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Technology Market / Re: Blackberry Passport by akinola1384(m): 8:44pm On Mar 07, 2017
Available
Technology Market / Re: Blackberry Passport by akinola1384(m): 8:44pm On Mar 07, 2017
jokinexcel:
35k
contact me let talk
Technology Market / Re: Swap And Sell Your Phone In Ipaja,ayobo/alimosho Lagos. by akinola1384(m): 7:22pm On Mar 07, 2017
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Technology Market / Re: Tecno G9 Phantom Tab by akinola1384(m): 7:17pm On Mar 07, 2017
Still available
Technology Market / Re: Blackberry Passport by akinola1384(m): 9:53am On Mar 07, 2017
Ukaivbemiles:
30k
u need to see what u are buying
Technology Market / Re: Blackberry Passport by akinola1384(m): 5:18am On Mar 07, 2017
akinola1384:


Still available
Available
Technology Market / Re: Tecno G9 Phantom Tab by akinola1384(m): 8:25pm On Mar 06, 2017
4X4:
IM OFFERING 14K . ADD ME ON WHATRAPP 09051948827
u need to see what u are buy noooooo
Available

Technology Market / Tecno G9 Phantom Tab by akinola1384(m): 12:49pm On Mar 06, 2017
Tecno G9tab for sale working perfectly noon issue
Still available
Technology Market / Re: Blackberry Passport by akinola1384(m): 11:55am On Mar 06, 2017
akinola1384:
Blackberry passport working perfectly for sale in good condition 50k contact me on 08028250185


Still available
Technology Market / Blackberry Passport by akinola1384(m): 10:39pm On Mar 04, 2017
Blackberry passport working perfectly for sale in good condition 50k contact me on 08028250185

Car Talk / Re: Boulos Launches N4.1m Made-in-nigeria Suzuki by akinola1384(m): 8:13pm On Feb 09, 2017
Nice one good
Autos / Re: (duke)golf3 Gti Automatic And Sharp For 590k by akinola1384(m): 7:50am On Jan 07, 2017
Engine pics
Technology Market / Need This Blackberry Passport Case by akinola1384(m): 8:39am On Sep 10, 2016
Need this blackberry passport case wallet if u av it pls contact me 07066283440

Autos / Re: 2000 Nissan Almera......going For #450K by akinola1384(m): 10:15pm On Jul 04, 2016
ehissi:
This car comes with a fully functional chilling AC, Alloy rims, Fabric interior, power windows gear, legs and shocks all functional and ok. It a car you will love. Fuel consumption is low and it has a 4 plug engine.

Location is Lagos, Maza-Maza to be precise (that's opposite FESTAC first gate)

Contact 08098487344 for enquiries............first inspect, first come, first serve..
more pics
Autos / Re: Volkswagen Golf Forsale Sale N400k by akinola1384(m): 9:21pm On Jul 02, 2016
fuelsaver:
volkswagen golf
4 cylinder
manual Transmission
Factory Ac
Price N400k
Call 08036911968, 07089227818
last price and location
Autos / Re: Renew,replace Your Number Plate, Register Your New Vehicle Fast by akinola1384(m): 12:23pm On May 27, 2016
Hello want to buy car from someone she already using the car, what will be the total cost of the changing of ownership and the registration of new plate number with driver lincence, pls need the total cost before paying for the car, thanks
Technology Market / Re: Can Smart Watch Work With Blackberry Passport by akinola1384(m): 10:18am On Mar 01, 2016
akinola1384:
Good morning guru in the house pls want to know if Smartwatch can work with BlackBerry passport. Thanks
want know before going for the smart watch
Technology Market / Re: Can Smart Watch Work With Blackberry Passport by akinola1384(m): 10:11am On Mar 01, 2016
akinola1384:
Good morning guru in the house pls want to know if Smartwatch can work with BlackBerry passport. Thanks
want know before going for the smart watch
Phones / Cam Smart Watch Work With Blackberry Passport by akinola1384(m): 9:59am On Mar 01, 2016
Good morning guru in the house pls can smart watch work with BlackBerry passport. Thanks
Technology Market / Can Smart Watch Work With Blackberry Passport by akinola1384(m): 9:50am On Mar 01, 2016
Good morning guru in the house pls want to know if Smartwatch can work with BlackBerry passport. Thanks
Autos / Re: Buy Cars from Cotonou without stress and your car(s) will be delivered 48 hours by akinola1384(m): 9:05pm On Feb 21, 2016
I need golf3 auto gear with ac and tapping window central lock
Autos / Re: Good To Go Registered Toyota Corolla 2000 Model#470k by akinola1384(m): 3:50am On Feb 20, 2016
350k
Autos / Re: Honda CBR1000 Superbike For Sale!! by akinola1384(m): 8:07pm On Jan 30, 2016
Ur locarion
Autos / Re: (duke)nissan Premiera Auto And Working A/c For 400k by akinola1384(m): 8:45am On Jan 15, 2016
writegratas:
a/c,auto,neat interior and exterior,sound engine for travelling,non accidented.and more call duke plz call 08182055586,07031329766 preferrably,no texting plz cos wouldnt reply,thank you
. Ur location
Autos / Re: Buy Cars from Cotonou without stress and your car(s) will be delivered 48 hours by akinola1384(m): 3:52pm On Jan 09, 2016
What type car can I get with 500k clean automatic
Romance / Re: 4 Ways To Keep Social Media From Ruining Your Relationship by akinola1384(m): 9:42pm On Jan 04, 2016
Secretario:
“SOCIAL MEDIA HAS RUINED MY RELATIONSHIP!”

