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Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Nobody: 7:14am On Apr 06, 2020 |
Romanoff:Generally, I avoid anyone who thinks it's relatively cool to have a bestie of the opposite sex whilst having a boyfriend /girlfriend /fiance(e) or spouse. I'd rather watch to see how successful such a relationship is /will be. Because in relationships so many people talk, but very few people are very successful at it. 5 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Shugavee(f): 7:16am On Apr 06, 2020 |
bukatyne:u speak base on ur asumptions , hv u had a male bestie b4 ? Nah definitely not. Stop telling people how to live their life , life is too short for all these fucjed up rules up n down ,,, why will I not hv a male bestie when he makes me happy as a friend,,,because u think I hv had sex with him ?, so I should live my life base on what u think ? When u hvnt even lived life enough? Not like ur life is perfect! Take a sit, u won’t stop anyone from hving a male bestie if they wanna . N that won’t stop them from hving a man or getting married . Not like marriage is any achievement!! But base on it’s the only thing u think in ur life . I will conclude on that note .. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Shugavee(f): 7:18am On Apr 06, 2020 |
Romanoff:well said 1 Like |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Nobody: 7:21am On Apr 06, 2020 |
bukatyne:Hanty, you're not a newcomer on this forum. Once I saw your moniker, I became interested You've said it all actually. This is what distinguished the relationship of our parents from ours the reason many are failing and falling. Change is painful, that's why many hide under "if you love me, accept me the way I am" but then end up biting their fingers in the secret. Whoever loves you will accept the things that CAN'T be changed about you, and will also work on the things that can, to leave you better than when you first met them. Never mind these Disney themed ladies who think love is a fantasy. You are dragging boyfriend and dragging male bestfriend. Lol. You've said it all. 7 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Romanoff(f): 7:47am On Apr 06, 2020 |
Chi59: Haven't you you heard of besties of the same sex who are sexually involved? You do know that over time, priorities change, right? I mean marriage makes people busy. Even besties of the same sex don't have the kind of time they do to hang out once one or both are married. I just tire for this perverse world. 3 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Nobody: 7:50am On Apr 06, 2020 |
Romanoff:It's not the issue of perverse world. I'd like to know, "how is your relationship faring?" 1 Like |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Romanoff(f): 7:53am On Apr 06, 2020 |
Chi59: I'll be getting married in a few weeks. 2 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Nobody: 8:00am On Apr 06, 2020 |
Romanoff:OK. When you do get married, I'd like to know probably in a year's time if you still hold to your conviction. God will keep us till then. 3 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Romanoff(f): 8:16am On Apr 06, 2020 |
Chi59: Amin, l'oruko Jesu. 2 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by seanwilliam(m): 8:30am On Apr 06, 2020 |
Afriifa:is your lady on nairaland before? If not, you've made the greatest mistake by doing that |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Afriifa(m): 10:01am On Apr 06, 2020 |
seanwilliam:greatest mistake in your own sense. Let's see about that. |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:21am On Apr 06, 2020 |
Paxie55:My belle oo This one off me 4 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Nobody: 12:31pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Newmanluckyman:Wao... I'm flattered. |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by pryme(m): 1:07pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Romanoff: if the one you want to setle with is not your best friend, then it will be hard for you to remain faithful when your relationship goes through hard times, cos you will only confide in your bestie, if he is a male it will only be a matter of time before you become very comfortable and alive around him, next sex comes naturally. CHI59 is way ahead of you about this. if your future partner is not your best friend, do him a favor - QUIT. 2 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Romanoff(f): 3:15pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
pryme: He's my best friend. 1 Like |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Shugavee(f): 3:19pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
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Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Nobody: 3:25pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
pryme:Unku, i'm not claiming to be ahead of anyone. I just hold to a school of thought that reasons that it's impractical to be in a romantic relationship and at the same time have an intimate platonic friendship with someone of the opposite sex, who isn't your boyfriend or girlfriend. |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Magnoliaa(f): 3:31pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Designerdollars: This is why women should 'own their sexuality.' There's nothing wrong with this as long as it's what the lady wants in return. But she wants commitment, and she's trying to use sex to get that... ?? They place marriage above everything. The end of all... and any means to achieve that... |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 3:34pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Kekereekun123: Hoodwink? If people have stable homes, they would be more creative and productive to do that which they have to do. |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 3:36pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
aytuns: When I was 18. |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 3:36pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: Thanks |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 3:37pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Don't mind them joor. I have moved on. |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 3:40pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Magnoliaa(f): 3:40pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
bukatyne: I think they'll find it though. And 'take' it in. The type of young ladies you're talking about. Because they are inclined towards a path, then they'll come across things linked to the same path... Someone who wants to be a doctor will gravitate towards things that'll aid that desire... |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 3:44pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Shugavee: Why do I keep getting 'like my life is perfect' upandan? Have I ever mentioned that my life is perfect? Or are my threads an indication of a perfect life? If your male bestie makes you 'happy', what do you need a boyfriend for? 1 Like |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by crackkhaus: 3:44pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 3:45pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Chi59: @bold: Very true. Thank you for considering my moniker as one to learn from. I hope the thread impacted something in you. All the best. 3 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 3:48pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Magnoliaa: You know, This wokeness and 'freedom' will break much more people. If someone told the girl to be sure of the guy before committing or signs of guys who are serious, she will laugh it off. 3 Likes |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 3:49pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Magnoliaa: I pray so. |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by bukatyne(f): 3:49pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Gracias. 1 Like |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Magnoliaa(f): 3:50pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
lefulefu: Exactly. Nothing beats sharing your problems and frustrations with the person you're dating. If the sex is not satisfying, you tell him - because you have no one else. If you're not comfortable with a thing, you go to him/her and sort it out. In the best, happy times, you share it together. And in low moments too, he knows about it. Complete transparency. |
Re: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by Magnoliaa(f): 4:14pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
bukatyne: That's... for those who do it because it's trendy, what others are doing. To join the bandwagon. There is a true liberation. But at the same time, I agree with you, as there are so many things out there that gives an illusion of freedom. If someone told the girl to be sure of the guy before committing or signs of guys who are serious, she will laugh it off. Lol. Maybe hoping hers will be different. Or the guy will be different for her. Or things will just fall in place without any effort. She just assume the guy is in for the same thing. Where she got the idea from baffles me. I can't understand it. But what do I know. |
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