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I don't know what men are turning to this days, this is a popular cross-dresser in Jos that has been trending. Personally i any guy like this as a gay.

Rocky247:
Because the refinery belongs to Nigeria indirectly. Tinubu is the master planner, they have threatened Dangote and probably showed him something about the investment and thereafter agreed on this conclusion

I swear, it is now clear to us that our leaders are the problems of this country.

The whole of Nigeria was happy and having a sigh of relief after the announcement that went around stating that the dangote refinery has started production of petrol. I gave up on Nigeria when he also stated that the federal government would determine the price of his petrol. This is to show us the Nigeria can never be better, our leaders are the problem of Nigeria.
How can you produce something and say another person would determine the price. Theres a foul play somewhere. No wonder they refused selling crude oil for him when the refinery started operation, no wonder they were having a face off.
Dangote's petrol with all honesty isn't suppose to sell more than #300 per litre because there's no landing cost, no huge levies as usual. Everything was processed in Nigeria, no dollar exchange etc... I think Nigerians needs to stage another heavy protest because our leaders are really dealing with us.

frozen70:
I think you should make a call and put it on 🔊, ask him if he received the money you sent to him

Followed by the gossip he had with your wife. Ask him about all your wife said about his statement.

Wether he accepts it or not tell him to stop coming close to your wife and your home because that statement he made is already breaking your home apart

After that make sure he head you, then tell him good bye

Dont ever call him again

Then over to your wife, face her for not defending you while he makes that statement

This will sound as a warning to her and other related issues that may come up with such from other external family members

honestly you're so on point. I think that is what i should do but my wife would be angry about it. Well, to hell with her.

Na 4-0 I go wipe this Aston Villa

ChybuzzDD:
You didn't read where he talked about sending 3000 to the guy as what he could afford, the same way you "release anything you get" when called upon by relatives?

Or you want him to give everything he has?

I wonder oooo.... I just tire for the way some people think. That same cousin of mine is living in a house that his parents left for him while me na rent ooo.

AutoManual:
outside of what he said. Try to upgrade those phones. The major thing is that he believes you have money better that your living conditions. He is just trying to figure out that you are not spending your money and money you did ritual.

He started the discussion with your wife like na this phone you de use? She will laugh since you didn't buy phone give her. Your cousin they replied watin this your husband they use money so self. He has never help any body in the family. the fact you sent him 3k shows you are stingy let be frank. What's is the difference between 3 to 5k he request from you?. Not that he asked much. Also the guy has entitlement mentality . If he and your family members have this mindset towards your like you are very stingy it will affect your in future time of needs. I'm not talking of needing money oh. But family support in a kind of way

phone is not my problem ooo.. I have too much responsibility on my head. See house house rent, feeding, school is about resuming and na first term ooo, my niece staying with me. Guy i wish you know stress dealing with me. This cousin of mine is single without any responsibility. He even told my wife that he went and paid his girlfriend's school fees and also paid for her to learn work somewhere

Mariangeles:
First, give your "cousin" the benefit of the doubt, and ask him if he truly said what your wife told you.
If he confirms it, warn him to NEVER come to your house again.
Anything wey wan happen at that point, make e happen!

hmmmm..... Right, I'll do that this evening!!!

Zonefree:
What prompted your beloved wife to listen and believe such gossip?

You're right my brother, only God knows the discussion they had with my wife that led to that utterance from him.

EreluRoz:
Send him away. Couples should learn to be fierce against intruders.

he doesn't stay with me, infact since the last time he came, that is last week, I've not seen him nor spoken to him. Infact I sent him 3k and tried calling to ask if he has seen it, he never picked nor call back since last week.

I've been married for the past 6years and blessed with two(2) kids. I'm just a guy hussling from being a teacher, house agent etc. My cousin came to visit me last week, he arrived when i was about going out, so i told him to just stay and wait for me since i won't stay out long. Never knew they had discussions with my wife before i came back. So when i back we gisted, ate together and laughed. Later in the evening when he was leaving i escorted him to get a cab then while i was escorting him, he said he need small cash like 5k from me cos he wants to travel to Abuja, then i told him honestly i don't have money but i can send 3k to his account and he said no problem, then when he left I send the 3k to him, till today he hasn't called to say he has seen it or even thank you. Then Fast forward to today. I woke up from bed and was pressing my phone then my wife said she has something to ask me and i said to her go ahead, the next thing she asked was, did you go anywhere to get money? I answered how cos i don't understand, then she said my cousin brother told her that it seems i went somewhere (charm or babalawo) with my friends to get money because i don't like helping anybody in the family including him, that we were told not to help anybody with the money, infact the way he told my wife is as though he followed us to the place. According to her he also said i have money yet look at the phone she is using and also the phone i am using, that none of us is using a good phone.
I would have said maybe one of my friend tried to tarnish my image by telling him all these but my brother only knows two of my friends and those two, i can confidently tell you that he can't remember the last time he saw them because they don't stay in town and secondly talk has never joined any of them back in those days around 2007-2010 that he use to see them when he comes to my place.

