celebrities / DJ Cuppy Or Burna Boy, Who Rock This Manchester United Jersey Better? by Abegforum: 8:55am On Sep 13, 2020
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Following Burna Boy’s Step
The Billionaire’s daughter and national Disc Jockey, Dj Cuppy has also revealed her photo rocking Manchester United third jersey.

She posted this on her twitter after anticipating the post by requesting 1000 retweets from fans before dropping it, of which the self-acclaimed African Giant has shown us his own early today.

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Personally, I dislike this jersey as the stripes are intentionally not aligned with the pink logos embedded in it looking lost.

But after seeing it on Cuppy and Burna Boy, they change my perspective and I think I’m liking it.

As an Arsenal fan, I would love to get one of this particular jersey.

Back to the question �

DJ Cuppy Or Burna Boy, Who Rock This Manchester United Jersey Better?

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Celebrities / Re: Rapper, Yung6ix Splurges Millions Of Naira On Brand New Mercedes Benz by Abegforum: 8:41am On Sep 13, 2020

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Celebrities / Rapper, Yung6ix Splurges Millions Of Naira On Brand New Mercedes Benz by Abegforum: 6:43am On Sep 13, 2020
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Nigerian sensational rapper, Yung6ix has added a brand new Mercedes Benz to his collection of cars.
Yung6ix whose album “Introduction To Trap Fro” recently hit over 2 million plays on all streaming platforms seems to be smiling to the bank. The rapper splurged what must have cost a fortune on a brand new Mercedes Benz car. Taking to his Instagram page to share a photo of the interior of the car, he wrote about being grateful for his new car and added that his vision for the year is now clearer. He wrote: “Grateful for the new ? Keys ? 2020 vision is clearer”



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Celebrities / Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by Abegforum: 6:26am On Sep 13, 2020
Abegforum:
Hi guys. Please I need advice.

There is this guy in my department. Let's call him Joe. He is good looking and very intelligent. He also has this very nice voice and good vocabulary. Initially we were just normal casual classmates, we greet, exchange notes and all that, nothing serious. I've always found him attractive but have not found him special in any way because I've met lots of guys like him in my University.

But few months ago he started becoming more friendly towards me. We got talking and we realized we shared a lot in common. He asked me if I was single and I told him I was. This was the truth because I wasn't dating anyone then.

Few days after another guy I was very close to asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed. I'm in love with this guy. He is very jovial, intelligent and he knows how to treat me well. I know he loves me because I've known him for a while and he has treated me with love, affection and respect. It's always fun being around him and I enjoy his company.

Despite now being in a relationship, I still continued spending time with Joe. We shared a lot of deep intimate info about ourselves with each other. I have never felt more comfortable talking to someone before. Talking to him always made me feel good. I felt I could be vulnerable with him. He was very honest and didn't hide the dark aspects of himself. He wasn't the type to pretend he was a good person. And he wasn't. He had done a lot of bad things in the past and he wasn't afraid to talk to me about them. And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about. He said things to me that made me begin to explore myself and my sexuality in ways I didn't even imagine that I could. He was always fond of teasing me and never hesitated to correct me if I did anything wrong. I loved that kind of honesty.

As we talked more Joe opened up to me that he was attracted to me and had feelings for me. He would flirt with me and I'd try my best not to flirt back but I enjoyed his flirting and I enjoyed his company. He asked me if I felt the same way about him and I was honest and I said I had feelings for him, because I did. He is an attractive guy and even though I have a boyfriend I can't help being attracted to him..

He then asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I was already dating someone. He was surprised by my response. He told me he was under the impression that I was single and that's why he had gotten so close and intimate with me. But he didn't appear angry or sad. He even told me my bf was lucky to have me.

The problem now is that since that day he hasn't talked to me. When I see him in class, he doesn't even act like I exist. He doesn't reply my messages, doesn't pick up my calls and doesn't check up on me. Throughout this lockdown he hasn't even texted me once. This is unlike him. I feel very bad about the whole thing. It's almost like our relationship didn't mean anything to him and I didn't mean anything to him. I want to still be friends with him.



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