whitelexi:

The question is 'why did he stop loving u'
Saying 'he never did' is incorrect.
Some girls need to sit down and ask themselves these questions so as to not make the same mistakes or improve at the least.
When people meet, they only know little about each other, as the months pass they discover more and more. . .  If the guy suddenly takes a step back, there is something he has noticed, he has thought about whether he can tolerate it or not, and he has finally decided it is not worth the trouble. Most times, it is a hygiene related issue with the girl. . .  You will not believe what lies beneath the beautiful faces and fabulous clothes/shoes. . .  Other times, it is something behavioural.

I just think its good for girls to take a step back from time to time to perform an analysis, because if it is not addressed in time, it follows them to mr. husband's house, and when mr. husband cannot bear it anymore, extra-marital affairs could develop and then it becomes a complex issue

We are all imperfect. The common hygiene problem people have is bad breathe. When I met my husband, his breathe was ok but after a few months I noticed he has mouth odour or what we call bad breathe. I didnt leave him because of that. Rather, I discussed that with him and we later found out that it was caused by the new toothpaste he just started using.
As for behavioural, find out why the person behaves like that because the problem could be with you and not with him/her.

Does the pastor really need a jet?

My problem with most of these penticostal churches is that they always talk about giving. They do not empower the poor amongs them instead the make them give the little they have. They dont teach the congregation how to save, how to pay yourself first when you get a salary or make profit from business.