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Family › Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Adasun(op): 6:59pm On Nov 17, 2023
Samuelojonla123:
I'll advise you visit any celestial church close to you just tell them you want to Sona for yourself in yoruba word, the prophet will understand and reveal any issue tacking your bro spiritually and give you the right solution, that's all. But if you're in Abk area I might link you up with a church.
Peace
no, I am in jos
Family › Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Adasun(op): 6:58pm On Nov 17, 2023
We4all:
Then you already have the answer. Get him psychological help because it is obvious the death of your dad might have hit him hard.
for a child at that age, well I will try.


Thank you
Family › Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Adasun(op): 6:57pm On Nov 17, 2023
brawlings:
'Where to go'? Seek the help of a mental health professional. The change in behaviour could be as a result of internal and external factors that can be diagnosed by a psychiatrist. As vague as this may sound; a change of enviroment and the presence of a 'caring father' figure (you) might be all he needs to restore 'factory settings'.
thank you, I will try and bring to stay with me in school
Family › Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Adasun(op): 6:33am On Nov 17, 2023
Samuelojonla123:
Bro, it's a spiritual case, don't mind those people saying mental or whatever, they know nothing about the inner life.
Same thing happened to my younger bro, my mum tackled it spiritually and it was resolved, evil people use that habit to torment a glorious child, so I'll advise you to go the spiritual way before it turns to something else.
Peace
I have that in mind bro, couple with other attacks the family face...



Bro I need guidance on where to go...
Family › Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Adasun(op): 10:53pm On Nov 16, 2023
SIXTEENTH:
Why I asked such questions is because once a boy is approaching puberty age he turns out to be rude whenever he's been scolded of his sudden behavior but for now just maintain silence rill you return home maybe him seeing your present could lead him to be calmed or change
you are right, I believe seeing my manly presence could help him too... except it is spiritual
Family › Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Adasun(op): 10:49pm On Nov 16, 2023
2goodbobo:
You bro is surely taking drugs and the only way he can sustain the habit is to steal so he can have the money to buy more drugs
that may not look possible,but I will look into that aspect when I get home
Family › Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Adasun(op): 10:48pm On Nov 16, 2023
We4all:
What was his behavior like before your father's death? It's possible that the death is affecting him; hence his strange behavior.
he was a normal child, nothing...all this started all of a sudden
Family › Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Adasun(op): 10:46pm On Nov 16, 2023
Gbadugbakun:
Whenever you go home, buy like 6 canes. Tie him to a pole or something and pieces the canes on his body. He would change for the
Best.
for real? Or u just playing around?
Family › Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Adasun(op): 10:45pm On Nov 16, 2023
SIXTEENTH:
First does he smokes, goes out and come back late, or is he chasing women?
no, for a 14year old?
Family › Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Adasun(op): 10:44pm On Nov 16, 2023
Amotolongbo:
Your brother is suffering from mental health, not spiritual.
if it was in the UK, your brother would be in the mental health hospital
but we are not in UK...


How do I go about this please
Family › Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Adasun(op): 10:43pm On Nov 16, 2023
Amotolongbo:
Okeremesese earpiece meje leti kan
I am not yoruba ma... type in English please
Family › Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Adasun(op): 6:25pm On Nov 16, 2023
Amotolongbo:
is your brother Erekere?
what is that please?
Family › Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Adasun(op): 6:06pm On Nov 16, 2023
I will try and make this story short and I need your advice please...


I lost my dad March this year... His death was not natural but I won't bore you with details.

We did the burial rights and I move back to school.before I left, I noticed my brother who is 14yrs have this spiritual paranoia...he suspect many who came for condolences as if they were coming to attack...

I calm him down during those period and let him know that nothing is after him or us.

I left, only for my mum to call me that something is not right with my bro... He talks to himself, seems lost sometimes and have little to no regards for anyone.

They have taken him to many spiritual house and they still point to the person responsible for my dad's death- a neighbor.

This boy hates mum for no reason and often said she is not her mother.he sometimes threatened to kidnapped his immediate Younger brother or slap his elder sister.

He becomes aggressive and most painful part of it all right now is that he steal.

Meat, money.he just develop the habit of stealing. I have not visited home since I left but I need your advice. As the first born, I need to take some drastic step.

How do I handle thia?spiritual, psychological and any way possible to retrieve my Lovely lad, such advice is most welcome.

Thanks...

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Manchester City (4 - 4) On 12th November 2023 by Adasun(m): 7:46pm On Nov 12, 2023
[quote author= post=126932798]Games like this really bring back the love of the Premier League (minus the poor decisions)...Bf.[/quote]copy and paste from bbc
Family › Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Adasun(m): 11:55am On Nov 12, 2023
Funny enough, if mother like child A, the father dislike that one and if mother dislike child B that would be dad's favorite grin grin grin



This child mimicked the character of their parents. If u act like dad, mummy would like u that may even attract her to dad in the first place...but dad dislike seeing his character been display
Phones › Re: How To Stop Whatsapp App From Asking For Update by Adasun(m): 11:13pm On Nov 07, 2023
My fmwhstsapp gets ads no be small, how do I stop it
Phone/Internet Market › Re: Huawei Y6 Prime 2019 For Sale by Adasun(m): 11:37pm On Nov 01, 2023
Pincture nko
Phone/Internet Market › Re: Clean White Samsung A21s For Sale 4g/64gb Android 12 by Adasun(m): 9:01pm On Oct 31, 2023
40k
Politics › Re: Kogi Governor Yahaya Bello's Security Detail & Soldiers Clash At Checkpoint by Adasun(m): 8:18am On Oct 25, 2023
Omo that matter caused traffic for kwali area council... No be small thing o
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Brighton Vs Liverpool (2 - 2) On 8th October 2023 by Adasun(m): 2:49pm On Oct 08, 2023
Just don't score Liverpool first,u will just remind them of how good their attackers are...
Phone/Internet Market › Re: Neat Used Redmi 10 With 4GB Ram/ 64GB Rom Up For Sale. SOLD. by Adasun(m): 11:27am On Oct 07, 2023
40k op
Phone/Internet Market › Re: Mi 8 Lite 64/4GB Sold Sold Sold by Adasun(m): 11:25am On Oct 07, 2023
danyx:
Ok,

40k
leave am for me at 35 na...
Food › Re: If A Wife Owns A Restaurant, Should The Husband Pay After Eating? by Adasun(m): 7:30pm On Oct 06, 2023
Jennyclay:
I won’t be bothered if he pays or not.

But I will always have my way of collecting back x10 of every single amount he ate in my restaurant without him even knowing.
my babe dey do me that thing eh, although I do noticed...
Phone/Internet Market › Re: Mi 8 Lite 64/4GB Sold Sold Sold by Adasun(m): 8:12pm On Oct 04, 2023
Op 35k
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Tottenham Hotspur Vs Liverpool (2 - 1) On 30th September 2023 by Adasun(m): 5:35pm On Sep 30, 2023
Link please
Phones › Re: Who Want To Swap Samsung Or Iphone For Huawei Y9 2019 With Cash by Adasun(m): 4:48pm On Sep 30, 2023
Direct price is how much ?

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