Imagine what my own cousin brother would tell my wife...? I'm still in shock, how much do I have that i would help someone who doesn't have any responsibility? He's not married, neither does he have children. While i have a wife, 2 children and one of my late cousin's daughter staying with me because she's an orphan.

I'm the only one who knows the stress i face daily to cater for them. Yet, he says i don't like helping him or anyone in the family as if i have millions. I've never gone to any babalawo or whatever, I've never seen one with my eyes. To some extend I don't really trust my wife right now because only God know the conversation that led him to say all these.
Please guys what do you think?

viyon02:
I don't believe this news, they can't be these big and of the same size. I stand to be corrected anyway.

Oga you can't claim to know what you're not opoortuned to see.... If you know anyone in Jos, call and they'll tell you that everyone in Jos know about it and many have gone to see her and make donations.

MOTHER OF QUADRUPLETS STUCK IN JOS HOSPITAL DUE TO UNPAID MEDICAL BILLS, THREE WEEKS AFTER GIVING BIRTH

What should have been a joyful occasion has turned into a distressing situation. After seven years of childlessness, Mr. and Mrs. Natu Yakubu Makle were blessed with quadruplets, but they are now unable to pay their hospital bills.

The couple, originally from Kombili village in Mangu LGA, Plateau State, flee their home due to a brutal attack, abandoning their farmland.

On July 31, 2024, Mrs. Makle gave birth to quadruplets at Zenith Life Specialist Hospital in Jos. Due to their premature birth, the babies were placed in incubators for 16 days and were provided with CPAP support to aid their breathing. Three of the babies have been moved to a private ward, but one remains in an incubator.

Our correspondent who spoke with the hospital's doctor, Dr. Sule Jibrin, gathered that the total medical bill is N4,570,000, but the family has only managed to pay N100,000 so far. It was gathered that the hospital has been providing pampers and others necessary items needed for the kids.

We gathered that the hospital reached out to some organizations long before now to enable the family pay the required bills, but all efforts remains fruitless.

Maureen Mark, chairperson of the Plateau Youth Council, who brought this case to our attention, highlighted the family's desperate situation.

We will keep you updated as the situation develops.

Originalsly:
Hmmm ... this is serious. In my view it makes no sense sending off the child to his father. After 5 years you have already built a strong bond between you and the child. Do you really believe you can just make it disappear just like that? Do you really believe not having the child in your face would take much of that burden off your chest? The root of the problem is not the child ... it is your wife. Your wife is a snake... why would you want to keep it in your house? What does her actions tell you about her? How old is your marriage should tell you if she maybe had a parting romp with her ex that resulted in the child .... or if it was a thing that went on after marriage resulting in the pregnancy. Do you really believe she was with you only all the while? ... or been sleeping out with the ex all through the marriage? Try finding out if the child know its father ... maybe as Uncle Something. That can speak volumes. Did you for a moment think about why she decided to confess only now? ... that the father is probably now demanding to his son and threatening to spill the beans? Ask her who is the father of the second child ... then take the child for a DNA test. There is a strong possibility that you are also not the father .... neither the father of the other child. What should you then do? ... what would you do? I suggest you let the snake go ... or you were likely to be bitten again.... snakes have no loyalty and no empathy .. cold blooded period... it is their nature. It's not too late to start looking for a wife .... but just don't use the same approach.

you are really on point.... It's not easy for me.

helinues:
Hahahaha, would you have suspected the first child not to be yours if she didn't tell you about it?

yes, I've always had doubt due to the fact that she got pregnant before we married, so she said it was mine not knowing that she was sleeping with the guy whole we were dating

helinues:
How are you sure the second kid is for you when you are yet to do DNA

the second child look like me that there is no need for DNA

I'm married with two kids aged 5years and 3 years respectively... Six months ago my wife confessed to me about the real father of our first son which happens to be her ex. I was really hurt that i sent her out of my house, but after about a month i forgave her and brought her back including the child. But the thought of the betrayal and also taking care of another man's child is really dealing with me, so i've decided to tell my wife to take the child to his original father so this trauma could leave me. I've sought advice from different people but some will say I should just accept the child as my own, but the truth is that no matter how much i accept the child and continue taking care of him, it doesn't still make him my child. The father can still come one day to calim his child since he's already in aware. So please guys help me with your advice... Am i wicked if i tell my wife to take the child back to his real father? What if she chooses the option of leaving the marriage instead of separating her children because the wife i have will never agree to separating the children including her family.

