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Mayng01:
At 14 to 19, it’s unfortunate that you have been having sex, I wonder if you were raped at 14 or it was consensual. Anyway, it’s a good thing you have presently lost interest, since you are still young, face your studies, move closer to God, and make sure you are very hardworking, focus on building a career & forget about men or women in relation to sex for now, after you have become something or someone meaningful in life I believe your libido would have improved with time, if not, come back to this platform, that would be the right time for us to advice you. Anyone advising you on sex now isn’t helping but leading you to destruction. May God assist you to heed........ A word

Thanks so much for your time and effort!
I just modified my post after reading your comment, I realized that I didn’t include my age.
I’m actually 26yrs old now and I’m done with my first degree.

Hi, greetings to everyone.

Please I need advice. Before now, I was sexually active. While growing up, I started having sex when I was 14yrs, I use to enjoy sex a lot with guys but suddenly when I became an adult, I noticed I stopped enjoying sex with guys. I noticed I was craving for a woman, at this point, I haven’t had sex with any girl yet (I was 19yrs).

So I decided to have sex with a girl so that all the craziness can stop because I know my mother will kill if she find out what am thinking (my mother and I are very close). But honestly, it become worse, I literally turned to lesbian sex addict. I had sex with any girl that showed interest on me, I even had sex with most of my friends ( I will indirectly lure them with nice things)

I know this is very wrong but I couldn’t tell anyone my problem not even my mom because I didn’t want to hurt her feelings! I decided to go to church and seek for deliverance, after delivery, it will feel like I’m healed but throughout that period, I will not be my normal self. I will be so lonely and depressed and before you know it, I will commit another sin.

I tried to get a man and fall in love with him but it didn’t go well because I couldn’t satisfy him sexually, I have gone to every church I can for deliverance and I have taken doctor’s prescription to boost my sexual libido but to no avail.

The only time I can have normal sex with a guy and enjoy it is when I’m on drugs.

I really hate myself and I have lost interest in having sex with everyone both men and women.

I don’t know how to improve my situation please help me.

I’m very scared of disappointing my mother! She means the world to me.

A little about myself.

I’m done with school and waiting for NYSC, would have been serving if not for covid 19.

I’m 26yrs old

I’m currently learning software engineering!