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Family / Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Abidec76: 7:43pm On Jul 20, 2023
ConfusePoint:
Ranting. Ranting. Ranting.

I have decided to rant out my predicaments on this forum today.

What is the way out of poverty for me?

One inlaw is even living with us, making it 8 in number, all in one room.

This thing don come big pass me.

I know most of you here would blame me for impregnating a woman to give birth to that number of children but then, life is life. It happens like that sometimes.

They say a poor man's prayer is "e go better" but instead of things to get better in Nigeria, everyday things get worse.

Truth is, except I drive myself out of this mess to a better life for me and my children, this poverty that is so stricken will likely be extended to my children, which I really don't want.

No two ways about it except ...

But like a car without tyres, can it move even if it has fuel? Definitely no.

For 4 days now, I sleep outside in an abandoned car because of financial war at home. I can't go back home and I even feel like never to go back there but should I abandon them like that and run away? To where?

When I went to the market the other day with 5k to buy food items for the house, I was crying and talking to myself on my way back because I came back with almost nothing.

Nigeria have succeed to plug life out of poor Nigerians. The poor cannot breathe again. Let's die and go.

Advice: never give birth when you are not financially strong. Unfortunately, I've learned my lesson the hard way.

Life happens.

How do I help this family better than I am trying?

Wishing you the best in all you do.

No need to blame you again, the deed is done already. Like I use to say no need dwelling on problems again just dwell on solution.
You can learn some hand work, just think about what might interest you bro. Also let your wife get up to work, Nigeria situation needs both couples to put head and body together and find means of working. There are lot's of work a woman can do without capital like house cleaning services, carrying of goods at the market or even as little as 1k she can start pure water business.

You as a man also need to find something to join the driving jobs, like looking for customers who will buy farm products and add your little gain to it.
I hope you get to read this and I hope it add value.
All the best bro

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Business / Re: Simple Secret Of Buying Stuff At Idumota Market Lagos by Abidec76: 9:38am On Nov 17, 2022
ajepako:


Nylon and sack ( Dosunmu market off Nnamdi Azikwe)
Aba made clothes ( Idunmota bus stop all the way to Martins street)
Sewing machines ( Dosunmu, also ask for Horo Buttons on Nnamdi azikwe street)

Thanks I appreciate
Business / Re: Simple Secret Of Buying Stuff At Idumota Market Lagos by Abidec76: 10:54pm On Nov 16, 2022
Ajepako Pls where can I get the following items


Pls where can I buy nylon and sack in distributors price or wholesalers price at idumota also where can I get Aba made clothes at idumota at wholesale price and where can I buy sewing machines brand new as well.

Pls help. Thanks
Business / Re: Simple Secret Of Buying Stuff At Idumota Market Lagos by Abidec76: 10:45pm On Nov 16, 2022
Good evening everyone

Pls where can I buy nylon and sack in distributors price or wholesalers price at idumota also where can I get Aba made clothes at idumota at wholesale price and where can I buy sewing machines brand new as well.

Pls help. Thanks
Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by Abidec76: 7:02pm On Oct 13, 2022
Godisgreatest1:
So Bolu should come out and clap for the quackery exhibited by a self-acclaimed professional?

How many mistakes so far? How many?...if you want to know history please learn to use your 'search' option in this forum, at least that will guide you.

I blame Rotech77 for not handling the situation in a more professional settings.

A company can't stand out if other aspects are lacking such as customer services and relation , patience and professionalism in communication etc.
Like have said no one is above mistake.
We should learn and move on not name callings.

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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by Abidec76: 6:56pm On Oct 13, 2022
diordaves:
So it is now Bolu's fault. So much misplaced aggression coming from so many quarters.

There is a situation and Bolu is being pointed out by the protagonist as the cause of the situation, so you expect him to shell up and not say anything?

Any reasonable person will fight their corner and defend their work. I'm struggling to see why the aggression is directed at him.


It's such a pity that majority of us only want to see what we want to see. Is it only Bolu's name that was mentioned?

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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by Abidec76: 6:54pm On Oct 13, 2022
bolu1986:


can you tell me how i should work on myself? what did i do wrong?

for example if the pop of that building has issues tommorow wwho will they call? i pointed same issues out from the beginning.. the nogging was not done right what reply did i get>? i was told i dont know what i am doing. i used my personal money with the client support to get an addtional 2x2 woods just for me to move on..

he was the one that keep blaming people people on site for damage roof...


From @Akinola write up, he didn't mention your name or that of others.
I know you came to defend your work but not at the extreme of casting another person.
I didn't want to mention you at first but noticed you came out twice to talk on this same issue. It's like painting other bad and gaining more attention to yourself.
If tomorrow someone drag you as well, we will come out to defend the little good work you have been doing too.

