Adasun:
I have that in mind bro, couple with other attacks the family face...



Bro I need guidance on where to go...

Adasun:
he was a normal child, nothing...all this started all of a sudden

Adasun:
I have that in mind bro, couple with other attacks the family face...



Bro I need guidance on where to go...

brawlings:
'Where to go'? Seek the help of a mental health professional. The change in behaviour could be as a result of internal and external factors that can be diagnosed by a psychiatrist. As vague as this may sound; a change of enviroment and the presence of a 'caring father' figure (you) might be all he needs to restore 'factory settings'.

We4all:


Then you already have the answer. Get him psychological help because it is obvious the death of your dad might have hit him hard.

Samuelojonla123:

I'll advise you visit any celestial church close to you just tell them you want to Sona for yourself in yoruba word, the prophet will understand and reveal any issue tacking your bro spiritually and give you the right solution, that's all. But if you're in Abk area I might link you up with a church.
Peace

Amotolongbo:
is your brother Erekere?

Adasun:
I will try and make this story short and I need your advice please...


I lost my dad March this year... His death was not natural but I won't bore you with details.

We did the burial rights and I move back to school.before I left, I noticed my brother who is 14yrs have this spiritual paranoia...he suspect many who came for condolences as if they were coming to attack...

I calm him down during those period and let him know that nothing is after him or us.

I left, only for my mum to call me that something is not right with my bro... He talks to himself, seems lost sometimes and have little to no regards for anyone.

They have taken him to many spiritual house and they still point to the person responsible for my dad's death- a neighbor.

This boy hates mum for no reason and often said she is not her mother.he sometimes threatened to kidnapped his immediate Younger brother or slap his elder sister.

He becomes aggressive and most painful part of it all right now is that he steal.

Meat, money.he just develop the habit of stealing. I have not visited home since I left but I need your advice. As the first born, I need to take some drastic step.

How do I handle thia?spiritual, psychological and any way possible to retrieve my Lovely lad, such advice is most welcome.

Thanks...

Osoboshi:
Classic case of schizophrenia,take him to a psychiatrist asap.
The death of ur father might have triggered it

Adasun:
he was a normal child, nothing...all this started all of a sudden

Adasun:
I will try and make this story short and I need your advice please...


I lost my dad March this year... His death was not natural but I won't bore you with details.

We did the burial rights and I move back to school.before I left, I noticed my brother who is 14yrs have this spiritual paranoia...he suspect many who came for condolences as if they were coming to attack...

I calm him down during those period and let him know that nothing is after him or us.

I left, only for my mum to call me that something is not right with my bro... He talks to himself, seems lost sometimes and have little to no regards for anyone.

They have taken him to many spiritual house and they still point to the person responsible for my dad's death- a neighbor.

This boy hates mum for no reason and often said she is not her mother.he sometimes threatened to kidnapped his immediate Younger brother or slap his elder sister.

He becomes aggressive and most painful part of it all right now is that he steal.

Meat, money.he just develop the habit of stealing. I have not visited home since I left but I need your advice. As the first born, I need to take some drastic step.

How do I handle thia?spiritual, psychological and any way possible to retrieve my Lovely lad, such advice is most welcome.

Thanks...

Mindlog:


What was his relationship with his/your dad like before his death?

There is need for him to be urgently seen by a Psychiatrist whose specialty is in Child and Adolescent Psychiatry (though they are few in Nigeria).
I know families are more reluctant in bringing their young ones to a Child and Adolescent Psychiatric Clinic but the earlier, the better.

I know what the diagnosis will be, based on what you have shared, so there is urgent need for a diagnosis so treatment can start immediately.

Jewessgratitud3:
■ Everyone shouting mental case. Is it mental case that makes one steal? Me thinks it's drugs related. Check the kind of friends he keeps and monitor the places he goes to. He must have been introduced to drugs by older boys in the street. Tell your Mom and siblings to monitor him then if drug is not the case, take him to the hospital to see a psychiatrist. Don't take him to any fetish spiritual home . If you must go spiritual, go to MFM for deliverance sessions or bring him to the RCCG Holy Ghost Congress take him to the altar and pray by faith, he'll be healed.

