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Romance / Re: My Issue With My Gf Having A "best Friend". by aggie18(m): 4:15am On Oct 13, 2011
@ SexKillz or whatever. All right, you are 100% right. Good for you. You can obviously analyze people's problems and tell them the solution in a rude way. But hey it's life right?? So i'm 18 year old ignorant teen. Hey at least i'm admitting it. I have a lot of growing up to do obviously. Sometimes it's better for someone to point out your weaknesses which you have done in a good manner except for the insults and that other unnecessary stuff.
But do you ever analyze your self for once?? Just think about it. Yeah I'm pretty sure your going to reply to this with a smart ass remark but at least consider the thought before you judge and put someone else down. Remember we are all human. Again i'm just a stupid young adult telling you this. Take how you want it.
Other than that, Good JOB on pointing out my weaknesses. It really helps me out. (:
Romance / Re: My Issue With My Gf Having A "best Friend". by aggie18(m): 9:49pm On Oct 12, 2011
Thanks for the response. I agree. I mean if i was with her for 3 months or something and that happened i would have left her. But i have been with this girl for a year and a half. And I know that's nothing. We still have way more time ahead of us. I'll be more serious if we are together for three years or something. But right now i'll just let her gain her trust back and see if she really "loves" me like she promises me.
Romance / Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by aggie18(m): 9:45pm On Oct 12, 2011
Why is it okay for woman to have a guy "best-friend"?? But when men have girl best friend it's considered cheating. What the hell??
YES. It should be alright as long as they have lines.
Romance / Re: I'm Jealous About My Girlfriend's Guy Friendship. by aggie18(m): 9:41pm On Oct 12, 2011
Lmao smiley
Romance / My Issue With My Gf Having A "best Friend". by aggie18(m): 9:32pm On Oct 12, 2011
Romance / Re: I'm Jealous About My Girlfriend's Guy Friendship. by aggie18(m): 9:20pm On Oct 12, 2011
Yeah I had a similar issue with my gf. She has a guy best friend who she knew longer than me. Yes, i knew this before i dated her but it didn't really hit me till over time. The fact that she was talking to another guy, got to me. But I knew myself, I was just jealous. So It bothered me but I kept it to myself. Till, One day my gf was at a college trip and wanted me to attend this event that was happening at the trip with her. I didn't know the location or directions so she told me to look into her e-mail to find the directions. She actually gave me her email and password. So i went in there to do what i had to do. I'm not going to lie, I took the advantage to view her other e-mails. What did i find E-mails from her guy best friend and her calling each other "hun", and she was telling him all of our problems in the relationship. I was pissed off. I called her back calmly and asked her about the e-mails i had found. She was angry because I looked at them. But i told her, I thought I would of trusted you anyways from doing this kind of crap to me. She was bummed a little while after that. First thought was to break up from her quick. But then she promised me she wouldn't do anything like that again. So i believed her and told her that if something like happened again, I'm through. Ever since then I didn't like her best friend considering he was like that. Also he called her "baby", right in front of me. I was about to beat the shit out of him. But my girl friend got mad at him and left so i followed her. idk what had happened between those two but i do know I have a hard time trusting her again like i did before. First I was just jealous, but now i have a reason to not accept that ass in our relationship. Recently she has told me that he apologized to her for not being there for her. She told me that she talked to him telling him that she just wants to be friends and that he will have to respect me. It's hard cause i'm a freshman in college and she's a junior in high school. I know it might sound wrong but we've known each other for a long time. But I learn to trust her again, and that reality exists. So it's up to you man. By the sounds of it she doesn't at least tell u that she'll try to be more caring towards you. So move on and find a girl who cares for you and loves you for who u are. Remember, if there is no trust, than there is nothing.

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