DaddyCoool:
Is it that cold in Jos?
They're dressed like they're in iceland

omo cold dey Jos ooo, you forget say Jos is the home of cold?

More

I was on my way back from work today then i saw people gathering on one beautiful Keke napep, so I thought something had happened and i rushed to go and see what was happening, only to find out that it was an electric tricycle. Is that why they were behaving like villagers?

PLANNED PROTEST: PLATEAU POLICE COMMAND ARRESTS SUSPECT BEHIND INCITING TIKTOK VIDEO

The Plateau State Police Command has arrested a man behind a TikTok video that encouraged violence in connection with a planned nationwide protest. The video, posted on an account called "Dan-Mallam68," urged people to attack security forces and destroy public and private property in Plateau State.

On July 27, 2024, the Police Command was alerted to the video. Acting quickly, Commissioner of Police Emmanuel Olugbemiga Adesina directed officers to track down the person responsible. The next day, July 28, 2024, at around 11:30 AM, the police arrested Suleiman Yakubu, a 34-year-old man from Jos North, who confessed to making the video.

The Police are continuing their investigation. The Commissioner of Police stressed that any attempts to disrupt peace in the State will not be tolerated. He urged all residents to stay calm and follow the law, and to avoid making any statements that could incite violence.

A man in Plateau State known as HABIBU SANI GARKO is attempting a 50hours Massage-a-ton inorder to break the Guinness Book of records.

Since i was a child I noticed that whenever any bad thing wants to happen to me, I'll dream of it and when I'm about to enter that trouble, I'll remember the dream but I'll still go ahead and say after all it was just a dream, Lo and behold I'll go and enter the trouble and it will happen exactly how I saw it in the dream... It has happened so many times that I can't count.

A very good end.... I celebrate Rangers, they've done so well this season.

Now i agree with finidi..... If not a disrespectful fellow, how can your boss say something about you and then boom, you replied in less than 5mins through a video sef.

Na pride follow kill this osimhen career. Mchewwww!!!

Zubeezanga:
OG no worry yourself, u don do ur part, the good doctor has done his part, God dy wit una as operation successful, everything go stew, worry no dy reduce palava e d steal joy, on a lighter note lol abeg medical pratictioners mey una dy reduce those big big grammers for leymen like us some kin grammar dy increase hrtbeat lol, and so if person dy high dat person no fit donate blood, abi d highness go enter the other person system too.

na so brother.... I really appreciate oooo, God go bless you

GlorifiedTunde:
It's nothing to be scared of please. Over 90% are non cancerous. So calm the f*ck down!

thanks alotttttt sir

Houseofglam7:
Some of the comments are simply nauseating!!!!

Speedy recovery to your mom @Op

thank you so much and the Lord bless you... Amen!!!

Presido456:
glory be to God

amen... Thank you so much sir

GlorifiedTunde:
Be calm. It's likely benign. No serious issues if handled properly.

I hope it was done in a good hospital.

yes sir, it's actually one of the best hospital over here... It's a Catholic hospital

Kelklein:
clearly a tumor.. though could use be a fibrous growth

But the test from the lab would reveal whether it's just a fibrous growth, a benign tumor (has not spread) or a malignant tumor (spreading to other part of the body)..

now I'm scared with your terminologies sir... I've been restless since he said he sent it to the lab... I'm just hoping there isn't gonna be any problem regardless of the two you mentioned.

GlorifiedTunde:
Those are her thyroid glands. She just went through Thyroidectomy, a surgical procedure to remove all or part of the thyroid gland.

And it wasn't sent to the lab to discover what it is. It was sent to the lab to detect if it's benign or malignant.

but i hope there's no problem regardless of what the lab test says...? While she was in the ICU after the surgery, the doctor said her breathe ceased completely.. haaaaaaaaa