₦airaland Forum

seanwilliam:
is your lady on nairaland before? If not, you've made the greatest mistake by doing that

bukatyne:
There is a difference between male friends or buddies and male besties. The post talked of male besties.

And I tell you that even after you pick someone with same values (the template) you will still tweak once in a while. Humans change, nobody is static.

Doubra1:
Burutu..... Are you Blogger?

Doubra1:
Yes Yes ...Afriifa

Doubra1:
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xendra:
they are all average (worthless and poor mentality)

xendra:
this thing affect everyone and everyone deserves to be compensated but because of the selfishness/greediness of our leaders we are turning away by saying; ok, give to the poor among us so they have something, yet they can't

Dedetwo:
Where was this useless entity called "Niger Delta Ijaw Development and Response Assembly" when Ijo sons who were appointed to lead the entity embezzled almost every kobo sent to the NDDC? The only things "Creating bad blood and unnecessary ethnic enmity amongst the staff in the Commission" are the foolish insinuation and arrogation of err of personality by the Ijo in the commission. In fact, most of the ijo peeps have stark ignorant knowledge of what constitutes Niger Delta. This is type of nuisance a society encounters when goons have poor knowledge of their environment.

Officer4:
Letter to the SPEAKER (number 4 citizen)....written by the Chief of Staff ...


On behalf of the PRESIDENT....


I AM VERY CONFUSED

when did chief of staff start operating on that level of governance?

So where is Mr President?

kestolove95:
Handsome guys are not good in bed

Riele:
SMH ! . Trash ! .

Because the post no longer exist doesn't mean it didn't exist .

Whatever derogatory remark I attract doesn't in any way bother me .

Continue enjoying your life , I didn't ask for your life's update .

Afriifa . His first moniker was profview . Search for it and find your proof .

Riele:
Go back to the beginning of this post . You'll read the part where he said his other post was banned . I read it before it was banned . He made mention of her sleeping with his friends when they weren't dating kiddo .

Riele:
Young boy , read his initial post , he stated that she slept with his friends when they weren't dating .

Riele:
They weren't dating then Oga ! . When they were not dating , he too slept with other women .

Riele:
Hahaha . Taking it personal ? . Nope I'm not . I'm only replying my mention .
And I'm not the lady .

Riele:
She didn't cheat . They were not in a relationship as at then .

Riele:
He can give birth to my type but he hasn't not in years to come .

He isn't God and doesn't possess any powers , what makes you think I can't talk to him in the same manner ? .

Again . Shut up !

ProfDview1:
U r even judging me base on her own post.

Ladies always defend their own even when it's wrong.. I am not surprised at all

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ProfDview1:
Lemme make it clear.. 2 were my ex and they offered to come pay respect to m dead father..shud I av said no?

She begged me in the name of seeking comfort... Slept with my frnd but w av gone too long, just forgave her like I use too, so many times... don't waste your time explaining to them. you're vindicated.

Riele:
She slept with your friends when you guys had issue ? . Hmm . Did you or did you not invite 3 different girls to your father' burial ? .
Is it also true that you're serial womanizer ? .

She's pressuring a 40 year old man to get married and you're not happy about it ? .

Your mates have children in secondary schools Oga ! .

She have slept with one of your friends but you still went back to the relationship . Why ? .

Vortex369:
@ Girlwhocares

I really am worried how people babysit you on this forum when all you need to learn on how to make your marriage works lie in more than a Gospel Truth.

Here comes my 'more than Gospel Truth' and you deserve it:

You think too highly of yourself, you believe the world revolves around your own happiness. It is silly of you to conjure up this image of your type of man. It is a world of fantasy and smart people know it is nothing but fantasy.

You believe in your heart that he is not your type, and you keep fantasizing about your type in such a manner that you are ready to go down on sex with boys who can not clean the floor that your husband walks, because because they are your type. Those boys you sleep with do not have to do anything to make you like them. You just foolishly like them, cos they are your type. It is not shameful, it is a worrisome case of mentality so disordered by expectation of what should have been that you have lost touch with what is.

I want to repeat that line;

You have lost touch with what is, while your mind is fixated on the framework of what should have been - a fantasy image built on a particular structure of the body and lifestyle that you have totally forgotten that you are married. You are ready to behave single and lie about your marital status and diet to look for ever young because you live in denial. You are hoping someday you will be with your type for ever. A silly fantasy that dies when you realize that you may not be the type of lady for your type of man. When you meet your type of man, are you really his type of woman? mostly no, so the table turns, and you begin to face the Karma you put your husband through. Because obviously, he is also a slave of your type of woman.

Do you want my advise?

No, you have already made up your mind and it is fixated on the frame work of 'your type of man'. But what will give that mind set a hard reset is called 'Disappointment and Heartbreak and Insult' from exposure to the world out there, where there is no protection, no mercy, and definately no loving man who loves you sheepishly and foolishly than the man you have.

He is suffering and too ashamed to tell people how much his own wife hates him and he is helpless because he has not made up his mind.

The day he decides to mix up and share his suffering. He will be liberated, he just does not know what great life he is missing on an account of a mentally deranged woman who is suffering from chronic bipolar disorder engineered by thoughts of what could have been as opposed to what is.

You are not a married woman, because you are obviously in denial. But remember, some day, you will grow old, and lack the love you failed to give to someone who loves you. The Universe is savvy. We programmed it with a reward mechanism.

Solution:
1. Meditation - Stop inputs from all 5 sense organs and be left with your Thoughts alone for 1hr each day.
Watch your thoughts go through the memories and projections of your mind and delete the disgusts you feel for your husband and replace hem with what you love about him, cos you will find that your thoughts are mostly negative. No one can do this for you. This is epigenetics.

2. You are not your thoughts, start using the reticular activating system to replace your 'type of man' image with your husband's image during visualization and contemplation and the fabric of your universe will output that within 30 days of the exercise.

3. Invite your dream master every night to show you the progress on your simulated visualization through dreams and recommend steps to open up your heart chakra for unconditional love for all lives including most importantly your husband.

4. Surrender to the Pilot of your Avatar and seek realignment of your Soul within your husband soul group if you want to be with him.

OR Simply walk away and leave that innocent man to a new girl who will love him unconditionally.

I do not like people like you. So, do not thank me. But if you need my assistance, I can guide you out of your valley of darkness.