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mariahAngel:
Tell him the relationship can't continue because the trust has been tampered with. Simple!

Thanks.... You all just saved a soul .....

bukatyne:
I don't have wealth of experience in such matters.

It is just common sense to end the relationship.

So sorry for my word. I haven't broken up with any man before, unless they did.

What do I tell him without hurting his feelings.

bukatyne:
Who? You ex or his brother?

We haven't broken up yet. I am still with him. My BF did.. meaning he's an ex already.


From your wealth of experience. Please how can I gently break up with him without being at fault cos he seems subtle.

FanOfMyself:
Op is a male trying to show that our ladies have lost it finally

This is a serious matter. And very sensitive.

Samfloxin:
NO, you are not not eligible.

Thanks

DoubleEngine007:
Not possible.. Even if he tells you to marry him,pls don't try it. E get why.. Only d wise will understand...

Thanks

WoundedLamb:
Here we go! Commenting cause we are less busy. Lol.

1) His brother is not nice.
2) You are not nice.
3) You and "your guy" are now sex mates.
4) He is using you to satisfy his cravings while waiting for his Miss Right.
5) Well, you can also use him to satisfy yours while waiting for your Mr Right and hoping you don't sleep with his (Mr Right's) father this time.
6) I suggest you move on like someone suggested above cause you might be blocking other men from coming your way. Bedsides, messing around with someone in the absence of love could be dangerous
7) Erase every thought of marriage here. This isn't a movie.

Extra:
Your guy seems like the calm but deadly type. He could have broken up with you at once but that wouldn't be as painful as he would want it so he's deliberately wasting your youthful age and having constant sex with you while at it. He will soon invite you to his wedding and watch you cry while he smiles satisfactorily. As for his brother, that one should watch his back cause his own story might even be more epic.

I could be TOTALLY wrong.

Appreciate this.

Klass99:
Lol

That relationship is over in his mind, he is only using you for sex and will discard you when he wants.

Men do not forgive the infidelity of a woman, what's worse you did it with his brother!

Will you marry yourself, after what you've done?

That guy won't marry you, you're too old to be asking this kind of question and displaying naivety like this nah aunty

Thanks for your input. I sensed this, I am only trying to be sure.

bukatyne:
Wait:

His brother disflowered you while dating him?

Move on, move on, move on.....

He was the one who did it. I accept my mistake.

Please don't bash me... I be una person.



I have this guy I am dating for 2 years now. I met him via a friend in Uyo. I was a virgin then when I met him. We always talk about marriage almost everytime.

I am still 28 years old, I had sex with his brother for about 3ice. I confessed to him without him knowing cos I was feeling guilty. Now it's 3 months after, he's still showing me love but his thirst for sex is now overboard.


Please nairalanders, do you think he can marry me?. If he eventually did, what about my shameful act with his brother. Please help.

Insult is welcome. But make sure your opinion is posted. Kindly don't send to FP please.