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PaperLace:
Let's have this argument again, when you are married for at least a year _and you have never annoyed your wife or disrespected her seriously.

Then you'll understand that you don't expect her to hurt you in anyway (when you do annoy her). If by any means she hurts you because she has had enough _I wanna watch you make excuses for her. That's when you'll have a point.

Pardon me for calling you a kid, even kids are not oblivious of the ever changing family structure _where husband and wife work to contribute according to their income.



You message is very clear, Sir.

which changing family structure, Oga you guys keep getting brainwashed everyday all in the name of civilisation. Go observe old marriages if you have an opportunity you can ask for an account of how it went with your grandmother and grandfather and they will tell you the place of women

PaperLace:
This one is obviously still a kid. Lots of women around me feed,house and clothe themselves. I wouldn't know which forest you reside.

That you feed and clothe your wife, not like so many men still do that _isn't a reason to batter her. There are so many women feeding their homes and I am sure you won't see it as a good enough reason for them to beat their husbands. Men insult their wives too. Men cheat on their wives _that's enough insult. It doesn't warrant abuse from these women. So, you see how senseless it sounds now?

This isn't about who you feed, it's about what's right. If you have had enough, divorce him/her. There is no reason to inflict injury on your spouse (man/woman).

I'm not saying abuse is right, I'm saying they should quit claiming innocent and do things right. they always want to do the wrong thing and expect nothing in return!,
you're getting me wrong daddy( since I'm now a kid) , you don't even know how to talk, argument isn't an avenue to insult people.
I didn't say men should abuse women because he feeds her, I said they should submit to their husbands he's not their equal.

as for those women feed, SORRY na their matter

gqboyy:
There are ways to settle issues not necessarily by beating. Have you not read recently on this forum how one coward ruthlessly murdered his wife? Don't u know that this merciless beatings can lead to death. All dis tattoos u r seing on her skin is subcutaneous bleeding

it takes two people to dialogue... ask if she was ready to dialogue Oga!!

a pastor said if you are really the woman God wants you to be, your husband can't beat you even if he's the devil

PaperLace:
Would you say this if it were a man?

Majority of you that are quick to type this, are not married. If you are married, you'll know husbands are as annoying as wives. It only takes tolerance for both to manage each other.

tolerance do you know if he has had enough?
if you don't want beating stop exchanging words with the man, he's not your mate in anyway, if you claim you are equal, pay the house rent and foot every bill in the family with him, then you're equal. not after feeding you, housing you and clothing you, you tell me we are equal.

you want to be pampered and want to be treated as equals the same time. is it possible?

PaperLace:
Would you say this if it were a man?

gqboyy:
Wife beaters are cowards

try being in their shoes.

nobody deserves beating, both women and men

nowadays women overdo things!!! they should please respect their husbands.

you know you can't overpower a man and you are exchanging words with him, cursing his family and so on, when he beats you , you'll say he's a coward, woman beater and so on!!! but what about you

gqboyy:
Wife beaters are cowards

try being in their shoes.

nobody deserves beating, both women and men

nowadays women overdo things!!! they should please respect their husbands.

you know you can't overpower a man and you are exchanging words with him, cursing his family and so on, when he beats you , you'll say he's a coward, woman beater and so on!!! but what about you

Evablizin:
Men you all should learn how to control your anger,if you keep on listening to what we say with this our mouth even when we are wrong you will die or kill us before our time bikonu make una take am easy abeg

you people should control your tongue too bikonu!!!

The modern woman (third chapter)

Were our female ancestors just naive? Why didn't they stand up to the men? Why didn't they claim their right ( according to the modern woman)?

Let's take a look at their lifestyle.

The life of Sarah In The Bible – Character, Profile And Life Story.

Sarah’s early life (Genesis 11:27-32)
Sarah was born as Sarai and raised in the Ur of the Chaldees, which is located in modern day Iraq. It was located on the Euphrates River not far upstream from where the Euphrates and Tigris Rivers join. Sarai was married to Abram, whom we know as Abraham. Sarai was barren (Genesis 11:30), so having Lot in the family provided her with the opportunity to be a sort of foster mother to Lot. However, for a woman not to be able to produce children on her own it was believed to be a sign that there was something in the woman’s life that was causing God not to bless her. This brought anguish, shame, and despair to Sarai.
Since Sarai could not produce a child for Abram, she made a decision that would affect all of humanity. She decided to give Hagar, her Egyptian maid, to Abram to produce a child. Abram accepted Sarai’s offer to produce a child through Hagar and the result was the birth of Ishmael. However, more than just a child was produced. With the pregnancy, Hagar despised Sarai and Sarai became jealous and harsh with Hagar. Hagar then left and went into the wilderness of Shur.

Pregnant and alone in the wilderness, an angel of the Lord spoke to Hagar. The angel told her to return to Sarai. He also told her that she would bear a son, Ishmael, because God heard her affliction. He said that Ishmael would be a wild man and his hand would be against every man and would one day have many sons and live in the presence of all his brethren in Shur. Ishmael later became the father of all Arab peoples.

