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Please listen to this man..
I am the first male child with three other siblings..I built a house for my mum first before I got settled..it's the same house we all call our family house now.. The prayers I received from my mum and even elders was something to behold.. The joy on my mum's face and siblings coupled with the respect that comes with it as the first son..
If you can, please make that woman happy even though she's aged..
Finally, until you marry a woman as your wife before you can beat your chest.. Am telling you this from experience..

Kriss216:
I got no problems with you asking a man in his 40s, my problem is you asking a girlfriend. What nonsense? There are things you shouldn't ask a girlfriend until she turns to your wife. Stop giving these girls leverage to use against you.

I joined NL for the first time because of this your post.. I have always been a guest just to read topics and comments..
Now to the issue at hand.. I am talking from experience.. Married for 6years now.. If she doesn't change now she won't change after marriage.. Please discard her now..
While dating my wife, I have always been the one calling both morning and evening just to check on her.. So one day I decided not to call at all.. Through out that day she never called to even ask why or look up on me.. Imagine how some women think.. This is a guy that has always called everyday and a day came he didn't call.. Naturally she's supposed to call to ask after my well being..
Most crashed marriages actually got the warning sign while dating.. Let me tell you a secret.. If there is any quarrel between you two she won't bother to call you talk more of making peace..
Pls bro have a rethink I beg you.. Marriage is too deep beyond what you seeing now.. God will guide and help you..