Kleptomania (klep-toe-MAY-nee-uh) is a mental health disorder that involves repeatedly being unable to resist urges to steal items that you generally don't really need. Often the items stolen have little value and you could afford to buy them. Kleptomania is rare but can be a serious condition.
Symptoms
Kleptomania symptoms may include:

▢ Inability to resist powerful urges to steal items that you don't need
▢ Feeling increased tension, anxiety or arousal leading up to the theft
▢ Feeling pleasure, relief or satisfaction while stealing
▢ Feeling terrible guilt, remorse, self-loathing, shame or fear of arrest after the theft
▢ Return of the urges and a repetition of the kleptomania cycle

Features
People with kleptomania usually have these features or characteristics:

▢ Unlike most shoplifters, people with kleptomania don't compulsively steal for personal gain, on a dare, for revenge or out of rebellion. They steal simply because the urge is so powerful that they can't resist it.
▢ Episodes of kleptomania generally happen suddenly, without planning and without help from another person.
▢ Most people with kleptomania steal from public places, such as stores. Some may steal from friends or acquaintances, such as at a party.
▢ Often, the stolen items have no value to the person with kleptomania, and the person can afford to buy them.
▢ The stolen items are usually stashed away, never to be used. Items also may be donated, given away to family or friends, or even secretly returned to the place from which they were stolen.
▢ Urges to steal may come and go or may occur with greater or lesser intensity over time.

Kleptomania

Adasun:
I will try and make this story short and I need your advice please...


I lost my dad March this year... His death was not natural but I won't bore you with details.

We did the burial rights and I move back to school.before I left, I noticed my brother who is 14yrs have this spiritual paranoia...he suspect many who came for condolences as if they were coming to attack...

I calm him down during those period and let him know that nothing is after him or us.

I left, only for my mum to call me that something is not right with my bro... He talks to himself, seems lost sometimes and have little to no regards for anyone.

They have taken him to many spiritual house and they still point to the person responsible for my dad's death- a neighbor.

This boy hates mum for no reason and often said she is not her mother.he sometimes threatened to kidnapped his immediate Younger brother or slap his elder sister.

He becomes aggressive and most painful part of it all right now is that he steal.

Meat, money.he just develop the habit of stealing. I have not visited home since I left but I need your advice. As the first born, I need to take some drastic step.

How do I handle thia?spiritual, psychological and any way possible to retrieve my Lovely lad, such advice is most welcome.

Thanks...

Samuelojonla123:

I'll advise you visit any celestial church close to you just tell them you want to Sona for yourself in yoruba word, the prophet will understand and reveal any issue tacking your bro spiritually and give you the right solution, that's all. But if you're in Abk area I might link you up with a church.
Peace

Gbadugbakun:
Whenever you go home, buy like 6 canes. Tie him to a pole or something and pieces the canes on his body. He would change for the
Best.

Amotolongbo:
is your brother Erekere?

Adasun:
I will try and make this story short and I need your advice please...


I lost my dad March this year... His death was not natural but I won't bore you with details.

We did the burial rights and I move back to school.before I left, I noticed my brother who is 14yrs have this spiritual paranoia...he suspect many who came for condolences as if they were coming to attack...

I calm him down during those period and let him know that nothing is after him or us.

I left, only for my mum to call me that something is not right with my bro... He talks to himself, seems lost sometimes and have little to no regards for anyone.

They have taken him to many spiritual house and they still point to the person responsible for my dad's death- a neighbor.

This boy hates mum for no reason and often said she is not her mother.he sometimes threatened to kidnapped his immediate Younger brother or slap his elder sister.

He becomes aggressive and most painful part of it all right now is that he steal.

Meat, money.he just develop the habit of stealing. I have not visited home since I left but I need your advice. As the first born, I need to take some drastic step.

How do I handle thia?spiritual, psychological and any way possible to retrieve my Lovely lad, such advice is most welcome.

Thanks...

Adasun:
I will try and make this story short and I need your advice please...


I lost my dad March this year... His death was not natural but I won't bore you with details.

We did the burial rights and I move back to school.before I left, I noticed my brother who is 14yrs have this spiritual paranoia...he suspect many who came for condolences as if they were coming to attack...

I calm him down during those period and let him know that nothing is after him or us.

I left, only for my mum to call me that something is not right with my bro... He talks to himself, seems lost sometimes and have little to no regards for anyone.

They have taken him to many spiritual house and they still point to the person responsible for my dad's death- a neighbor.

This boy hates mum for no reason and often said she is not her mother.he sometimes threatened to kidnapped his immediate Younger brother or slap his elder sister.

He becomes aggressive and most painful part of it all right now is that he steal.

Meat, money.he just develop the habit of stealing. I have not visited home since I left but I need your advice. As the first born, I need to take some drastic step.

How do I handle thia?spiritual, psychological and any way possible to retrieve my Lovely lad, such advice is most welcome.

Thanks...