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Such a great talent. kind of scary though

I would feel like I'm eating shit!

Tallesty1:
My younger sister hates to cook but she's a great cook.

You get the difference?

Everybody should know how to cook but it's a must for a woman because she will soon raise people that will need to learn from her.

You don't learn to cook because of a man, it's part of your own contribution to the society


But on serious note, what would say that a girl who grew up with her parents spent her childhood days doing?

It's either she's a disobedient and irresponsible child or her parents failed her and neither of them is good news.

I can make you fall in love with cooking if you're interested.

I know the difference but it seems a lot of people here don't cos I mentioned earlier that I hate cooking, never said I don't know how to cook.

the society i thinks we are going to our husband's house, therefore must know how to cook.

can you make me love the heat too

Tallesty1:
AfricanApple is about to disappoint me

Haven't I done that already?
just say something

herald9:
AfricanApple, when last did you visit the garden of Eden cause it's like someone don chop too much Apple

Its like when Mr A and Mrs E ate the apple, their eyes opened and they started questioning the authority of God (according to JW)..
Now you don chop enough Apple, your eyes don open and you start questioning your duties and responsibilities

I'm just hoping your future hubby will understand, cause you might end up in the same way as those your role models I mentioned above

Maybe you haven't come across the concept of division of labour and specialisation. That's how the family is supposed to be run. You handle your part, I handle mine so that there'd be efficiency. The other partner might help the other if the needs arises, but the status quo must be maintained to avoid unnecessary conflict which might lead to..... Hope you know.

now I love this
still I hate cooking o

I think its better than giving it for free

Bizibi:
You have made up your mind not to cook,why creating a thread for it.....you can take a lady as your housewife.

so that you will come and be cooling for me. hian!

btw, herald9 don't go without saying something

honeygirl17:
You fit learn to cook now, its never too late to learn.

you can't even cook as much as I can as you dey form James bond so

chigoizie7:
I don't want to be harsh on u.

But this is akin to

"Must a man satisfy his wife/gf on bed"?
" must a man be the head of the family"?
"Must a man provide and protect his family"?
"Must a woman be over protective of her child"?
"Must a woman take care of her kids"?


If most of ur answers to my question is "YES". Then u have a serious problem with your sense of reasoning as to ask if it is a must that a woman should know how to cook.












For crying out loud, what sort of generation of people are being given birth to these days?

harsh are you the one that one to marry me?

queencalipso:
Honey!!! No matter how long you wanna argue this, you truly have no point.

It may not keep your man but is just one of the most important criteria as a woman. Being a woman have made it a must for you whether you like it or not.

If you don't, you will be teased and insulted.

that's why I brought the topic here, there are lots of things our society believe is bad but aren't recall bad. people will insult yes that does make it bad.
even our parents will say at the top of their voice 'go and cook, let it master you because you are going to a man's house'

tell me why must I learn to do anything because of a man? why not because of myself and how it will help me in the society

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firstking01:
With this mentality of yours you'd be having kitchen issues with your husband, and as you already know the only trail to a man's heart is through his stomach.

foodiola

Dygeasy:
Then money will keep finishing in the house.

queencalipso:
This shouldn't be a question in the first place. It's a must for a woman to know how to cook. It's part of what defines you and also part of your glory as a woman.

it defines you not me

saintfellow:
Lol so you are using work as an excuse.
let me tell you something about marriage.
marriage is not something you go into if you are not ready to make sacrifices for your family.
fine the both of you are working, but its your marital responsibility to close early and make sure that you prepare meal for your husband and children.
By the way, Who told you our mothers sit at home all day?
Do you know how hard they hard to work, go to the farm and toll for hours, go to the village markets to sell for hours, yet they had to make sure that their families are well fed.
In truth, he should know how to cook but its not your hubby's duty to start cooking for the family on daily basics.
he can help out at times, that fine.
I think the problem with ladies like you is westernization and feminism but need i remind you that few days earlier "RIHANA was videod in the kitchen cooking for her family.

you have moved a step forward

cooking is nobody's duty.
what if you marry me and we do it like this, you cook today I cook tomorrow

Dygeasy:
Girls/ladies of nowadays DO NOT go through as much stress as our mother did back in the days.