That’s the cry of many people today! But my response is this: social media didn’t ruin your relationship he, she, or BOTH of you may have played a part in the ruining of your relationship.

Let’s back up and come to an agreement: social media is here and it probably isn’t going anywhere. So, we have to address this issue head on. It is definitely possible for your relationship and (insert social media type here!) to happily co-exist. Here are 4 ways to keep social media from ruining your relationship:

1) Stop Being “Single” Online but “In a Relationship” in Real Life:


Let’s be honest. For many people, social media is another form of online dating. With that said, people need to know very clearly that you are involved with someone. I get the whole argument, “people don’t need to be in my business.” But, guess what? You made it peoples’ business when you decided to get that account and create a username.

People might not need to know the ins and outs of your relationship. But they should at LEAST know you are married or in a relationship so that the lines don’t get blurred or any false messages are sent out. I can’t tell you the amount of times I hear people complain, “ I didn’t know they were married until it was too late.” (“Too late” usually means feelings have developed).

Social Media and Relationships

It’s your job, as a mate, to make sure it is clear to others that you aren’t open to anyone else and you are spoken for.

Being transparent will hopefully hold people to a higher standard of how they decide to communicate with you. This won’t stop everyone from pursuing you, but you have to care enough about your mate and your relationship to stop certain behavior before it starts. People may message you privately to get a feel for your willingness to be “more than friends” with them. But, this needs to be nipped in the bud by you, and it needs to happen immediately!

2) Don’t Believe Your Own Hype

You know, sometimes social media is a platform for people to subliminally tell you everything you want to hear. Between “likes,” “winks,” “pokes” and private messages, people will woo you all day and, naturally, you’ll start to like it. Suddenly, you may find yourself flattered because your Facebook “friends” may be showing you the attention that your partner hasn’t been showing you. It’s at this point that you must CHECK yourself!

Social Media and Relationships

This means it’s time to start communicating your needs to your partner instead of falling into the Facebook trap of that ex from back in the day, or that person you always had a crush on in college. You can’t glorify an Internet relationship over your “real-life” relationship and you can’t hold them to the same standard. So often, I see how the “harmless flirting” online turns into lunch in-person, and then into an affair that leads to a divorce or a break-up. The person online has probably pulled the same trick with their other 100 friends or followers. So, get back into communicating with your mate.

3) Stop It with the Sneaky Stuff

I’m not saying that your mate needs to know all of your passwords to everything. But, I am saying it will look very suspicious and make them very uncomfortable if you are uncomfortable with them seeing your pages or interactions. If you are uneasy every time they come around or if you close out of your pages when your mate enters the room or takes a look over your shoulder, then something isn’t right. If you are sweating bullets because you left your page up and your spouse is the next person on the computer, then you will look GUILTY!

Social Media and Relationships

When you are able to be completely open, your mate will feel more comfortable about you and your relationship with social media. This is not to say they don’t trust you, but it is to say that everyone has some level of curiosity and hiding things only makes for unnecessary tension and concern. Additionally, when you are open, you think twice about the things, whether innocent or not, that could be misinterpreted or seen as disrespectful. It makes you more cognizant and also you gain a level of peace in your relationship.

4) You Must Have Some Limitations

I’ll admit it. I’ve been guilty at times of being so engulfed in social media for my business that I forget that my wife, at home, needs the same kind of attention. Social media is so accessible we don’t realize the amount of time we spend on it. Furthermore, we don’t see how much it bothers our mates to have to compete with it.

Social Media and Relationships

Place some limitations on yourself. For instance, after a certain time, you unplug. No electronics during dinner or during dates. Whatever you have to do, try to do it so your mate knows he or she is most important to you in the time you all spend together instead of the online friends we spend so much time keeping up with. It may take some self-reflection and some strategic planning (especially if you use it for business), but it will be worth it for you and your relationship.

Remember, your mate wants nothing more than to be able to trust you 100%, even beyond the screens of social media and the Internet. Remember that when those cyber friends are gone, your mate is the one who is actually going to be there in person, where it matters most. Don’t allow social media to ruin your relationship.

Secretario
. I just divorce my wife with kids. because of this dating another man her long time boy friend send romantic message to each other.
Autos / Re: TOKS 1997 Model GOLF 3 VOLKWAGEN For Sale...... by akinola1384(m): 8:03am On Dec 21, 2015
[quote author=bjmotors13 post=41180311][/quote] ur price pls
Autos / Re: TOKS 1997 Model GOLF 3 VOLKWAGEN For Sale...... by akinola1384(m): 8:03am On Dec 21, 2015
[quote author=bjmotors13 post=41180311][/quote] ur pricepls
Business / Re: I Want To Go Into Keke Napep Business, Please I Need Some Guidelines by akinola1384(m): 9:13pm On Dec 17, 2015
mrsage:


Pictures and contact details will help
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