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cassyrooy:
Please, kindly note that I'm not defending the OP with my post.

Now, the timeframe for moving on is flexible, different people can take different time to sort themselves out, some don't sort anything and they move on like that.

The OP taking 6months before following up with that nice girl is okay, besides, the cause of his last relationship to fail was ethnic differences.

So, do blame him for not waiting for 2years or longer. Different strokes for different folks, remember that.

Oga OP, you messed up, hooking up another girl when you've not fully purged out the last lady is grossly unfair to the Nice Girl you're currently with.

Na so you go take break her heart, and we'll have one angry person to deal with.

If you can't give your all, apologize to her and quit the relationship before things advance between both of you.

Kingsean:
don't u know what u see as minor may be serious to some people? she wants to be serious but if u waste her time and effort, she may take it really personal or even go spiritual on ur case. don't waste her time if u know u have chosen ur ex. she deserves to be happy just like u. think about it. most times we don't get to marry the ones we love the most. there's a reason for that. its more spiritual than physical. despite d fact dat u loved ur ex so much, she may not be your future wife. God knows best. going back to her is not a good idea. for d fact dat she couldn't even defend ur ethnicity, it means even if u marry her later, ethnicity would still split u both. love goes beyond ethnicity but if someone has chosen ethnicity or religion over u, my brother don't go back to such person. its dangerous cos she would definitely yield to pressure again. focus on ur new girl. am sure the love would grow as time goes on. delete everything about ur ex and stop communicating with her. God has given u a second chance. don't waste it

Kingsean:
guy, why naaaa? leave ur ex alone. how would u feel if this ur current babe does the same to u. Am sure u would be angry. if u know u love her, discharge ur ex and be serious cos if dis girl places a curse on u, believe me you are in for it big time. you better make up your mind now

Macsjebs:
You know u can't be with ur ex again so u just have to stop loving and thinking about her, u can communicate but avoid emotional and sexual discussions with her...You just have to accept you can't be with her and let go of all the emotional attachment so it doesn't lead to infidelity when you eventually get married

Drince:
Move on brudda. Yes you can't run from the fact that you loved your EX, but as much as you loved her it didn't work. Your EX is your past.. How do you move into the future when you are still stuck in the past..

bukatyne:
That is why I am surprised that 6 months late, he is straffing someone else.

bukatyne:
There is no timeline.

I am thinking you broke up with someone you claim to live, had sex with bla bla.

You calm down and try to get over the person while been celibate.

You take stock for why the relationship did not work and diligently search for someone whose life aligns with yours and you get to know the person before another relationship buds.

Except you are telling me you are in a relationship for sex and gave no self control so you need to jump from one girl to another.

bukatyne:
You have not moved on and already having sex with someone else?

Why are you cheapening your body? Don't you have dignity for your body that you can share it with anyone?

The moment you slept with that girl, you started a relationship with her.

Define it as you wish.

bukatyne:
You claim to live someone for almost two years and move on with 6mths?

Interesting.

DenreleDave:
If it was a lady dt posted dt she still think about her ex bf, many guys will start bashing her... Shouting Okafor law Okafor law... Call her all sorts of names...

Nobody is even criticizing the guy unlike ladies

bukatyne:
That you have had sex several times with

Happy following up.

Riele:


You are your problem .

If you like mess up your new "follow up" because of an ex you have no future with .

samdavjustin:
First off why should you be telling your new GF everything about yourself, don’t ever do that again always hold off information that will make her jealous. She is insecure because u run ur mouth like tap water now she thinks ur still in love with ur ex.

bukatyne:
You were so in love with you ex and 6mths later, you are with someone else.

You know the meaning of love so?

Meeyankee:
You must have told her how deeply you loved you ex,she knew that you are still talking to you e the insecurity is making her unbalance because she knew that you are still deeply in love with your ex.. so if you really love her and you want your relationship to work forget about your ex and concentrate on your new girlfriend..you supposed understand how jealous girls her..if you were to be in her position you will take knowing fully well that she is still talking to her ex boyfriend. Guy use your head oo no get let your ex wey leave because of tribe kill your present relationship ooo.

chigoziri2403:
And she is right!
Emotionally, you are still with your 'ex'
Let the poor girl go till you are man enough to not let your ex run your life.