Quote me anywhere!! You don't have a point.

yes we don't but then their those stress were home-based stress. is it not when you sit in one place you will think of cooking?

[quote author=iykekelvins post=49602656][/quote]very much! is it bad?

Laveda:
If you don't know how to cook, I wonder what you'll know how to do?

You even hate it? Sure you're a woman? When you give birth you'll be getting food outside for your kids?

Its a Must!

I will come and call you

not knowing how to cook doesn't mean you will never cook, like I said, its a necessity. and I believe there other options when you don't feel like it.

can't imagine entering the kitchen, morning afternoon, night because of food

saintfellow:
[b]you named yourself African apple, yet you hate cooking.
Now tell me, whats African about you?
Is it your skin or your blood?
Let me tell you all the truth, "cooking" is what defines a lady, its in our culture, as an African woman, it is your right to embrace your culture, and cooking is part of it.
We have eguisi soup, banga soup, vegetable soup, jollof rice.
meals like this are what makes you to be a unique African woman.
It is very compulsory to know how to cook.
oh!! that sweet feelings your hubby gets when he tasted your meals is way different from the feelings he got when he ate at an eatery.
And by the way, if our mothers were so lazy in the olden days when there were no restaurants, those days when they had to take their time to cook for our fore fathers, if they were lazy then, im not sure we will be here today, because those meals they cooked as a responsible family women, wanting to take care of their families, are reasons why our dads grew up to be very strong, to study and work, and that is why we are here today.
you will be doing yourself and the future family of your daughters, if you install the cooking culture as a responsibility to them at a young age, but it begins with you.[/b]

Cooking will never ever define me.
why can't my husband know how to cook so that I can have a good feeling too
Don't even use our mothers, because most were stay-at-home mum, full housewives. but now women work and also bring money to the family.

the both of us goes to work and we are both tired, then we have to share the responsibility.


Plus, i said I hate cooking, I didn't say I don't know how to Cook. difference

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]Who is going to cook for your children when you get married?[/color]

YOU

julietcutie, you have to learn how to cook because its what a man would look out for in you

that's serious

A guy was telling me one day that, a girl visited him, he asked her to boil yam and do egg sauce.
She peeled the yam and cut it in a round shape, first mistake.
then the sauce was watery and salty.
he said when she left he never called her again. that he can't marry such a woman.
I was confused, cutting yam in a round has become not knowing how to Cook
sauce was salty, yeah! its a mistake and could happen to anyone
even professional cooks makes such mistakes

I always wonder, are there people in this world who feels joy whenever they are in the kitchen or is just a necessity for us to go into the kitchen?
as for me the latter is the case. oh! how I hate cooking most especially when the whether is hot.

BUT
the question is must a woman know how to cook? must she be that perfect chef, whom people should bite their tongue at the taste of her food?

your answer should be with reasonable reasons

I often heard this phrase that 'another woman will snatch your husband if you don't know how to cook' like uuhhh? Is food the essence of our living?

Shouldn't it be a thing of choice?

My own opinion?
she must not know how to cook
If your wife/girlfriend cannot cook, I don't think its a sin for you to teach her or better still do the cookings yourself.

Remember it very well, never used it though. mum always used it to call my dad

the aprokos of some people is what will take them to hell...

Vinshu:
Lol

So because you sponsored his M.sc means he must get married you?

That lady must be daft

but why the deception of love... you need to think before you talk. what he did is wickedness to the core

if the case was reversed, you would readily insult the girl

some of them are not correct

For him chikili mind now, e don talk better thing ayahh

She said be honest, and the girl was honest

maglorix you do not know how to quote people. you must be a jjc not every comment you reply as well

Evakinqz:
yes she won't... rather she might get younger.

happy living in delusion

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