Sarah’s legacy
Although there are many more things that happened in Sarah’s life, she has left a legacy that serves as something to consider by believers today: Sarah was the mother of nations: Genesis 17:15-16
Sarah was beautiful: Genesis 12:11
Sarah was impatient when it came to believing God’s promises being fulfilled: Genesis 15:3-4; Genesis 16:1-6; Genesis 18:12-15
Sarah could be jealous and harsh when things did not work out how she wanted: Genesis 16:4-6; Genesis 21:9-11
Sarah was honored by God despite her imperfections: Genesis 17:15-16
Sarah’s faith enabled her to be strengthened to conceive and deliver Isaac in her old age: Hebrews 11:11-12
Sarah’s faith resulted in a changed life when it came to her relationship with her husband: 1 Peter 3:1-7

Conclusion
Sarah was a beautiful woman who initially lived her life lacking faith in God’s promises and ability to do what He said He would do. Her impatience resulted in poor decisions that revealed she could be jealous and harsh. However, as her faith grew, she became a great woman of faith that God used to fulfill His plan.


Stay tuned as we look at the life of a modern woman in the next chapter.

#aderichards
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WHO's A WOMAN Now let's take a look at how women came about. What really prompted the creation of women? God said," it's not good for man to be alone, I'll make him a helper, a companion" "genesis 2v18. Now we can see the reason God created woman in the first place. She is to be a helper, a companion. Meanwhile man saw Eve and said, "finally, bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh, I'll name her woman for she was made from man" Along the line the serpent spoke to the woman and the woman wanting to know all things, ate from the tree and gave her husband. That incident led to the fall of man, God cursed the woman saying, "I'll multiply your pains in child birth; you'll give birth in pains, you'll want to please your husband, but he'll lord over you" and also cursed man too. Since then man and woman lived on with the curse till date. That means man live with his curse while woman also live with her. Meanwhile the position of woman as a companion wasn't relieved of her. Let's take a look at Sara- the wife of Abraham, one of the earliest woman. When God asked Abraham to leave Ur and move to where he'll show him. Sara followed him without complaints, she did not argue or ask why, but she simply obeyed him because she acknowledged him as her lord. What does this mean? It means at that time women were subjects to the men and they embraced that, knowing fully well that it is the Lord's will and not man's. What of the modern woman? Can she follow her husband that way? Will she not tag him insane? Will she not tell him to go and leave her because she has the right to do as she pleases? Will she not go ahead to marry another man? If your answer is yes to all this, then does this mean that the modern woman is rejecting her place in life? Trying to change the will of God? If so, lets see if we can justify the modern woman's action in the next chapter. Perhaps the ancient woman was stupid and naive? Or was she wise ? ****Stay tuned....... #aderichards Pages77.

WHO's A WOMAN Now let's take a look at how women came about. What really prompted the creation of women? God said," it's not good for man to be alone, I'll make him a helper, a companion" "genesis 2v18. Now we can see the reason God created woman in the first place. She is to be a helper, a companion. Meanwhile man saw Eve and said, "finally, bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh, I'll name her woman for she was made from man" Along the line the serpent spoke to the woman and the woman wanting to know all things, ate from the tree and gave her husband. That incident led to the fall of man, God cursed the woman saying, "I'll multiply your pains in child birth; you'll give birth in pains, you'll want to please your husband, but he'll lord over you" and also cursed man too. Since then man and woman lived on with the curse till date. That means man live with his curse while woman also live with her. Meanwhile the position of woman as a companion wasn't relieved of her. Let's take a look at Sara- the wife of Abraham, one of the earliest woman. When God asked Abraham to leave Ur and move to where he'll show him. Sara followed him without complaints, she did not argue or ask why, but she simply obeyed him because she acknowledged him as her lord. What does this mean? It means at that time women were subjects to the men and they embraced that, knowing fully well that it is the Lord's will and not man's. What of the modern woman? Can she follow her husband that way? Will she not tag him insane? Will she not tell him to go and leave her because she has the right to do as she pleases? Will she not go ahead to marry another man? If your answer is yes to all this, then does this mean that the modern woman is rejecting her place in life? Trying to change the will of God? If so, lets see if we can justify the modern woman's action in the next chapter. Perhaps the ancient woman was stupid and naive? Or was she wise ? ****Stay tuned....... #aderichards Pages77.

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WHO's A WOMAN
Now let's take a look at how women came about. What really prompted the creation of women?

God said," it's not good for man to be alone, I'll make him a helper, a companion" "genesis 2v18.

Now we can see the reason God created woman in the first place. She is to be a helper, a companion.
Meanwhile man saw Eve and said, "finally, bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh, I'll name her woman for she was made from man"

Along the line the serpent spoke to the woman and the woman wanting to know all things, ate from the tree and gave her husband.
That incident led to the fall of man, God cursed the woman saying, "I'll multiply your pains in child birth; you'll give birth in pains, you'll want to please your husband, but he'll lord over you" and also cursed man too.
Since then man and woman lived on with the curse till date. That means man live with his curse while woman also live with her. Meanwhile the position of woman as a companion wasn't relieved of her.

