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whoever makes me sells me, whoever buys me dosent need me and whoever needs me dosent buy me, what am i

lucky it was a school detention, trust naija police men now, u either bribr, or u regret u were born

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chei someone wan realize hw slow i am lol


dunno, what is it

yeah, datz y i even offered advice, if not eh. . .

yeah, we do appreciate, and 4 those racist ones, i dont even think they exist here in australia anymore cos u know wat happens here nw, the islanders and aboriginals are very common here, they call themself black even if they are very white, so they join force 2geda, i have been given detention once 4 discriminating a blonde, cos i said, jjjjjjessus christ u are ssssssooo white is not 4nny, lol, though it was unintentional

i think blue'z gone. aiight gat one

when u say my name am gone what am i?

they just try 2 hard, i aint try 2 hate other cultures ooo, but i dont go full hard out to know other peeps culture like that, na small thing dey kill person

IBDat:
He has obviously developed this approach over time and yes it a puzzle no doubt, but the answer(s) are there to be found from his:
Character/personality - he might not be the type that leaves himself open (emotionally) and doesn't necessarily communicate about matters that he regards as leaving him vulnerable. You say he can be regarded as being quiet, this again might be a contributory factor as he probably has developed the ability of being content with himself in his own company.
Past relationship - could be in the case that he had a bad experience, bad enough not to want to put himself in that position again. Even family could be a factor as leading him to go through life focused and dependant on only himself.

I have to say that i have been accused of the same nonchalance in the past about my relationships - for me it wasn't that i did not like or want to commit to the person, but that i did not want to leave myself open for let down/disappointments - as per a previous experience. I now realize that it was wrong of me and not fair on the other individuals, but i did not realize until current girl-friend raised it as an issue. Fact is i did care about her and yes i did feel for her and enjoyed the time we spent together as well as missing her when she wasn't around - but I did not necessarily communicate it to her, as far as she was concerned i won't care if she stayed or went, which wasn't true.

From what you have said, it is clear that he cares about you and doesn't necessarily care if others know about your relationship - so he is not trying to keep it under-wraps. When you miss his calls or don't see him, does he call you/text, go out of his way to see you? If you know that there is any element of care and concern on his part i would advise that you bring him up on it. Simply ask him seriously or jokingly where he sees your relationship going/how far he would like it to go? If he cares for you, thinks of and misses you when you're not around? Or quite simply how he feels about you!

You obviously have fallen for him and so its up to you now to ascertain how much you want to get to know about him and of course if he is prepared to let you in. If he cares let him know that as a woman you too need to be made to feel relevant, wanted and needed - in essence train him to develop that relationship etiquette. It will take sometime but unfortunately he is who he is, whom you fell in love with - but just realize that you will require patience and tact

go 4 it, but tnx 4 stealing our mennnnnnn ooooooooo, lol

nah just ask him, have a conversation with him, maybe after dinner or if u have started after sex, they alwayz listen at that tym

yeah he looks cute, but dont have a big head about it oooooooo, BTW y didnt u go in2 the mr nairaland comeptition, 4 go 4 win ooo

ino, they are my entertainer here oo, i said one even tried 2 dance awilo, and makosa, gurl u need 2 come and c show free of charge, even if d girl fall almost 5 tymez she got up again , i was nw like, na by force

femi, pls, shw it 2 her again

or maybe datzit, from our rap songs, i hear p-square are big hits in japan, dont be suprised when they are speaking pidgin english as well

then who

dunno, blue is she right

errrrrrr, na only one i get

lol, chei gurl, wrong place at d wrong tym

is that d only word u know

i even think it was copied sef, cos itz just on recent occurance that they started speaking it, when most nigerians migrated 2 all these african countries

so, incase u theif my stunnaz, make sure u keep ur own well oo

abi ooo, gat some sudanses speaking it, as u say, it is sligtly different, but e no dey sweet 4 their mouth as e dey sweet 4 our own

yeah, but she controlled her sexual appetite, if a 14 yrs old can do that, y can an old papa llike akon do the same

hmmmmmmmmm . . . still thinking

looking good dude

or did he run away

dont think so, cos i cant c anything

yesssss, omg blue, u smart ooo, oya give us ur own

u want d answer

aight then

am vvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvry handy

i guess u