Acidosis:


Ignoring her isn't an issue. The above is the issue, right? Your police friend threatened her life?

No at all. I saw their chats. He asked politely

sisisioge:


Ok then...aunty being irrational then. It showed that you sent it and got debited...if she didn't receive then she should contact her bank. Simple! It is well jare...move on and take a learning from this. Money issue is always dicey in relationships.

Na true sha

Jim99:
Just move on guy. Nothing spoil. e fit happen to anybody, she no serious

Thanks man. I will do that. She dey madd

sisisioge:


Before you ghosted her? See, you guys would have been each fighting with your banks instead of each other if you indeed shared it with her before ignoring her calls.

I swear I shared it with her

Humanoid01:

Boss, as the matter dey, I nor sure say na because of the money they chick dey vex. Na because of the accusation wey them knack am. How you go feel if person tell you say you receive money wey you nor see?

Before God and man I never accused her

Jim99:


Oga u send money, person no receive am nor be ur fault. E dey happen all d time.

U fall hand sha, come dey beg am on top ur own money smh.

You are right sha

sisisioge:


I will be, but my first reaction will be to put the evidence in her face. Let her refute or confirm it. I won't just ghost the person.

Is it today that you go to ATM, it will count money without expelling, debit you and even eat your card. You get debited. You may be lucky to get reversal without logging complaint... You may also not get reversal until you complain.

Money has always been a biatch though.

I sent her the statement of account

Jim99:
On top your own money again u dey feel sad. U be mumu

Who told you I didn't send it? I sent everything and she said she will get her out statement of account

Jim99:
On top your own money again u dey feel sad. U be mumu

Hmmm

sisisioge:


I will be, but my first reaction will be to put the evidence on her face. Let her refute or confirm it. I won't just ghost the person.

Is it today that you go to ATM, it will count money without expelling, debit you and even eat your card. You get debited. You may be lucky to get reversal without logging complaint... You may also not get reversal until you complain.

Money has always been a biatch though.

Ok ooo. But I was patient with her

TransflectTP:
Don't get yourself confused bro. Move on.

Hmmmm

sisisioge:
You know you could have sent her your account statement for reconciliation purpose instead of ghosting her...a good person would give benefits of doubts airing the matter instead of bottling it up. Biko I think she's better off going her way jeje. If you could handle small matter like that, what would you do if something huge hits?

Good luck.

Put yourself in my shoes. How would you feel if they told you at the bank the person you sent money to has received it and is only playing pranks won't you be madd. Mstcheew

Renida:
Women like men looking stupeed. Don't give up. Look for her friends or families and speak to them. Do not speak to her directly, it won't work. Plus give her two weeks or more to re-elect like 4 weeks.


Next time separate money from early days of relationships

Thanks

I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.