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ComputersRe: Li-fi: 100 Times Faster Than Wi-fi And Download At 100gig Per Second. by Aceed: 2:18am On Nov 26, 2015
Hoping the next flagship phones will have it huh
SportsRe: The Ancient Art Of Shoushu Kung Fu . . . Click If U R Ready To Start Ur Journey by Aceed: 2:07am On Nov 26, 2015
huh Shey your kung fu reach the one wey dey shaolin hustle grin
FamilyRe: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Aceed: 5:11pm On Nov 25, 2015
To me, you don't understand your father at all.
Secondly, you don't understand the gravity of your position in the family. sad

If I am to go by your post, all that your father sees in you is utter disappointment and not even seeing the slightest glimmer of hope/redemption is what drives him to the point of treating you like that, in your words 'wanting you dead'.

Worldwide, paernts (especially 'poor' parents) look to their first son for 'financial deliverance', whether he is the first or he has fifteen girls before him, it doesn't change their perspective a bit.

Now, lets assume your family is in this category, if i say you dey fall hand, understand that its an understatement. Considering the goals/visions your father has indirectly set for you, all what you posted you wanted to be na wash.

All over the world, every family wants their first son to have both wealth, respect and influence (abi na affluence huh ). Considering our tradition in africa, you can see that all the professions you wanted to venture into can't grant you that. And even what you're studying now can't grant you that in the third world.

There are very few professions that can grant you that our part of the world with medicine, engineering topping them. The reason why I mentioned those two is because they are generally acknowledge by both urban and rural parents, literate and illiterate parents, other courses will only be accepted by the minority parents ( the urban and literate parents).

You will see that well learned and financially stable parents will consent to their first son learning arts but will be considered a taboo by another category of parents (unfortunately your dad fits here).

I can assure you that you dad can never ever believe you'll be able to handle the family well, if he is passes on this very moment (your dad will not die, IJN, just citing an instance), that is to say, he does not have any assurance of you being somebody in future.

Any son that gives a father that impression is questionable (thats a conclusion, I did not say you're questionable), do you agree?

So my suggestion is do anything that give him assurance even if its sooo little, just do it. If studying medicine is the only way, I would say do it, even though people say your parents should not choose your career for you, just study medicine, after all there many people who studied medicine and went ahed to do their desire career, many.

To those who think parents shouldn't choose their careers, there are many husehold names in the west, from the time of birth of their child, who they relate with, the schools they go to, who they will be in future has been planned and stamped by their parents/family, so the idea of your career being forced down your throat by parents isn't involutionary angry



Its your choice though, anything you do its your call. This just a perspective.


Phew, lengthy post grin Its topic like this that makes my thumbs to do marathon cheesy
Nairaland GeneralRe: Someone Should Answer This Brain Teaser Question — Benedictnsi by Aceed: 4:08pm On Nov 25, 2015
benedictnsi:
Guy you get brain sha
na God grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Someone Should Answer This Brain Teaser Question — Benedictnsi by Aceed: 3:28pm On Nov 25, 2015
Their second and third letters are in reverse with the last letter and its preceeding letter
Nairaland GeneralRe: Someone Should Answer This Brain Teaser Question — Benedictnsi by Aceed: 3:22pm On Nov 25, 2015
They are all six letter words except dresser
PoliticsRe: President Buhari’s Most Recent Missteps by Aceed: 3:17pm On Nov 25, 2015
Incomplete criticism
PoliticsRe: Why Was Our Flag Not Displayed At The International Gas Summit by Aceed: 3:08pm On Nov 25, 2015
IMO, for our flag not to be there that means our presence/opinions doesn't count and not needed!

Imagine, and our president was there and sadi nothing huh angry

the thought of him not even noticing is appalling angry
Jokes EtcRe: Hilarious:- When You Buy 50ltrs Of Fuel At N200/litre & Your Grandma Pour It by Aceed: 2:29pm On Nov 25, 2015
She go just forward the money wey she wan take buy kerosene to my acct grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Someone Should Answer This Brain Teaser Question — Benedictnsi by Aceed: 2:26pm On Nov 25, 2015
They have at least two letters occuring twice huh
RomanceRe: I Need A boyfriend With An Exotic Car. by Aceed: 2:20pm On Nov 25, 2015
Tear rubber gf ko, tear nylon gf ni sad

you no get better thing to present, na tear rubber gf, reason am sef the kind guy you dey look for sef noi dey look for wetin you wan sell, na tear rubber kp3kus e go dey look for, not minding the fact say he don knack plenty

no go like cynthia ooo huh


If you too want exotic cars, at least you go package the title na e.g virgin pussy for lamborghini sesto elemento or mercedes mclaren slr grin grin

nonsense angry

e go better if to say you pm linda ikeji, make she tell you how she take arrange the house
RomanceRe: A Guy Epic Reply To His Girlfriend Who Requested A Tab As Xmas Gift by Aceed: 5:56pm On Nov 24, 2015
Omo, the guy craze no be small grin
FamilyRe: Let’s Be Honest, Stay-at-home Moms Are Actually Housekeepers by Aceed: 5:47pm On Nov 24, 2015
Yeye yarn...

Even the helpers, working mums employ, don't go through that stress huh
Jokes EtcRe: Hillarious Picture ( Black Friday ) by Aceed: 5:43pm On Nov 24, 2015
sad

Abeg, make dem go siddown angry

shey dem no dey give black friday before? huh
Christianity EtcRe: The CREATOR, The CREATURE And The CREATION by Aceed: 5:39pm On Nov 24, 2015
I sooo love this post grin
SportsRe: FIFA Wants Life Ban For Platini. (skysports) by Aceed: 5:37pm On Nov 24, 2015
shocked For wetin na huh
If he should be given life ban, t6en fifa should ban fifa too angry
RomanceRe: Estharfabian Is Vickybee (((serious Proof))) by Aceed: 5:31pm On Nov 24, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
cry I'm years in the past. I feel terrible!


