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Politics › Re: Revitalise Nightlife To Create Jobs, Reduce Crime – Ubani Tells Governors by Afriifa(m): 7:03am On Aug 07, 2025
Night life in Nigeria are for people who don't value their lives to night it.
Politics › Re: Dangote Trucks Spotted In China Distributing Fuel! by Afriifa(m): 3:50am On Aug 04, 2025
If you are petrified by the sight of a Police man when you have done nothing wrong. You should know why Nigeria is hopeless.
Crime › Re: Benue: Armed Herdsmen Reportedly Kill Woman, Son In Rice Farm by Afriifa(m): 10:34am On Aug 03, 2025
This Fulani killings will one day generate a brutal ethnic war. I just pity the Hausa that will be caught in the cross fire. As many people can't distinguish between a Hausa and a Fulani
Christianity Etc › Re: I Have Lost My Zeal For Attending Church by Afriifa(m): 9:04am On Jul 13, 2025
Firstorderwizard:
Back in the days, not attending church for just 1 sunday in a month makes one feel so guilty and incomplete but nowadays, one can stay months without attending church or any church program.
It is even getting more worst as one gets more learned and exposed.
Can I maintain my relationship with God without attending church on Sundays?
Could this affect my faith?if yes, how can I rekindle my zeal for attending church on Sundays?
I think we both suffer the same problem. I think we should connect and see how we can share ideas on how to overcome this.
Christianity Etc › Re: 4 Nigerian Pastors Whose Marriages Crashed by Afriifa(m): 8:51am On Jul 13, 2025
it goes to tell you that marriage is not a do or die affair.. whoever invented the vows, till death do us apart.. failed to stipulate the healthy conditions that must be met for the vow to take effect.. how can U say in sickness and in health? I SHOULD REMAIN MARRIED TO YOU EVEN WHEN YOU WENT AND DID DIRTY AND CATCH A DISEASE?
Romance › Re: Customer SNAPS At Popeyes Workers For Calling His Wife "Beautiful" (Photos/Video by Afriifa(m): 8:29am On Jul 08, 2025
Glimpsetv:
I once witnessed a similar scenario at a popular mall. The guy in charge of the shawarma section was telling a woman, “Ah, madam, you are so beautiful. I like your this and that...” Meanwhile, her husband was standing right behind us.

I was beside the woman, waiting to place my order. It felt kind of funny to me, and a lot of thoughts started running through my mind — especially because he was whispering it.

I got my order first and left. I don't know if the husband heard or reacted, but honestly, I felt it was kinda creepy.