The way we present our choice of words matters alot. We rise by lifting others.

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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by Abidec76: 6:39pm On Oct 13, 2022
money121:

Thanks so much
Appreciate oo

U welcome Boss.

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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by Abidec76: 4:46pm On Oct 13, 2022
Nigerians can't stop amusing me. They usually cast one another at any given opportunities, so quick to call name's as well.
It's really disgusting and amusing how people praise someone and when things go wrong they come out to cast that same person as if the person had wronged them from the onset. No one is perfect Abegi. Rotech 777 had been doing an amazing job since have known him and his attention to details is one of its kind but nevertheless he need to improve on his supervision level since he is earning from that as well.

In Nigeria, getting a complete package Artisans is usually very hard although Baba Imran is doing a great job and he should keep up the good job.
A company can only last long if trust is established against monetary benefits.
Let's learn to build our company first and with time it will bring in the huge profits in the long run.

Oga Bolu (Pop guy) you need to work on yourself as well. You don't join force's to cast someone most especially someone who do give you contract. It speaks high volumes of who you are �

@Akinola so sorry for your experience sir, money isn't easy to get by and I understand your frustration, nevertheless do not do what you don't want others to do unto you. It's doesn't sound matured of you sir on how you stood so low on name callings .
Both of you are acting like women � which is so childish.

Pls let peace reign and we all should move on.
Let's remember that no one is above mistakes, let's learn to take corrections and work on the negative feedbacks so we can achieve a better tomorrow.

Peace.

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 3:29pm On May 23, 2020
Abeg come buy wetin I Wan sell ooo.
Watsapp 08149012397 to place order
Location Iyana ipaja
Price: 100k. Slightly negotiable.

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 2:57pm On Apr 30, 2020
Hi guys been a while.
ABEG come and buy what am selling ooo.
Location Iyana ipaja lagos
08149012397
Dinning Table 55k
Center table 25k

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Romance / Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Abidec76: 11:22pm On Apr 08, 2020
God is your strength Bro. May God open the door of success for you and everyone else.

You can also make use of Facebook for your business advert. Just join lots of Business Groups on Facebook as possible. People respond well there too.
All the best Bro.

Tankunland:
Today the 8 of April makes it exactly 1 year that one of my bank accounts had over a million naira and it was that same amount that changed my life forever.

yes it changed my life so badly that it nearly made me commit suicide but thanks to these beautiful forum that came to my aid at just the last seconds of ending it all.

Now what you are about to read is my life story of how everything changed for bad in the space of just under a year and how
(1) i lost my job,
(2) my loving girlfriend dumped me,
(2) how I overcame some deep temptations
(4) how I overcame deep depression and nearly killed my self
(5) and how that my ex died and in her death I knew I had a son.

Just deciding to write about these has gotten me in a melancholy mood as I have been in a morose state for the past few days thinking about how my life changed but I know someone might learn from it. Now I had to use a new moniker for this as my former moniker has many things pointing directly to me as I don't want anyone I know to know it's me but I would surely be reading the comments with my real account and these could be lengthy but bear with me

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Health / Re: Coronavirus: 6 Persons Who Tested Positive In Osun Escape From Isolation Centre by Abidec76: 11:16am On Apr 04, 2020
Make they put there pictures here biko.
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 7:07pm On Dec 11, 2019
You are there, sitting at home waiting for people to give you there Hard Earned Money yet you are Young and Agile.
You come on Facebook everyday to form bigi bigi, Still you are asking God to please send helpers without finding the smallest things to engage in. Hhhhmmmmm........ It's well.
Do you know that without capital you can still make legit money?
Yes if you care to know how.

Please, the Economy is hard enough than to cater for able Bodies when those who are disable are struggling everyday to find food on there Table to eat by working.
Then you say you have tried your best but no job. Hhhhmmmmm �������.
I came across a Man of AGE 35years plus carrying bucket of soft drinks on his head selling. I was impressed, shocked that I didn't know when water almost dropped from my eyes.

I was in a state of how I wish I had money to establish this man. The question is what can I do when myself is also struggling.
One thing I know is that it will surely pay one day.
Our hard work with God's favor and blessing will surely pay one day.

Pls many people are out there picking Dustbin to select sellable items to put food on there table.
Another secret to that is..... Do you know people are making thousands of naira on daily basis to that which you call dirty?

Pls stand up and find something doing. Most expecially pray often because sometimes what you count dirty or too small might be the step stone to your wealth.
Be humble and stay calm but most expecially be wise.

A word is enough for the wise who cares to listen.

Written by Abidex.
Peace.

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 10:46am On Dec 05, 2019
1kBabyShoesNG:

Kindly come up on your offer & WhatsApp me
Your watsApp number
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 9:26pm On Dec 03, 2019
Good evening guy's been a while.
How u na dey?

