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Animal care services and konsult chairman Dr Agbaito is dead. Family member announced

Hmmmmm!

These people I suspect have done unimaginable things using only death as cover ups.

See his last post now

THE WOMAN:
As a woman, you are many things to your husband and as a man, there are 8 things you should be to your wife.
Don’t marry a man because of what he drives but what drives him
Seduce your husband. Don’t always allow your husband to ask for sex. As a woman your under wear should match
You must be a different woman to your husband every time. Be creative. Don’t be predictable. Give him what he wants.
Everyone woman has an influence. If you lose influence over your husband you have lost womanhood
You must learn to synchronize with your husband. Be part of his plans
Don’t have too many children. Sex is not all about making children. Dress to please your husband
Don’t fix time to have sex with your husband.When a man is sexually satisfied he is emotionally stable
As a woman you should invest in yourself spiritually so you can adequately support him. Build yourself as a prayer warrior so that you will not be forced to pray at the end of your life.
I agree with almost all but why must my husband provide for all my needs? Is he a money making machine?
Secondly, why cant I provide for my husband, afterall, iron sharpens iron, they say, if he can buy me something, I should be able to reciprocate, isn’t that romantic?
As a woman you are a helper!
The one who you are helping must be stronger than you! Once you are married, you are somebody’s helper and the helper is meant to have what the person’s need! As a wife, you are meant to surround your husband! Women are natural keepers; men take care of your wives so your life can be long! The woman is your helper. Treasure your wife, let her feel important!! Let your wife know that she is important. Women, you are your husband’s helper, stop looking helter skelter! You are there to help him and God will reward you.
As a woman, you are a builder!!
Proverbs 14:1- A wise woman buildeth her home! We need wisdom to build. You must know when to speak, when to keep quiet, when to comfort, when to build!
As a woman you are a servant!
Titus 2:4-5- These older women must train the younger women to love their husbands and their children, 5 to live wisely and be pure, to work in their homes, to do good, and to be submissive to their husbands. Then they will not bring shame on the word of God.
You are a cook, cleaner, laundry woman and nanny!
When last did you love him and lay his head on your chest? When last did you run up behind him and kiss him?
Once a bride, always a bride!! Stop calling him daddy or papa Joseph!! He is your husband! You are a servant, not a slave
12- You are an intercessor!
Prayer cover him, satan proof him, Delilah proof your husband! If God has blessed you with a husband, pray for him. The praying woman is a winning woman; at certain times, just pray for your husband!! No matter how happy you are in your marriage, never stop praying for your husband! In case you don’t know, some people are not happy that you are happy? That husband you think is useless, some people are queuing to marry him. Take care of your home; no matter where you go, come back to your home!
13- As a woman, you are a lover!
Some women forget that you are a lover! Every man is attracted by what he sees, while a woman is attracted by what she hears. That is how we are wired! If you are an old bride beside your husband, you will push him to a Delilah! The male species like variety, even Christian men can be tempted! Therefore, you must be many things to your husband! Become unpredictable in marriage! Wear your hair differently, dress differently!
You should have two types of nightwear, the general ones and the ones only your husband can see you in; you know what I mean. Look lovely for your husband; remind him of what he has. Make the room you share have a wonderful ambience!
Touch your husband! A woman needs 13 meaningful touches a day! Remain romantic! Don’t be an old ugly bride around your husband; walk hard to retain your shape! You must be romantic and spontaneous! Befriend your husband, if you don’t befriend him, you will wake up one day and find a huge emotional gap! Don’t let your ministry or career cause a rift between you
14- As a woman you are a covering!
Look at Genesis 21:9-10
What a man can’t see, a woman can see! So, as a man learn to listen to your woman! Be careful when your wife warns you about a particular business or a friendship or woman, listen to her and try to understand her! Don’t tell your wife to shut up. As a woman, protect your husband, defend him!
15- You are a keeper, an assignment!
For example, he gives you sperm; you keep it, deliver a child and nurture that child! He tells you his vision, you keep it in mind and help nurture and bring it to pass.
May the lord give us Good understanding amen

4 things to do:
I have read your msg and I want to offer u my own piece of advise from biblical point of view and as an experienced and a married person myself.
pls note d following:
# The Lord said follow peace with all men without which no man shall see d Lord. Confrontation is not d first step in conflict resolution. The man is being tempted and we face this everyday. It's d fear of the Lord that keeps us from falling.
# The Lord hates putting away. That means divorce is not an option for u right now. It has not graduated to dt.
# Wife submit yourself to your husband in all things.
# They were both NAKED and they were not ashamed. Naked here does not mean unclad. It means openess, having someone in confidence, hold ur partner's secret etc
4 Things to do are:
1). Prayer: Pray for him first. Talk to God about d situation and let Holy Spirit guides on the best time to discuss.
2): Discuss or dialogue: This is your hubby and u must observe d rules never to disrespect him. Approach him praising him , tell him is d best man in d whole world and tell him about his good sides not his weaknesses. Tell him about ur love for him and your dream for d marriage. Do u know starting like dt u ve stirred up a reaction inside and created a good atmosphere for him to disclose everything dt happened.

3) Consultation: This one will come him if d above did not work. It means u can not handle it again then u have to invite third party like your pastor, his closed friends and trusted family members.

4) Confrontation. This is d last one. It works when d above three aren't working. Whatever u can not confront u can never conquer. I don't pray u will get to ds level.
A wise woman will build her own home but d foolish one will scatter it!
Marriage is a journey and a school of life. We learn and grow everyday.
U will succeed in your marriage in Jesus name. Apply maturity in everything. Stop nagging and stop insulting him. Don't give devil a chance! All d best. 08057995143.

I have.

I first met him thru a pastor in lagos, years Pat i met him in person at Lantoro hospital in abeokuta in the private ward. I went to pray for him there. I think for the same ailment. Very friendly and a honourable man. The world of football will miss u. RIP , Adieu!