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Thank you ma. I tried to encourage him to let's focus on just enjoying ourselves and stopped worrying about ovulation for more than a year but it didn't help. He leaves the room and go locks himself in another room that he wants to pray most mornings I will keep praying like I have been doing

Cutemarvel:
Hello mama, in this situation you need not to be tensed because I can see he's open to solution by going for medical test.

Men don't like to be the ones weak sexually hence the cause of withdrawal.
Let him feel you are interested in his recovery more than the conception ( even though you know conception is important).

Whenever you try and it's not working don't feel frustrated or let him look like he has let you down again. Just let him see that you are in it together.

Seek the appropriate medical solution together.

Let there be lifestyle changes like eating foods that will improve sperm production, exercise and avoiding things that can affect.

Prayer is also vital in this situation.

Note: When ttc, sex should be for enjoyment don't go for the purpose of getting pregnant only. Also try early morning sex, catch him in bed when he cannot run away .

Hello mothers and mothers to be pls I need your advice and recommendations.
I got married at the age of 26, 4 years ago as a virgin but it's been a difficult journey so far. My husband rarely have sex with me the highest is twice in a month, other times when I make demands or try to seduce him it ends in fight and he will avoid me for days by coming home late or sleeping in another room. We went to the hospital and did all test which confirmed that I was fine but my husband had a low count after alot of different things the count has improved but sex is still non existent. I was hoping to use the lockdown period to improve our sex life and if God wills conceive but we havent had sex in the 3weeks at all because he can't get an erection no matter what I do. Mothers pls what can I do? Has anyone experienced this? We have used all manner of herbs and drugs, we have even tried to ignore the problem and relax yet no result.

Hello mothers, goodevening. Pls I have a question although it's not about pregnancy but I believe there are a lot of women of wisdom here.
I got married at the age of 26, 4 years ago as a virgin but it's been a difficult journey so far. My husband rarely have sex with me the highest is twice in a month, other times when I make demands or try to seduce him it ends in fight and he will avoid me for days by coming home late or sleeping in another room. We went to the hospital and did all test which confirmed that I was fine but my husband had a low count after alot of different things the count has improved but sex is still non existent. I was hoping to use the lockdown period to improve our sex life and if God wills conceive but we havent had sex in the 3weeks at all because he can't get an erection no matter what I do. Mothers pls what can I do I cant continue like this. God bless and grant all the preggy mothers safe delivery.