But I think Tom and Jerry is the best ever, if Jerry dies, tom dies with him. Those guys need each other to survive
Thats an obvious fact!!!
If jerry dies who tom wan pursue? huh The dog? or the duck, who has a muscular husband that used a mower to 'trim the lawn on tom's back?' cheesy
TravelRe: Photos: Rare Pictures Of Ghettos In Lekki by Aceed: 5:26pm On Nov 24, 2015
Where the pics na huh
RomanceRe: Estharfabian Is Vickybee (((serious Proof))) by Aceed: 5:23pm On Nov 24, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
Lol. I thought tom and Jerry was metro goldwyn mayer? MGM?

Wetin disney dy find?
MGM? I thought it has been bought over? But I read somewhere that MGM was bought and sold several times and I thought they eventually ended up under disney's wings huh
TV/MoviesRe: [photo] Jon Snow Is Alive (game Of Thrones) by Aceed: 5:18pm On Nov 24, 2015
Whether he come or not I go watch GOT complete cheesy
RomanceRe: Estharfabian Is Vickybee (((serious Proof))) by Aceed: 5:12pm On Nov 24, 2015
Some people ehn.... lipsrsealed

btw, how jerry go die huh You wan make disney fade cheesy
FamilyRe: This Is What My House Help Did To Me by Aceed: 5:07pm On Nov 24, 2015
Be like say the op sabi prayer because wetin I think say the maid be na ogbanje or pesin wey dem send :@

she for use the pikin obtain masters degree if not for God cheesy
CultureRe: Why Is Homosexuality Wrong? by Aceed: 10:40pm On Nov 22, 2015
jadeus:
Does that mean that putting a plug and a plug together is morally wrong and the people that do that should be killed?
undecided
come on!!!

who does that huh I mean who does that angry
RomanceRe: What Kind Of A Man Would Want His Wife To Do This? by Aceed: 7:26pm On Nov 22, 2015
The guy don become gold digger na
CultureRe: Why Is Homosexuality Wrong? by Aceed: 6:56pm On Nov 22, 2015
jadeus:
Don't behave as if you don't masturbate. When you do, what do you do with the sperm you release? You clean it up. You don't carry it up and give it to a woman. When you have sex with women, do you have sex because you want to impregnate every one of them, no. You do it for pleasure. Having anal sex is not for procreation, it is for pleasure and bonding, just like majority of the sex you have is not for children but for pleasure and bonding.
Even people that masturbate are placed higher on a preference scale than gays, at least maybe they can't walk up to a woman for sex or there is no ready female or can you masturbate with the image of your joystick being in your @ss? huh


A plug is meant for a socket, not a plug for a plug
PoliticsRe: Abubakar Audu, Apc's Gov Candidate Is Dead by Aceed: 6:48pm On Nov 22, 2015
Make Wada enter joor...no time for space booking...
CultureRe: Why Is Homosexuality Wrong? by Aceed: 6:34pm On Nov 22, 2015
When the joystick is hard enough and it releases sp3rm, that sp3rm is to fertilize eggs; and eggs are only found in a woman and those eggs are accessible through the v@gina of a woman.

Now come to think of it, if the eggs are not accessible through the ars3 of a woman, what would a joystick be looking for in the ars3 of someone who also has a joystick? huh huh
PoliticsRe: Kogi: APC Candidate Audu Reportedly Dead by Aceed: 6:10pm On Nov 22, 2015
Kasala go burst ooo
Christianity EtcRe: Should A Yahoo Boy Pay Tithe With Fraud Money ? by Aceed: 1:10pm On Nov 22, 2015
frank317:
So how many tithe and offerings from these theify politicians and yahoo boy have your God rejected recently.
Seems they have also corrupted him as well.
It pains me to tell you that your intellectual foresight is really, really blurred. How can you make such a comment?

When we give, there is a reward, both physically and spiritually (study the life of Solomon, Hannah and others), so when you give to God and you don't see the respective rewards,then you know it wasn't accepted i.e it was rejected.
Now, you don't expect your offering/gift to come back , do you?
It is just like when herbalists appease their gods, if it was not accepted, will the chicken or goats they used come back to life? Or will the gin go back into the bottle? NO!!!

The same with God, its gone and gone forever. And its not like you expect God to give you back huh He is Spiiirrriiiiiiiitttttt!!!
Christianity EtcRe: Should A Yahoo Boy Pay Tithe With Fraud Money ? by Aceed: 12:33pm On Nov 22, 2015
pikapizy:
please note that God didn't reject Cain's sacrifice because it was from an unclean source...rather God rejected it because he gave his worst instead of best to God ...I.e same with annais and saphira ..its like giving lesser than one tenth as tithe
Did you understand my post? huh
Christianity EtcRe: Should A Yahoo Boy Pay Tithe With Fraud Money ? by Aceed:
If God rejected the offering of Cain, who was working, because he did not bring worthy portions, how nuch more the one of a cyber-thief? huh

The offering sef go dey run from God cheesy
EducationRe: Errors On Most Expensive School In Nigeria. by Aceed: 9:27am On Nov 22, 2015
This is the first counter thread i would say is poorly written, I don't even know if it can be called a counter thread huh

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