₦airaland Forum

vilight:
just 4 a moment, lets imagine that option (to go live with ur mum) wasnt available and there wasnt any oda means of support, what would u do then? marriage is NOT a bed of roses, there are bound to be challenges which is supposed to help us grow...u shud be grateful dat u av a salary that stil comes thru even if its late, give ur husband support in this trying time and try 2 have anoda stream of income aside from u and hubby salary goodluck and dont go back 2 ur mum pls dont

uneasy lies d head that wear the crown.

milemimi93:
A woman will stand by you when the going is smooth. The moment things get tight, she will disapear. No woman in this generation wants to suffer. They want ready-made husbands..

Look at u, ur husband has been takin up responsibilities since dating u to marrin u. He never complain. Just this few months u are takin up responsibility (only feeding o) u are yellin.

My prayer is, the moment u leave ur husband for a greener pasture let God bless ur husband and let him bring in another woman and marry.

It's quite clear that u don't deserve him.

Good bye gold digger.

And whoever said 'BEHIND EVERY SUCCESSFUL MAN IS A WOMAN' was probably refering to the man's mother.

oga analyst, did u read where she said her salary is being delayed and she is pregnant and her kids are hungry? Ahan! Which kai support u want from dis woman again? Abi when she died during delivery for lack of eating well, then u will know she is rock of ages? Na waow.

no1madman:
Yeah! No 1 mad man = Heaven sent

I disagree.

ericsmith:
i find yourself response hilarious wonnt call it a bow, we are talking reality here no need for debate.
i donnt have any friend that is depending on gurlfriend or wife ,, even other africa women had to attest to how responsible naija guys are when it comes to financing...
you donnt av to find fact it will come staring @ you

3 of my friends a medical doctor, a banker, and a business woman. My mum inclusive. I know what I am saying. Though dia are some men who takes responsibilities but not all. As for you, u may be of d know of d responsible ones.

dasparrow:
Most Nigerian marraiges are a scam. They are master-servant relationship. I have no respect for Nigerian marraiges.

I just don't understand marriages this days. Most ladies (modern)are not hard heartened like women of old who tolerated a lot from dia imperfect husbands. U hear divorces every now and then. It is well

Evil genius. Ah. Lucifer wept!

Kindly tell him that u seeking his permission to go and stay with ur parents for now since things are a little rough. If he refused, then tell God and move. because if u die, d guy go marry another finest girl and start frustrating ur kids.

ebukamen:
You think that you know the bible?
Please read Proverbs 31:10-31

"10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. 11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. 12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. 13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. 14 She is like the merchants’ ships; she bringeth her food from afar. 15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. 16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. 17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. 18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. 19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. 20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. 21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. 22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. 23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. 24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. 25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. 26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. 27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. 28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. 29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. 30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised. 31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates."

oga scripture quota, did u read the verses with understanding?. If not read it again

ericsmith:
are you married, if yes, are you the breadwinner of the family or if you are single,mostly ,are you the one spending on ur bf or is he the one ??
i donnt like it when people generalise without involvement of themselves. how many of your females friends are the taking care of there man/bf. you are free to lie,
answer that and we are already arriving @ a fact

I know many that are taking responsibilities. U have already made up ur mind if I will lie or not. So no need. U do ur findings and get ur results yaself.

ericsmith:
another confused female wallowing in dilusion..
face reality & stop decieving yourself ,we are in society that subject men to be the sole provider for his family .. so where exactly is ya hallucinations coming from... take ya meds

oga, she ain't confused o. Do research well well. U will know dat most women are d ones taking care and providing for dis kids. The man of d house is busy spending on outsider to gain support against his wife. As if they were intended enemies

IbnAbdullah1:
This is what your modern day liberation that was sold to you from modernist and feminist alike tells you to do.
Thank God as a muslim, it is in our culture that womenare provided for with feeding,clothing,boding and upkeep and a woam is entitled to work under certain conditions and she contributes ZERO percent to the financial responsibility to the house except she willingly out her love and goodness support the family without her husband demanding for such.

u can't compare muslims in regard of taking care of wives and children Na. Everybody know dat one. Even my aunts dat married Muslim men are looking good and well taken care of.

ShakurM:
When a reasonable woman is treated right, submission comes naturally            

true talk

nahzyla:
So men like submission? But they don't want to provide abi? Claiming a woman must have money and provide for the family like her husband but the husband can still lord over her and command and rule her??

Wonderful.

that is d main issue in most marriages. The head of d house want his wife to provide all d needs in d house and still want to rule as head. Some will even ask d wife not to do anything that brings income and still expect his wife to provide for d kids while he save his money to spend on his extended family and friends outside. I just tire for most marriages

mikejj:
men like us

there are good and caring men out there. Seriously, but some of dis wives are just plain stupid and take d care shown to them for granted. May God give each person what each deserve.

DankemzI:
She'll thing I'm wayward, though when I got my own tattoos she developed HBP I'm her only son

lol

Tell them. But some men are heaven sent.

Let d militias protect dia community. Seems d police is in support of d Fulani brutality

What sort of witchie witchie children be dis?

Don4eva:
The woman I'm seeing in the picture isn't crying, even if she was, Buhari seems to be happy with her tears.
I'll continue to exercise patience till 2019 when the needful will be done.

oh gawd

michael142:
I'm not your average aries. I'm generous to a fault and I've never showed it off. For the zodiac sef na Aries generous pass and you nor go ever see any Nigerian artist or even actor or actress when be Aries dey flaunt helping someone on social media. We lead while others follow. Don't quote me again bro

only Aries in world.

michael142:
Abeg leave story. Make he help those when their photo nor dey social media. Genuine people don't go to social media to show their good deeds. Tribalism nor dey let una talk truth for this country. This boy is stingy in real life. Don't quote me again

selfless guy, I hail thee. How many u don help out dia in real life? 'Human beans'

LordBaggins:
Nice move

But I don't see the need to show such charitable works online.

world people. Pls do ur own secretly and let him do his own publicly. Leave it for posterity to judge. Chief judge of d federation I greet u

Arysexy:
Do Ur own eye service then.

leave the AgentofDarkness jare.

Headlaw:
Putting the boy on the flight is good but dressing him would have been better. The boy's shoe is fighting with the trouser "don't touch me"

oga mouthew which one u buy give d boy?

Rubbish news

Lomprico2:


Guy! Enter streetz there are hundreds of kids like him there. Am sure u see them when ever u are around, goan help them. You now want to use this case to shine because someone posted the picture. You will probably not find this kid. So goan help others and dont tell us u did!

. If u cannot help don't discourage those that can help. Don't judge his motives. Let God judge him.

Wow. She is gifted

Employ me

Who will bail her? Idiot wicked old woman

Bintabisiriyu:
So because he was correct ing his girlfriend and so?? Woman are like children and they deserve to be treated with iron hand.

bokoboy sported

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