People should learn to keep quiet sometimes, especially when a lady is with her man.
You may mean no harm, but the guy might see it as you trying to flirt with his woman. People think differently, and levels of maturity vary.
You compliment a woman through her man if the man is there. Sir you made a beautiful pick of a wife. Sir you got great taste for beauty. In that way you compliment the woman while acknowledging the man.. I have applied it several times and it worked fine.
Politics › Re: Shettima Opens Car Door For Brazil VP Geraldo Alckmin (video) by Afriifa(m):
we call it courtesy, which is what most people especially Nigerians, lack
Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar Is Not A Leader - TonyeBarcanista by Afriifa(m): 9:02am On Jul 04, 2025
Tonye my guy! It is like hundred years already when last I heard from you. A nice piece of work. Should we be expecting more reactions from you on the ciliation?
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Will Never Be Allowed To Have A Nuclear Weapon - G7 Leaders by Afriifa(m): 8:53am On Jun 17, 2025
No sane nation will support Iran having a nuke
Romance › Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage, This Is Why I Want To End It by Afriifa(m): 11:08pm On May 25, 2025
Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this account).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they supported me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't support me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life
If these above are 70% true, I urge you to consider separation. Like a year to figure things out.
Christianity Etc › Re: Once You Discover That You Can't Submit To A Man, Don’t Marry - Abel Damina(vid) by Afriifa(m): 2:57pm On May 24, 2025
True
Jokes Etc › Re: People Who Respond With Memes. by Afriifa(m): 4:17pm On May 21, 2025
And they revealed their immaturity and disguise it as cruise.
Education › Re: Who Is The Person That Coined The Word "Naija" From Nigeria? by Afriifa(m): 11:24am On May 20, 2025
chigoziri2403:
It's from the Etisalat advert
0809ja for life
I presume
lol
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ben Of Ben & Jerry’s Is Arrested At Senate Hearing After Protesting War In Gaza by Afriifa(m): 11:16am On May 20, 2025
He should have done same for the Israeli victims on October.
Education › Re: Budget Breakdown: How Nigerians Spend ₦100,000 Monthly by Afriifa(m): 5:57pm On May 13, 2025
Electricity 5K? Prepaid meter with only fan in your room sef will not last you two weeks with 5k
Crime › Re: Big Guy Nabbed After Stealing Iphone 14 Pro Max From Owner In Abuja (Photos) by Afriifa(m): 5:14pm On May 12, 2025
Fake big boys
Politics › Re: EFCC To Question Tompolo Over Alleged Naira Abuse by Afriifa(m): 4:04pm On May 12, 2025
babel123:
Trouble d sleep, iyanga go wake am
Nobi better trouble
Politics › Re: EFCC To Question Tompolo Over Alleged Naira Abuse by Afriifa(m): 4:04pm On May 12, 2025
acsol:
Lol this one's are not serious with life
At all
Politics › Re: EFCC To Question Tompolo Over Alleged Naira Abuse by Afriifa(m): 4:03pm On May 12, 2025
udemzyudex:
Lol.. Go arrest tompolo.
The fit?
Politics › Re: EFCC To Question Tompolo Over Alleged Naira Abuse by Afriifa(m): 4:02pm On May 12, 2025
cassidy1996:
Story
big story
Politics › Re: EFCC To Question Tompolo Over Alleged Naira Abuse by Afriifa(m): 4:02pm On May 12, 2025
wasted comment
Crime › Re: Here Is Tompolo Mutilating The Naira Efcc Wont See This by Afriifa(m): 4:01pm On May 12, 2025
Nothing will happen
Politics › Re: EFCC Declares Ex-militant Leader Tompolo Wanted Over Naira Abuse by Afriifa(m): 3:59pm On May 12, 2025
Amayanabo01:
Una wan arrest person wey Akpabio dey be to? Efcc chairman no like him job again
Seriously
Politics › Re: EFCC Declares Ex-militant Leader Tompolo Wanted Over Naira Abuse by Afriifa(m): 3:59pm On May 12, 2025
Nothing will happen
Politics › Re: EFCC Arrest Tompolo For Naira Abuse, by Afriifa(m): 3:58pm On May 12, 2025
Amayanabo01:
Which EFCC personnel go cross high sea to arrest a deity
E reach to ask oo..
Politics › Re: EFCC Arrest Tompolo For Naira Abuse, by Afriifa(m): 3:58pm On May 12, 2025
Arrest who? Mtcheew.
Them nogo even seeam
Politics › Re: How The Political Parties Stand In The House Of Representative by Afriifa(m): 2:34pm On May 08, 2025
All the same
Crime › Re: Video Of Police Raid In FCT by Afriifa(m): 1:53pm On May 05, 2025
They look like criminals themselves
Music/Radio › Re: ‘what Is Akon Saying?’ Nigerians Slam Singer For Claiming Creation Of Afrobeats by Afriifa(m): 3:43pm On May 03, 2025
alimiadedayo1:
oga let us give akon the flowers, he actually promoted Afro beat in USA.. WIzkid was only known in Africa, it wa Akon that pushed Wizkid in USA, When the Nigerian Artist featured him, that is how they are well known in USA.. Internet dont forget.Akon actually promoted afro beat in USA
Don't mind them. From P'squee chop my money to Onyinye Remix. Akon did a lot.
Politics › Re: El-Rufai, SDP Presidential Candidate Visit Aregbesola In Lagos by Afriifa(m): 6:03pm On Apr 27, 2025
On a careful note, Master's comments were built on the notion that the Arewa (Northern) guys are planning to disrupt Tinubu's 8 Years.
Hence his second comment " Tinubu should be allowed to do his 8 years just as Buhari did 8 in order to avoid problems". His call on the Niger Deltans and south to support TInubu is simple call to the southerners that there should be no vacancy for a northerner 2027.😁😁.
Master Tompolo is not forcing anyone to support TInubu. He is simply calling on southerners to stand with a southern president and wade off any threat from the north. is dat wat is vexing U? chilax even me no like TInubu but if the north think they can disrupt his eight years with a northern candidate, even my vote go shock them.

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