₦airaland Forum

Mbanda:
So, Kenneth okonkwo is now una new found love

lebete3000:
That light issue no fit happen bro. Kindly forget am and have peace man.

DatNiggaDaz:


You want a Nationalistic representation and you are mentioning Adire and Ankara.

That is thesame thing they did when the Speedy man from USA came to Nigeria and they wanted to give him a parapo Name and he ran away from the Lagoon

Adire and Ankara should never even be a Suggestion. Why do these people from the SW likes to paraporize anything that does not belong to them ?

Leave the NYSC uniform the way it is. Nothing can be more National than that. Anything you people touch, you set ablaze destr*ying

Toscarel:
You wouldnt understnd, let tinubu come and debate with obi.

BestSense:
you really want to debate with Obi, that man brain carry data and statistics wey even dem wright for paper for you, you no fit read, but that man didn't just go to bad portion to snap picture oo. He mentioned about 5-7 dufferent roads that are in bad shape oo.

Toscarel:
Umahi is a clown, he should pick up a presidential ticket if he is serious ....

Pootle:
aba is not lagos, the energy consumed in apapa industrial estate alone will sustain electricity in aba for a month

Pootle:
the 24hrs power supply is unattainable

Pootle:
rent is already over the moon,

Gotocourt:
Make Lagos flooding no carry train oooo

SixSeven:
Women don't have capacity for multiple heartbreaks or letting go of 9 other men especially if the 1 she chooses does not do well like the others.

Men do not perform well in a group interview setting. When a man realizes a woman is actively dating other men, his instinct is rarely to fight harder. Instead, he will protect his ego and steps back. He assumes the woman is not serious about him, so he stops investing emotionally.

This then creates a cycle where the woman thinks he does not care, but in reality, he is just matching her lack of exclusivity. This is why you see men wanting to know if there is someone else for you before you start dating. If he's not interested in knowing them, then he just wants to use you. Men know what they want but when they tell women, the options confuse them, that's why they keep choosing short term gains for long term grains.

Women are generally wired for emotional connection not multiple dating because it forces a woman to suppress her natural empathy and act like a manager. She has to constantly compare, analyze, and keep her guard up. This is why we also say it is difficult for women to cheat like men. It's not about competition. The nurturing nature of a woman is to care for her own. Even with children, give a woman 4 children, 1 for her , 1 from her sister and 2 from her in laws. You will see how she will treat them compared to her own child.


Treating dating like a game where the "winner is announced in church" will eventually backfires. You cannot build a deep foundation of trust while keeping nine other guys on reserve. The honest men who want a real connection will leave the game early because they dislike the drama. The only men who stay to "compete" are the players who enjoy the chase, meaning the woman usually ends up picking the most charismatic liar of the bunch. You got played sista!


Ps: this is another reason for having the marriage institution. To help the woman vet who is good for her in the long run, not for her to be playing cards like casino game

Apcshit:
This SW people are the problems in this country
Imagine voting APC with all that has happened

Angelfrost:
Nope... I don't need to support any Politician to make comments about happenings anywhere on Earth.

Your obsession with Obi might be really bad for your health.

Sultannayef:
Make amadioha kill you there

SeeWahala:
Yes I know. The truth is that there were people in NDC before we got there . . . Those ones might be the ones who will need directions and mobilisation, therefore a leader to coordinate it all.

We obidients we be breeze 🤗 we only need to blow Peter Obi into front of steering wheel to drive the country to a greater place

jenkate:
Honestly, everything you said is the plain truth. And let me add my own experience, the company I currently work for is a perfect example of this broken system. They don’t pay well, they don’t value staff, and the way they treat employees is nothing short of disrespectful. You give your time, your energy, your skills, and in return you’re treated like you’re easily replaceable.

The sad part is that many Nigerian employers have built a culture where workers are expected to “manage,” stay loyal, and be grateful for crumbs, while the owners enjoy the full benefits of everyone’s hard work. They preach passion, dedication, and sacrifice, but when it comes to compensation and welfare, they suddenly develop amnesia.

People have dreams. People have responsibilities. People want to grow. But how do you grow when your salary can’t even sustain you, talk less of helping you build anything meaningful?

Until employers start seeing their staff as human beings with goals, not tools, nothing will change. And that’s why many people are quietly planning their exit. Because at the end of the day, if you don’t build your own life, no employer will build it for you.

Africana1123:
Is that the reason why he turn Peter obi to boy boy

Look at the difference between how he treat Peter Obi and how he treats kwakwanso

udemejack:
Last year, someone has offered to setup this business for me at no cost and I was just lazying around,I am crying right now

Felabrity:
As na his personal money he use na