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701ecilana:
From did Christians start answering Alfa?

Google alfalfa.
Your mind was so closed you found what you wanted to fibd, congratulations. Just because you can't see it doesn't mean it isn't there.

menstrualpad:
Boy you don't know the implications of toying with the nonsense you are up to... And like I said only a candlelight in the wind Christian would ever contemplate such hideous idea..


And THERE'S NO WE!

This will be my last quote of your comments, thank you for your 2cents. Did you read when I wrote I am a product of such a union? My relationship with God is good same with my moms whose prayer and encouragement has kept the family through our trials.

menstrualpad:
Only a nominal Christian would even consider such rubbish

These are the sorts of comments we plan on avoiding, I told you I am Christian, yet you tag me nominal I seriously want to keep away from such; if you were Muslim how do you think your perception of Christianity would be born-again christian, or are you people under another title or divide I am not aware of?

GoodMuyis:
alfalfaking why am I having the thought that you cooking this up.

Any get understanding on Christian Marriage first. I knew an Igbira who married a muslim lady (same tribe) with parent consent and he brought her into church. If you are a Christian never expect a marriage from a core northern Muslim lady, her parent will never give consent no matter how much you offer. In fact you will reminded that you are kafir

We know this already, we want a way out probably from a core northern Muslim. My mother was Muslim but Igala she married my Dad who is Igala but christian. It isn't much of an issue around those axis cause they see each other as one extended family irrespective of religion.

"It is forbidden for a female Muslim to marry other than a Muslim and the hikmah behind this commandment from Allah is that, Allah tahala doesn't want His religion (Islam) to be at the buttom..He wants Islam to be the Head, you know when a Muslim man marries a woman ordinarily, He becomes the Head of the house and the sole authority in the home... Yeah.. That's the logic.. No religion should be above the religion of Allah and his Prophet Muhammad (pbuh)...na'am"

Ours started as kids we knew no religion, we only knew we were best friends, we were neighbors for many years, the best of our lives I would say. We struggled to math exercises together, our dads were lecturers, we grew up loving each other to the point when I officially asked her out then she brought up a phrase similar to the above, this was a blow because to God I have never seen her as different, we were cool I studied computer science left the country for a while, she journeyed into medicine she is a medical doctor today, very very smart for a lady, all my years outside the shores of Nigeria my mind would travel to her, she has told me if we were in different climes she would marry me, if I would pretend to change religion for her parents approval then we can travel out of Nigeria and be normal people again. I don't want to suggest running away from home and it would be bad for the family, her people all love me, but wouldn't support when it comes to marriage, I have seen Americans marry Muslims both ways, and it wasn't an issue, I don't know if this is God's doing or man making to further divide us. I and my girlfriend are based in the North she is from the Northwestern part of Nigeria and I still know of some Yoruba men, Ebira Men, Nupe Men, etc who find it almost as difficult because they are not Hausa's. I need suggestions on what to do please, we both are resolute on this, so I don't want any Christians or Muslims trying to tear us apart, we have turned down lots of other potential affairs with the hope this will work to our good. I would prefer comments from the Hausa's, probably it isn't much of an issue towards the west, I seek one and only one insightful and unbiased response to this quagmire. Maybe if we can make this work, ours would be a model for others to come.

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