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Taal17:
So I would disagree.
Nothing wrong with using your sister's eggs.
It's very different from your sister being the surrogate .

If your sister is willing please do so.
I'm sure you can find a hospital that would allow you bring your own donor for egg donation.
Besides you can use both your eggs and your sisters if you prefer.

There are many advantages of using eggs from the family tree. Medical and genetic history that you know off is a strong one for me.

Personally if my sister had need to would have done it for her and she me. I'd be a super aunty that's all lol

Thanks for your input. More than 3 hospitals I contacted said they don't accept family donor. So I'm beginning to think it's a Nigerian law/policy thing..

Whytehandy:
Please listen to the above advise.

Don't use a donor you know, especially a very close blood relative (your wife's sister) due to emotional attachment.

You know technically, the child born through her egg donation is her child right . Please be wise and avoid future problems.

Okay, thanks for your advice. We were just thinking of having children that have our traits. Not having a child that might end up not looking like us both academically,physically and morally. But at this junction guess we just have to take what fate has in store for us.

Peachesarewhite:
I would not advice you use a donor you know though. Hospitals provide donor service at a fee. If in Lagos Androcare, they are good. Abuja- Primecare have good reviews too.

And why is that ?. Although have contacted Primecare and the hospital told me they don't accept me bringing my own donor. Even when I told them I will provide all legal documents need. The hospital told me point blank it's against their policy and didn't give me any reason.

I don't know how to begin my conversation. We're both 35yrs old and we've been married for 6years now. And ever since we got married we've been trying to conceive. But guess God is still saying the time is not right yet. We tried IVF Jan/Feb but it failed cos the hospital said our eggs began to fertilize after some hours then failed. After a followup consultation with the gynecologist , she suggested we try getting egg from a donor. She suggested we buy eggs from any voluntary donor. When we explained our situation to my wife's sister, she was willing to give us as many eggs as we want. Considering the fact that she has 3kids already and is not planning on having more anytime soon.
Have tried checking Google reviews of some fertility hospital in nigeria. But it just seems like I'm going in circles. Thats why I'm thinking of the good people of nairaland will be kind enough to point me to a reputable hospital in nigeria with a reasonable cost.

goldtosure:
https://www.nairaland.com/773873/anyone-trying-ivf-iui-icsi is the best place to get answer to this question. I also suggest you read through the thread thoroughly, you may get insight on the process asides choice of hospital. I wish you success!

Thanks a lot. I really appreciate it.

Rega99:
Simce it has resorted to ivf and you mentioned waiting for 6 years i want to believe you have both gone to the moon and back on the necessary trials and medical tests and procedures before agreeing to ivf. If you are in Abuja find your way to Nisa premier hospital.

Okay, I will take a note of that. Would like to ask if you've had an experience with them or what made you suggest them. Thanks a lot.

Nowayback10:
Reply to my email lets talk on call.

Can you send your email address. Thank you

I don't know how to begin my conversation. We're both 35yrs old and we've been married for 6years now. And ever since we got married we've been trying to conceive. But guess God is still saying the time is not right yet. We tried IVF Jan/Feb but it failed cos the hospital said our eggs began to fertilize after some hours then failed. After a followup consultation with the gynecologist , she suggested we try getting egg from a donor. She suggested we buy eggs from any voluntary donor. When we explained our situation to my wife's sister, she was willing to give us as many eggs as we want. Considering the fact that she has 3kids already and is not planning on having more anytime soon.
Have tried checking Google reviews of some fertility hospital in nigeria. But it just seems like I'm going in circles. Thats why I'm thinking of the good people of nairaland will be kind enough to point me to a reputable hospital in nigeria with a reasonable cost.

I don't know how to begin my conversation. We're both 35yrs old and we've been married for 6years now. And ever since we got married we've been trying to conceive. But guess God is still saying the time is not right yet. We tried IVF Jan/Feb but it failed cos the hospital said our eggs began to fertilize after some hours then failed. After a followup consultation with the gynecologist , she suggested we try getting egg from a donor. She suggested we buy eggs from any voluntary donor. When we explained our situation to my wife's sister, she was willing to give us as many eggs as we want. Considering the fact that she has 3kids already and is not planning on having more anytime soon.
Have tried checking Google reviews of some fertility hospital in nigeria. But it just seems like I'm going in circles. Thats why I'm thinking of the good people of nairaland will be kind enough to point me to a reputable hospital in nigeria with a reasonable cost.

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Do you own a private hospital and can help package some documents at a fee?. Drop your contact

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lanresz:
Ednut has answered your question. Once you understand the way the business is run, you can start your own company.

Thanks a lot sir ... Guess I'll just take things a step at a time.

ednut1:
get the full driving licence, buy a mini van or van of like 5k to 15k cash or apply for loan. Register with amazon, uber, postage people, and others companies looking for drivers. Do it for about 6 months to a year to learn the ropes and build contacts. After that you can go set up your own company while combining with guys listed too. You can go into trucking too,working for someone or doing owner operators.

Thanks chief... I'm very grateful sir. I'll work with the information you've just provided sir

Treadway:
Ednut1 may be able to help with that. I am not in Canada. Cheers!