Let's take a look at Sara- the wife of Abraham, one of the earliest woman. When God asked Abraham to leave Ur and move to where he'll show him. Sara followed him without complaints, she did not argue or ask why, but she simply obeyed him because she acknowledged him as her lord. What does this mean? It means at that time women were subjects to the men and they embraced that, knowing fully well that it is the Lord's will and not man's.

What of the modern woman? Can she follow her husband that way? Will she not tag him insane? Will she not tell him to go and leave her because she has the right to do as she pleases? Will she not go ahead to marry another man?
If your answer is yes to all this, then does this mean that the modern woman is rejecting her place in life? Trying to change the will of God?

If so, lets see if we can justify the modern woman's action in the next chapter. Perhaps the ancient woman was stupid and naive? Or was she wise ?
****Stay tuned.......

#aderichards
Pages77.

WHO's A WOMAN
Now let's take a look at how women came about. What really prompted the creation of women?

God said," it's not good for man to be alone, I'll make him a helper, a companion" "genesis 2v18.

Now we can see the reason God created woman in the first place. She is to be a helper, a companion.
Meanwhile man saw Eve and said, "finally, bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh, I'll name her woman for she was made from man"

Along the line the serpent spoke to the woman and the woman wanting to know all things, ate from the tree and gave her husband.
That incident led to the fall of man, God cursed the woman saying, "I'll multiply your pains in child birth; you'll give birth in pains, you'll want to please your husband, but he'll lord over you" and also cursed man too.
Since then man and woman lived on with the curse till date. That means man live with his curse while woman also live with her. Meanwhile the position of woman as a companion wasn't relieved of her.

Let's take a look at Sara- the wife of Abraham, one of the earliest woman. When God asked Abraham to leave Ur and move to where he'll show him. Sara followed him without complaints, she did not argue or ask why, but she simply obeyed him because she acknowledged him as her lord. What does this mean? It means at that time women were subjects to the men and they embraced that, knowing fully well that it is the Lord's will and not man's.

What of the modern woman? Can she follow her husband that way? Will she not tag him insane? Will she not tell him to go and leave her because she has the right to do as she pleases? Will she not go ahead to marry another man?
If your answer is yes to all this, then does this mean that the modern woman is rejecting her place in life? Trying to change the will of God?

If so, lets see if we can justify the modern woman's action in the next chapter. Perhaps the ancient woman was stupid and naive? Or was she wise ?
****Stay tuned.......

#aderichards
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why there is feminism is that the women know that they being inferior to men is the truth.
why is there no masculinism too?

I'm never equal to a woman abeg!!!

prayed together

BadlikeRIRI:
Why u they tap report button .. ekwensu

oh those ones that think they speak good English and get bad mouth , these feminists eh!! babe you posted like four times in a row, ask someone that is if you have an intelligent friend what that means

Lalas247:
Are u crazy ahhh ur own don finish for nl b dat Wait

she even get nose ring. I'm waiting

Divay22:
If it was in my powers, I would have sent it down to the dungeon.. A trace of it will never be found.... But i don't have those magical powers

then shut the Bleep up

Divay22:
We ain't seeing nathing... This thread is dead on arrival.

divay or what , a quick suggestion please.... remove the post from nairaland

permission to copy sir

Divay22:
He is obviously not serious .
What's there in explaining or throwing a lil bit of light to her what the Modern woman means...

the feminists are here.... please have a sit, una go hear word on this thread

I love this writer... permission to copy sir!

Lalas247:
Shock me type something intelligent

here is something intelligent for you .... work on your attitude

Lalas247:
Is that so Tell me more ...

Lefulefu pls bring some snacks .. story about to start

u are a girl no doubt

Lalas247:
Introduction to what

the article called The modern woman and not a story

Lalas247:
This story no get beginning or End
Oga please connect ur brain o all I saw was development and disadvantages no explaination whatsoever
What exactly is the issue with women

and you're either a student or a graduate

its the introduction olodo

thepussyhunter:
This one don carry e school project come nairaland

carry on soldier


issoraite..........

e be like project? una no go kill me nairalanders

INTRODUCTION TO THE MODERN WOMAN

Taking a look at our society today, we find that women have developed over the years. Meanwhile this development is great, but have you ever taken time to consider it's disadvantages?

Yes I know how you feel right now, especially if you my reader is female. In fact you must have asked this question, "how dare he say that women development has disadvantages?" Or rather you might conclude that this writer is against gender equality.

But against all odds, the truth still manages to live in our hearts and environment. The truth I'm talking about here is that everything has disadvantages, no matter how good they are.

Now, do you think the development of women has much more advantages? That should be the question. I know you must have said "of course"
Okay! let's see how right you are as we analyse women development in the next chapters.
****to be continued**
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