I have okrika 4by 6 bedspread for sales with pillow case.
Location iyanaipaja lagos
08149012397
Price 1800 each.

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 8:24pm On Oct 11, 2019
Mendy31:
Hello House
I just got scammed by winningways01
Please who can help me or suggestions on way forward
I have is Acc details
Chai, just seeing this. It's been a while I visited here. Man must chop.
So sorry about this, God will definitely catch the fellow.
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 2:56pm On Sep 18, 2019
sanyahkod:

Baby walker received in top shape. Thanks!
U welcome Boss.
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 6:35am On Sep 18, 2019
ezugegere:

Your location?
. Iyanaipaja lagos
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 10:04pm On Sep 17, 2019
Hallenjay:
baby walker 4k I no get money for tfare if u r not in phc

Baby walker SOLD.
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 8:52pm On Sep 17, 2019
KNIGHTBlaed:


One of the very few that understands the meaning of clearance. I believe this is a business lady, but her prices are always reasonable and she does giveaways sometimes. Thumbs up, na your type the thread need

Thanks Boss.
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 4:38pm On Sep 17, 2019
Abidec76:
Good evening house I have the following items for sales.
GIVE AWAY PRICE.

Complete set of baby bath. 2k

Make up box with key 3k

Cooler with inner. 2k

A dozen of plate and basket 2500

laundry basket 2 pieces. 1700.

A COMPLETE of storage bowl. 1500

Baby walker 5k.

A very big basket. 1k

Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 4:19pm On Sep 17, 2019
Good evening house I have the following items for sales.
GIVE AWAY PRICE.

Complete set of baby bath. 2k

Make up box with key 3k

Cooler with inner. 2k

A dozen of plate and basket 2500

laundry basket 2 pieces. 1700.

A COMPLETE of storage bowl. 1500

Baby walker 5k.

A very big basket. 1k

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 2:49pm On Sep 17, 2019
SOLD, THANKS FOR YOUR PATRONAGE.

Abidec76:
Combo sales.
Plate rack 2k
Oven 5k L Gas cooker 3k
Hot plate. Free needs fixing.
All goes for 10k Location iyana ipaja Lagos
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 1:11pm On Sep 17, 2019
Combo sales.

Plate rack 2k

Oven 5k

Gas cooker 3k

Hot plate. Free needs fixing.

All goes for 10k
Location iyana ipaja Lagos

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 12:56pm On Sep 17, 2019
Hello guys it's been a while..... I have some juicy offer here.

I have this Table Top Toyota sewing machine for sales
PRICE 27k.
Working � perfectly.
It as 19 stitches use in doing straight sewing, button hole, zigzag, embroidery etc.
Location iyanaipaja lagos.
A starter and a professional can use it.

First to come for it get it at 25k.

Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 7:43pm On Sep 02, 2019
Abidec76:
I have this Tokunbo Rugged semi industrial sewing machine for sales.
It can sew all types of materials even lycra.
It can be used with or without leg.
It comes with motor.
Its electric and manual straight sewing.
Location iyanaipaja lagos.

PRICE 27k.

SOLD. THANKS FOR YOUR PATRONAGE.
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 11:09am On Sep 02, 2019
I have this Tokunbo Rugged semi industrial sewing machine for sales.
It can sew all types of materials even lycra.
It can be used with or without leg.
It comes with motor.
Its electric and manual straight sewing.
Location iyanaipaja lagos.

PRICE 27k.

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 10:07pm On Aug 31, 2019
Pls i need industrial WASHING MACHINE. INDUSTRIAL DRYER INDUSTRIAL IRON. PLS MENTION ME IF YOU HAVE ANY FOR SALE. THANKS.

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 10:01pm On Aug 31, 2019
CHILDREN PULL OVER IS ALSO AVAILABLE FOR 600 EACH.

NOTE: MATERIALS IS HIGH QUALITY FIBRE. UK �� FIRST GRADE.
PRICE 600.
LOCATION IYANAIPAJA LAGOS

Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 9:51pm On Aug 31, 2019
GOOD EVENING GUYS.
BACK TO SCHOOL THINGS. CHILDREN BEDSPREAD.


SCHOOL RESUMPTION IS NEAR. YOUR CHILDREN NEED NEW THINGS.

GET YOUR CHILDREN OUR FIRST GRADE COLORFUL DESIGNER BEDSPREAD.

PRICE 1500 EACH WITH A PILLOW CASE.

THEY NEED COVER CLOTHES TOO FOR MOSQUITOES AND COLD.

PRICE 1K.

Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Abidec76: 11:25am On Aug 25, 2019
Pls who as Errand Teams phone number... I need there service.

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