Oh okay sir

1stGenAmerican:
Extensive research and a detailed business plan are absolutely necessary.
I’m in the US, not Canada however licenses, permits, a business plan, insurance, and other start-up costs may take up a sizable portion of $10,000. You’ll find useful information and links to everything else you need to know here
https://www.entrepreneur.com/en-za/starting-a-business/7-steps-to-starting-a-transport-and-logistics-business/335794

The Canadian government websites will let you know the cost of licenses, permits, and the processes involved.

Thanks for the information sir . Gracias

Have been thinking aloud lately... I don't know if it's possible or the right approach to take. Is it possible to start a logistics business in Canada. Don't know if $10,000-$20,000 will start a mini logistics business. I'm thinking of going into business while my wife pursue her nursing dreams. I'll appreciate your opinion
Ednut1,1stGenAmerican,Lanresz,Treadway

jesmond3945:
yes let your wife do nursing she would get a job. Whilst doing your Msc course please get web development skills or software development skills or devops skills. Employers care about skills and not degree.

Okay sir... Thanks for the headup sir

jesmond3945:
My brother other IT areas have been taken over by Indians , Ukrainians and south Americans. Let nobody deceive you. If you are not doing nursing or health then you must be do programming to get a chance

My msc course is IT related to health sir. Besides my wife intends starting bsc nursing when we relocate sir.

ednut1:
usa no way for you except student visa.

Canada age is against you already for the main stream plus your wife doesn’t have work experience . You may qualify for province nomination if any of them needs your occupation . You have to read and research the link and from YouTube too
https://www.nairaland.com/6829885/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled

Australia u also have to research if any state needs your occupation. Nothing like max i these journey. Canada took some people 2 years to get their application finalised. https://www.nairaland.com/4478747/diy-guide-australian-permanent-resident

If you no qualify then student visa things

Sorry to bother you sir... Have Seen two universities that offer a course I might want to go for my MSc sir. This two are cheap from my own point of view sir . Namely, University of Waterloo & Dalhousie University sir. Is it still feasible for me to start the application process as I'm 32yr old already. I tried checking on Google and I can't find any age restriction for msc in Canada sir.

Lastbornbuns:
There's nothing to be scared of in maths. Work on improving your skills and you'll be fine. There are also non IT roles in demand in canada. You'd have to do your research. Or you/your wife can switch to nursing if you like. I'm sure there's no country that'd reject nurses.

Okay sir... Yeah, she nurtures the dream of been a nurse someday. But I intend having more then enough funds to Carter for our needs and her schooling anywhere we decide t o relocate to.

ednut1:
usa no way for you except student visa.

Canada age is against you already for the main stream plus your wife doesn’t have work experience . You may qualify for province nomination if any of them needs your occupation . You have to read and research the link and from YouTube too
https://www.nairaland.com/6829885/canadian-express-entry-federal-skilled

Australia u also have to research if any state needs your occupation. Nothing like max i these journey. Canada took some people 2 years to get their application finalised. https://www.nairaland.com/4478747/diy-guide-australian-permanent-resident

If you no qualify then student visa things

Thanks for the links sir... Guess I'll just settle for Canada then. And crush the idea of leaving sooner . I appreciate sir

Lastbornbuns:
If you/your wife are willing to learn French (to boost your scores) you could try express entry. Though I don't know how your HBP could affect things. Or try Canada study visa. Your wife could apply for an undergraduate program in canada. If she's in year 2, I think she can transfer (not all unis will accept).
Canada is the most cost effective (and best option imo) for studying. Even cheaper if you go as a PR. Though EE takes a lot of time nowadays. The earlier the better. Start learning a relevant tech skill (data science, software engineering/development, Web development, cloud engineering etc) since you already have the educational background. You can decide to do a diploma/certificate or even a masters to help you transition well. It's best and way easier to make the move before kids come.

You could try France but the process isn't as straightforward as Canada's

Good luck

Okay sir... Though have got a poor maths background and have phobia for programming. I'm searching to see IT skills that are in demand in Canada that doesn't involve my weak areas. Thanks a lot for your input sir. I appreciate sir

ednut1:
with this profile. Its student visa things. Look for a country that allows stay or is easy to stay after studying

Student route seems to be the only way out. Don't know how Canada, Australia and US immigration thing works. Cos I'm hoping of moving by next year Max (September).

justwise:
There is nothing like spouse visa when you are not married to a foreigner.

Pardon my imprudence sir

I don't know how to explain this. But I'll appreciate inputs and advise from fellow Nairalanders. Have been a guest for a while. I had to open an account so I can post my ordeal. pardon my grammatical blunders.
I'm 32yr old, who resides in the south western part of Nigeria. I'm a graduate of information technology. Though I came out with 2.2 In the university ( This is a story for another, cos all I did in the university was to cram all the calculus and Schrodinger Equations). I'm an entrepreneur, who is into logistics and farming(egg production and fishery).
Got diagnosed with HBP( Early last year, not that I live a reckless lifestyle. Its hereditary). Got married to my best friend couple of months ago(she is an undergraduate who has been home for months , thanks to ASUU).
We're contemplating on moving abroad for the benefits of our unborn kids. And for a better life (Taking into consideration my health condition).
I noticed UK, US and Canada is the most sought after country.
Would like inputs from anyone in the know which country gives Spousal visa(Though I Google this already) but I'll appreciate others opinion.
Which country is easy to migrate to?
I intend starting the process before the years runs out( Cos I don't want to restock another set of birds after selling off my old layers by Dec).
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