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I dunno if this is depression but I was thinking about my life and I see I have like zero friends. My social interaction is awkward and has always been right from secondary school. I was never popular and no matter how hard I try it always backfires. I have few but narrow range of interests which I m good at. I shy away from large social gatherings and sometimes I ve been scared to enter a room full of popular people cuz I feel intimidated by them and their social adeptness. I just bumped into some classmates of mine who are now married and rocking babies and I think me not being in that strata has something to do with it. I honestly don't know where introversion ends and Aspergers begins. I m supposed to be dating but I think 'he's just not that into me' as the movie title goes. Anyhow i dont think this has anything to do with him. This is all about me. I think I just have to accept that this is my life cuz whenever I compare it to others it's not worth it. Destiny........o destiny........this is what I am and I dunno how to change it. God is my strength . Pray for me

propofol: i wont even go down that road with you. justwise please answer my question. thanks.

I like the way you answered him. Hope you get a more reasonable answer to your very genuine question from sensible people like Justwise and Disguy.

Thanks guys for all your responses but its ok........don't need any more.thank y'all for taking time to answer

^^^no

Sisi_Kill: Sometimes it's. . .

How the. . .

Who honestly. . .

Sigh.

It's pointless.

Pls I don't understand.....

ileobatojo: Doesn't necessarily mean he's gay though I wouldn't exclude him being bisexual totally. But it could also be that he has strong liberal opinions in that matter and he could have been shocked/disappointed that you unflinchingly said you would stop loving the fruit of your own womb because they turned out gay. That's quite extreme don't you think so?

But sha make sure you find out for sure before tying the knot o. One can never be too sure these days Lol!!

Thank you for this

I just don't like gays....it's in my blood, I wouldn't harm them but I wouldn't want one under my roof............I apologize to all gays but please do you think he might be gay?

^^^^^huh? They can have their rights but I wouldn't want gay in my home dats all

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^^^^* ok then that's what I want to know......is he bisexual?

Enegod: another gay topic..wtf!!

Please leave the thread alone please.........

Afam4eva: He can't be GAY if he's dating you. Maybe he's pissed that the person he's dating could hate someone cos of who the person is. You should not discriminate against someone on the basis of sex, orientation, sexuality, nationality etc. Check yourself and not your boyfriend.

Are you sure he can't be a closet gay and date me?Okies......will check myself, I really don't want to be around gays , right from time, I m scared they will change my mentality and sens of right and wrong , same reason I wouldn't want my son to be gay...........it just doesn't gel, I just can't have peace of mind being around such........I m sorry, it's like asking me to accept pôrn. I just cant stand it

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